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By *omadicVyking OP   Man
over a year ago

dartmoor

Morning fabulous people, I'm going mad or am I?

So I've been on and off here a while, this time round a few weeks now, I've never had an issue getting ladies in real life, BUT! Recently it just impossible to even get someone to chat let alone talk about an eventual meet, im now paranoid that im just a freak, I get no replies to any messages I send to anyone and lots don't even get read, is this just a sign of the times, by that I mean is this place just flooded with males so that basically ladies have a massive choice and normal blokes like me have no chance whatsoever? Or is something wrong with my profile? Any help or advice would be very much appreciated, TIA

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" Or is something wrong with my profile? Any help or advice would be very much appreciated, TIA "

People may find your profile a bit self centred "bored, someone amuse me" "looking to satisfy my sexual desires" "you...most of all into me".

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By *omadicVyking OP   Man
over a year ago

dartmoor


" Or is something wrong with my profile? Any help or advice would be very much appreciated, TIA

People may find your profile a bit self centred "bored, someone amuse me" "looking to satisfy my sexual desires" "you...most of all into me". "

Thanks for the feedback

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah expand your bio a little and maybe add some more tantalising pictures that might help. Other than that have patience single ladies on here do get swamped with messages.

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By *omadicVyking OP   Man
over a year ago

dartmoor


"Yeah expand your bio a little and maybe add some more tantalising pictures that might help. Other than that have patience single ladies on here do get swamped with messages. "

On it as we speak, cheers

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Perhaps people are "chatted out" , they have been trying to maintain on going conversations with virtual strangers for the best part of a year with no end in sight and don't wish to add to an ever growing list .

That's definitely my position , bar engaging with forumites or Brad Pitt ( joke ) himself messaging me , I'm not taking any application

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By *omadicVyking OP   Man
over a year ago

dartmoor


"Perhaps people are "chatted out" , they have been trying to maintain on going conversations with virtual strangers for the best part of a year with no end in sight and don't wish to add to an ever growing list .

That's definitely my position , bar engaging with forumites or Brad Pitt ( joke ) himself messaging me , I'm not taking any application "

I was thinking similar?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a general profile that’s similar to thousands of other guys profiles. It doesn’t stand out in any way.

You don’t have to be totally unique but you do need to entice somewhat, with what you’re offering.

The easiest way to create a better profile is to do some research and put in some effort afterwards. Look at other guys who are on this site. When you find one or two with a lot of verifications, see what it is that’s making them stand out. Do they go to clubs, have great bodies or a handsome face, regularly post on the forums or written something on their profile that makes them stand out a bit, maybe professional photos ?

Whatever it is, they’re the ones which will help you more than endless bits of advice on this thread. As there’s endless threads on the forums asking for profile advice that the majority don’t bother using.

Good luck

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Profile looking much better. Great you took advice onboard

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Op it's only going to improve once the country is able to resume normality you just got to be patient or think outside the box

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