FabSwingers.com forum: Dominant Women. Do they exist?

By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

There seems to be endless amounts of submissives on here and other sites but unless i'm mistaken very few dominant woman. I'd love to hear from people in to this.

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes absolutely 5here is plenty of us. There's been quite a few threads about this recently. There are definitely more submissive women on here than dominant but there's still plenty of both.

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By *hiny69Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yep they sure do

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I can switch but I only find enjoyment with being dominant with certain types of guys. Guys that are not sissy’s, men who have a bit of fight in them

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By *orsetminx20Woman
over a year ago

Poole

"I can switch but I only find enjoyment with being dominant with certain types of guys. Guys that are not sissy’s, men who have a bit of fight in them "

I'm the same. Rarely do I find a guy I can dominate though

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I can switch but I only find enjoyment with being dominant with certain types of guys. Guys that are not sissy’s, men who have a bit of fight in them

I'm the same. Rarely do I find a guy I can dominate though

Rarely do I find one I want to. There has been a 10 year gap between the recent and the one before. I’m very particular.

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By *hil911Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I can't find any in Birmingham.

Kniky, you look lovely wearing a strap on.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Yes They are I am still looking for my wimpy sub cuckold hubby

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I never realised I was until I met Mr

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By *hinebrightMan
over a year ago

???

It would be a dream too find a some willing females too gang bang me one after another. Non stop fucking party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was wondering this myself. Me and my partner are looking for a woman to domme her, but have not found anything. Can't wait till its safe to go to clubs again

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I can switch but I only find enjoyment with being dominant with certain types of guys. Guys that are not sissy’s, men who have a bit of fight in them "

You could die trying!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Was wondering this myself. Me and my partner are looking for a woman to domme her, but have not found anything. Can't wait till its safe to go to clubs again "

L has a veri over this exact scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife Is a switch as I am.. we play the sub Dom dynamic and swap the dynamics even mid play..

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I can't find any in Birmingham.

Kniky, you look lovely wearing a strap on.

Why thank you

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

[Removed by poster at 04/03/21 08:13:11]

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

They do but there are hard to find. Believe me I have tried lol

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

Thanks to everyone that has responded. You have some very nice profiles. I am a predominantly submissive male so its good to know my search is not entirely in vain. I am happy to receive private messages from anyone interested that doesn't want to comment publicly. Happy fabbing.

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

I must agree with this post, that although they are "out there" their very hard to come by and then they do they're typically not interested.

It's tough, it honestly is but all I can say is keep post and you never know (as I keep getting told) they meet just one day message you!

I've been looking for 3 years now for a mistress so again.. not the most hopeful haha

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

This probably isn't the best website to find dominant ladies on.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Also it may help if you are direct in what you want from this dominant women. Dominance comes in many forms.

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I would love to find a Lady who would enjoy having a cuckold for a female led relationship

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"Also it may help if you are direct in what you want from this dominant women. Dominance comes in many forms. "

Loved Your profile You have a amazing body Miss

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Also it may help if you are direct in what you want from this dominant women. Dominance comes in many forms.

Loved Your profile You have a amazing body Miss "

Why thank you

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

My pleasure x

Wish I was closer to You.

I'm sure You could find a few uses for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wanting to explore my Domme side - I tried it and enjoyed it a lot, just need more confidence i think

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"I'm wanting to explore my Domme side - I tried it and enjoyed it a lot, just need more confidence i think "

What did You enjoy Vixen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm wanting to explore my Domme side - I tried it and enjoyed it a lot, just need more confidence i think

What did You enjoy Vixen?"

I enjoyed the power but also my ego loved how excited he was about it

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

"I can switch but I only find enjoyment with being dominant with certain types of guys. Guys that are not sissy’s, men who have a bit of fight in them "

Exactly this

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

"I enjoyed the power but also my ego loved how excited he was about it "

Im sure any guy would love the chance to serve you

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

"Also it may help if you are direct in what you want from this dominant women. Dominance comes in many forms. "
Thank you for your comments and guidance. As i am also in the south west i tried to send you a pm asking if would be ok to message you to chat about this but because i am a little over your age limit (53) i was blocked. If you are interested in chatting more on this you would need to message me first. I hope you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a domme for both male and female friends yes I am definitely real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a switch, just picky on who I play with and also like to get to know someone before any play. Think it's important to get to know them, as I can be sadistic.

