FabSwingers.com forum: When the floodgates open...

By *x Smith OP Man
over a year ago

East Lancs

When Covid is conquered, when the vaccines protect us, or enough of us to make safe swinging possible, I know what I wanna do...

I’m 42, openly bi since my late teens. I’m in a long term relationship with another man, 10 years this April!

I love my fella but something happened a few years ago that changed his sex drive, now he’s no longer interested and identifies as homo-amorous yet asexual. He encourages me to seek satisfaction elsewhere and I sought encounters in saunas and bi nights at swinger clubs. I went to a few and hadn’t mustered the courage to really let myself go. I made it a New Year Resolution in 2020 to break that confidence barrier and fulfil a few fantasies.

Coinciding with this New Year Resolution (and being gig-ready in a new band), Covid struck. Twelve months on, everything is still on hold, and likely not much will change in that regard for months to come. So, when venues reopen (and when I think it’s safe enough, which may be a bit later), the breaks are off!

I hope some of you reading this will connect with my hopes for later this year. Here’s some of the things I’d like to indulge in – if theses are the things you like to indulge in too, check by my profile and write me.

I wanna:

- Be the bottom in a gay gangbang with two, three or four tops

- Be in the same scenario as a top

- Be in a bisexual/pansexual orgy with five or more other participants

- Other group-sex

I also get a kick out of watching and being watched.

I only do safe sex, and I’m not into pain. I sometimes blur genders but I identify as male. I’d like to meet in clubs or private gatherings in the North of England – 90 minutes drive from Blackburn, ideally.