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Why do most women not like bi men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?

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By *elshman1967 99Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I guess that a lot of women don't get turned on by men who find other men attractive in the same way there are guys who find bi women a turn off , although admittedly that's incredibly rare , it's just personal preference , although I did see a post of a bi lady who stated she'd never play with a bi guy because she thought they'd fuck anything and were probably riddled with STI's which i thought was a little hypocritical and judgemental lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only enjoy oral and masturbation,

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Personally I don't see the problem with a man being bi but then I married a bi guy and I'm bi so would be a little hypocritical if I had problem

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By *BW BlondeWoman
over a year ago

Castleford

I love bi guys. I'd love a bi partner to explore with.... the search continues

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Ooh ergh... Checks Google maps ??

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "

That for me too. I love bi guys. 2 hot masculine men enjoying each other is just as hot as 2 feminine women having fun.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Hello all, looking for a lady after lockdown and when safe that would meet a bi man on the hope to have another bi man join us for some mutual fun, pm me please

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are also loads of ladies who have a preference for bi men, not everybody's going to like everything.

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By *mbisextrousCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/Glossop

I’d say just the same as men loving bi women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bi guys. I'd love a bi partner to explore with.... the search continues "

Yeah, I know a lady who's very similar although not bi herself. She just wants double the fun!

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

It all depends on the couples likes, not all woman like bi guys because it takes the attention away from them, others don’t like bi men because seeing two guys together do not turn them on. But you do have couples out there that they are both bi or bi curious that love to see their hubby or partner playing and sucking cock, I have been with st8 couples bi I have also been with bi and bi curious couples that enjoyed sharing my cock together

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

It does not turn me on to think that a man I am with finds men sexy.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Huge turn on for us, we don't want straight guys, bi fun all the way xxx

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

My experience is that it's a polarising view - Women either think it's a turn-off, or a total turn-on, with the majority in the latter group - very few are just neutral.

Like the OP, I only enjoy masturbation and oral with likeminded guys - no interest (or desire) for anal or kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to meet a lady who is into bi mmf together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Check my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stigma mostly that bi / gay men all have nurgles rot .

Then the mental aspect that man on man is not right , manly enough (ironic as gay sex is about manliness ) also pops in for some women I guess.

Another one which a few of my hetro female friends tell me is simply that some women feel threatened by it as in how would they know If the guy is really enjoying it with them or thinking of a guy at same time . Esteem / egos are interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a few bi guys and even better 2 bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.

That for me too. I love bi guys. 2 hot masculine men enjoying each other is just as hot as 2 feminine women having fun."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

I am bi curious just want to masterbate a penis and possibly suck

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I’ve met a few bi guys and even better 2 bi guys "

*and* you have a dominant side?

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

I love watching hubby get sucked by a guy while I get to play with a pussy

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

Competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

Well I suspect that the bi ladies you are contacting are properly on here looking for female rather than male partners. Could also be there are not interested in you and using the "bi" thing as an easy get out to save more longwinded reason for rejecting you.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

Men have a penis, women have a vagina.

Sorry couldn’t resist.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

I have had plenty of guys meet me and they ask that I don't leave a verification. When I asked why, the response has always been, 'nobody knows I am bi', or, 'women/couples wont meet me if they knew'. xx

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "
I do not play dress up. A comment like that infuriates me.

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.

I do not play dress up. A comment like that infuriates me. "
xx

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

So I guess I used to be anti bi men.....

- I had the notion that bi men run a higher risk of having STIs and specifically HIV. Which is based on fact of statistics - and still something I'm mindful of but so long as testing and safer sex is in place....

- Also.... it's depends on the situation for me. I want to be with a Dominant man as my life partner. Seeing him be fucked seems submissive to me (not saying it is but to me it seems it)...

- But would I have a bi Dominant partner and we have MMFs and he fucks the other .... yeah sure!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

I have no objections to my man playing with other guys,

in fact, I find it a turn on.