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

A woman taking control is such a turn on

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

"I'm a switch, just picky on who I play with and also like to get to know someone before any play. Think it's important to get to know them, as I can be sadistic. "

Sadistic ones are scary

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

Some very nice profiles responding here. Thank you. If any of you are interested in chatting to a submissive male in or out of role play then i'd love to hear from you. I am also happy to travel if we got as far as wanting to meet (when it is safe of course).

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Being submissive myself, I find it super hard to find a dominant woman, I keep getting told tonnes of factors like: I'm too young, I have a baby face, or I'll find what I'm looking for.

I guess maybe you will too? I can only hope you do, it is very hard to find nowadays x

I know tonnes of people are put off by my kinks, typically even I send them a pictures (friends only) they block me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being submissive myself, I find it super hard to find a dominant woman, I keep getting told tonnes of factors like: I'm too young, I have a baby face, or I'll find what I'm looking for.

I guess maybe you will too? I can only hope you do, it is very hard to find nowadays x

I know tonnes of people are put off by my kinks, typically even I send them a pictures (friends only) they block me x"

I'm curious to know what these 'off-putting' kinks are now

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Mainly for me, latex, chastity, bondage, anal play :p

Mainly chastity that scares them off x

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

We are looking for a Dominant woman to join us as a couple. (Would post this from my couples account but it won’t let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mainly for me, latex, chastity, bondage, anal play :p

Mainly chastity that scares them off x"

Oh myyyyy that's tame - thought you meant extreme!!!

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

That what I thought too! It is quite tame compared, although I am looking to try more stuff! Do love strapon play too, but there's no dominants in Newcastle/Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That what I thought too! It is quite tame compared, although I am looking to try more stuff! Do love strapon play too, but there's no dominants in Newcastle/Gateshead

It is hard work on here!

If you can get to events at clubs, or even munchies(kink socials) nearby, that might be more successful for you!

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

I've been looking at online munches (currently going on in my area) but I tend to be to shy to talk

I do definitely have divers crossed in hope I can find a dominant, just like you in tact :Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met 2 of the Mistresses I’ve served long term on line, one I met in a group on Kik but she lived in America so I only served her online but the other I actually met on a vanilla dating site. Neither of us knew about the other’s kinks at first but as we got to know each other better we discussed what we were interested in and discovered we complimented each other very well. I served her for a few years in person as she lived close to me.

It is difficult to find a Domme who will allow you to serve her but there will be someone out there for you and when you find her it’ll definitely be worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been looking at online munches (currently going on in my area) but I tend to be to shy to talk

I do definitely have divers crossed in hope I can find a dominant, just like you in tact :Px"

Too shy to talk????

Yeah I'd deal with that first, cos at the end of the day, you'll eventually have to meet new people.

Good luck anyway....

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

"I met 2 of the Mistresses I’ve served long term on line, one I met in a group on Kik but she lived in America so I only served her online but the other I actually met on a vanilla dating site. Neither of us knew about the other’s kinks at first but as we got to know each other better we discussed what we were interested in and discovered we complimented each other very well. I served her for a few years in person as she lived close to me.

It is difficult to find a Domme who will allow you to serve her but there will be someone out there for you and when you find her it’ll definitely be worth the wait. "
Thank you for your response. I now have a Domme. We met back in August on a vanilla dating site.

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I’m naturally dominant but would love to meet a woman to dominate me against my usual instinct to take charge. Does that make sense?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes they do

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

And plenty of them.

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By *onest guy123Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Very difficult to find Domme ladies in the midlands xx

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By *xploring Gently OP Man
over a year ago

bath

Update : I have been in a d/s dynamic as the submissive since August. I found her on a vanilla dating site and had no idea when we started chatting. I am so happy. We may pop up here with a profile at some point soon but thats up to her not me

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