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By *umpwash OP   Man
over a year ago

portishead bristol

I have been on here for a while, I'm alway curtious when I send a message, I'm not a time waster, and verified, but I just can't seam to get any meets. I would love to meet a cpl for regulareets and friendship, what am I doing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice cheerful smile, you have been verified 3 times so not quite sure you are saying that you are struggling with meets? Maybe get rid of all that warning rubbish as its not worth the time you took to type it, meaningless garbage, utilise the space to write more about yourself instead. Oh yes, needs bum picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public picture, definitely lose all the legal gargon bit... Then add more info about yourself.

Also no punctuation or grammar makes it hard to read.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

The legal rubbish always makes me laugh.. If I wanted to copy anything on your profile including your fotos I could and there isnt a blind thing you could do.. and you have more on the copy and paste data than you have saying anything original.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a good start having that pic in your public gallery and you look like a friendly chap!

I'd save it as your profile pic though, a lot of users won't reply as soon as they see the silhouette...

Get rid of the legal bollocks as others have said and put some more about yourself instead, being imaginative.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, ive been on here a few weeks now, but had no luck. Ok, im a 'newbie', but we all had to start at the bottom. Ive sent quite a few nice messages out, but nobody ever replies!, they just ignore or block me! Surely not everyone on here is so ignorant? It only takes a few seconds to reply, even if its a thanks, but no thanks! Where am I going wrong? Advice please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, ive been on here a few weeks now, but had no luck. Ok, im a 'newbie', but we all had to start at the bottom. Ive sent quite a few nice messages out, but nobody ever replies!, they just ignore or block me! Surely not everyone on here is so ignorant? It only takes a few seconds to reply, even if its a thanks, but no thanks! Where am I going wrong? Advice please."

For starters you have two lines on your profile and 11 pictures which is great but 9 are different angles of your cock, boring! Even your gallery is full of them. Delete some and just have a small selection in the gallery; there is a torso one, use that one but turn it the right way. Add a bum shot (but not the one of your asshole) as us ladies like those. You need to say something about you, what you like doing not just here either, any dislikes, what you are looking for size wise or whether it matters. Can you travel, accommodate, are you interested in clubs or parties?

Do a search on the forums for profile help as there is loads done on this subject on a weekly basis.

So women say they have hundreds of messages per day so they don't have time to respond; your profile doesn't stand out from the rest hence your messages get ignored/deleted. And always read the profile before you send a message so you fit what someone is looking for. Patience is needed in abundance and use the forums, get yourself noticed but don't think women will automatically drop their knickers because they are swingers, personality is important, profile too, think of it as a shop window, at the moment its not closed but not even thinking about opening either. And don't put the warning notice on it, its garbage.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, ive been on here a few weeks now, but had no luck. Ok, im a 'newbie', but we all had to start at the bottom. Ive sent quite a few nice messages out, but nobody ever replies!, they just ignore or block me! Surely not everyone on here is so ignorant? It only takes a few seconds to reply, even if its a thanks, but no thanks! Where am I going wrong? Advice please."

Unfortunately I don't always get time to reply to everything, it isn't ignorance no, it is my a/c and up to me

The people you are messaging are you reading their profiles through? Checking that you match what they require?

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, thanks for help and advice. Its great to actually speak to someone on here! Im not sure how to turn my photo the right way round! Im viewing fabs on my mobile phone. Thanks again. X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here for a while, I'm alway curtious when I send a message, I'm not a time waster, and verified, but I just can't seam to get any meets. I would love to meet a cpl for regulareets and friendship, what am I doing wrong."

Dont normaly get to involved in profile advice as there are hundreds each month lol

however my three observations are;

1. Cut the legal notice crap - its OTT - put simplified version only if you must

2. Tell us more about YOU ie; your likes/dislikes

3. Great face pic - but why not add a semi naked body pic ?

Just my opinions only

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By *umpwash OP   Man
over a year ago

portishead bristol

Thanks for the feed back, have added another pic, as suggested, and changed my profile. Hopefully I might get some responses now.

Regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, thanks for help and advice. Its great to actually speak to someone on here! Im not sure how to turn my photo the right way round! Im viewing fabs on my mobile phone. Thanks again. X x "

Now that in not sure, maybe ask admin via the report button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feed back, have added another pic, as suggested, and changed my profile. Hopefully I might get some responses now.

Regards"

You still need to remove that 2nd paragraph - the 'legal' stuff is completely worthless - use it to write more about YOU....

And your a single guy, yes? So why can't you accommodate....??? Hmmm....??

And do you really want to be having sex with an 18yr old? Or a 99yr old for that matter. Something other than 18-99 shows 'to us' that you have given it a bit of thought....

Other than that - good luck. At least you've had meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, ive been on here a few weeks now, but had no luck. Ok, im a 'newbie', but we all had to start at the bottom. Ive sent quite a few nice messages out, but nobody ever replies!, they just ignore or block me! Surely not everyone on here is so ignorant? It only takes a few seconds to reply, even if its a thanks, but no thanks! Where am I going wrong? Advice please.

For starters you have two lines on your profile and 11 pictures which is great but 9 are different angles of your cock, boring! Even your gallery is full of them. Delete some and just have a small selection in the gallery; there is a torso one, use that one but turn it the right way. Add a bum shot (but not the one of your asshole) as us ladies like those. You need to say something about you, what you like doing not just here either, any dislikes, what you are looking for size wise or whether it matters. Can you travel, accommodate, are you interested in clubs or parties?

Do a search on the forums for profile help as there is loads done on this subject on a weekly basis.

So women say they have hundreds of messages per day so they don't have time to respond; your profile doesn't stand out from the rest hence your messages get ignored/deleted. And always read the profile before you send a message so you fit what someone is looking for. Patience is needed in abundance and use the forums, get yourself noticed but don't think women will automatically drop their knickers because they are swingers, personality is important, profile too, think of it as a shop window, at the moment its not closed but not even thinking about opening either. And don't put the warning notice on it, its garbage.

Good luck and welcome to Fab "

Fully agree with KK. Your profile narrative is 'woefully inadequate' - someone reading it will want to build a mental picture about you, and two lines just ain't 'cuttin the mustard' to us....

and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single guy who is 43 and carnt acomm Thats 1 problem

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