Besides, as I like to play with ladies it would be very unfair of me to object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A MMF with 2 bi men is one of my biggest turn on’s

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By *exaddicted80Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of the girls i talked with,actually finding bi guys attractive. Hell fuck, we all love to see two girls playing, why shouldn't they too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does not turn me on to think that a man I am with finds men sexy. "

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone has their turn ons, and turn offs. I have good luck with ladies/couples that enjoy a orally bi mmf every once in a while.. Obviously with the female being the centre of attention fo the evening with the odd dabble..

Choices, its great that we can choose..

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Men and Women have different feelings and that will always be the case. Most (not all) Women are turned off by Men playing with each other. Of the profiles that say they like it, mostly (not all) it will be a Man posting. Everyone likes what they like though, so live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem like a real fun person ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got go put it out there I'd love you to rail me libby????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised to see as many genetic ladies appreciate this. Just where are you all hiding?

Now why should an item of clothing put you ladies off though.. it's just that an item of clothing even if it's a Basque and stockings there items of clothing, nothing more.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

we are like marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m a bi guy and love joining bi couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bi partner for several years and his conduct put me off bi men in general. I know he isnt the norm and its not fair to judge others based on what he did but I cant help the fact that it has turned me off relationships with bi men....in a purely play context its less of an issue.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy. "

How you feel about pre-op transgender woman

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Whether a man is bi or not is pretty irrelevant to me, in fact it can sometimes be an advantage. Ultimately though it just comes down to whether I like/am interested in the person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m glad they don’t like bi guys..... more for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look for negativity,and you will find negativity.I have seen posts were straight men complaining that some women are only looking bi men

Instead of looking for what you don't match,why not concentrate on those you do match

You may be surprised by the outcome.

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

I love bi guys!

Bi boy fun is hot and horny...

For me it brings another level of kink for me

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Look for negativity,and you will find negativity.I have seen posts were straight men complaining that some women are only looking bi men

Instead of looking for what you don't match,why not concentrate on those you do match

You may be surprised by the outcome."

So true

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"I find bi guys a huge turn on and love to see two bi guys kissing or sucking each other. Or even more. But they have to be manly and not playing dress up, as CDs and TVs do nothing for me. Post-op TS- that's a different story, as they live full time as women and have female anatomy.

How you feel about pre-op transgender woman "

As pre-op means they still have male parts of the anatomy, they are not for me, sorry. But I'm sure there are plenty of others who'd be very interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A very wide and interesting views have come out, I only enjoy oral and masturbation but I would like to try pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first Mmf tame one with just some oral. All I can say is it ruined straight men for me in a way. Was so sexy! Such a turn on. I've never had anything against bi men as I'm bisexual. Just never been with any until now. Definitely a game changer

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham


"So I guess I used to be anti bi men.....

- I had the notion that bi men run a higher risk of having STIs and specifically HIV. Which is based on fact of statistics - and still something I'm mindful of but so long as testing and safer sex is in place....

I am the dominant one in our relationship and when at clubs I am the master . But as we are a partnership I also appreciate that the wife has a dominant streak and I encourage this . If on a night she wants to be in charge then fine . If she wants to use a strapon then fine it doesnt make me any less of a man but it gets her so turned on and I enjoy it too so why shouldn't she fuck my ass . As for bi play just becauce you play with a guy as the top or the bottom doesnt mean you have lost any of your masculinity. Well for us anyway

- Also.... it's depends on the situation for me. I want to be with a Dominant man as my life partner. Seeing him be fucked seems submissive to me (not saying it is but to me it seems it)...

- But would I have a bi Dominant partner and we have MMFs and he fucks the other .... yeah sure! "

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Also we have some bi parties and have to say having 25 bi couples round your house and single women wanting to come to to us means there are alot more women who like bi men than maybe you think

For us meets are bi all the way wife gets so turned on bi it all

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By *6996Man
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

When are you free I can bring my friend x

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

I see a lady who clearly stated she wouldnt verify me because she doesnt want a bi man on her profile.

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest


"I am finding that a lot of single women are not interested in bi men but they are bi themselves, so what is the difference ?"

Like with any thing it comes down to personal preference, I adore bi men x seek and you shall find my friend xx

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