FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

fairly new guy seeking profile advice

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks,

I'm fairly new here and would like some advice on my profile.

I've got a thick skin so I reckon I can take most of the comments in my stride.

I'd be grateful if anyone can spare the time to have a look and pass comment.

Thanks in advance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your text, you're straightforward enough about what you're after, with no annoyances such as txtspk or bad grammer to put a spanner in the works.

A bit more imagination thrown in perhaps as you mainly seek women, who are generally more turned on by having the whole scene painted for them so to speak. But by and large its not a bad effort.

The biggest problem however is your pics in your public gallery. Your friends gallery may be absolutely marvellous but to attract women who are casually browsing again you probably need to depict more than you do. You have three shots of nothing other than your cock which would probably be enough for some casual encounters with other single guys, but again women usually want more than that. For all they know you could be quasimodo, admittedly with a larger than average dick but that alone will not get you too far. I can understand keeping face pics private (hell mine are in my friends gallery though I usually send one with the first reply to any femme I am intrigued by) but try and sell other attributes of your body or imagination with more extravagent and varied shots. At present sadly a lot of ladies will think you are merely a bloke with a decent sized penis, but fuck all in the imagination department or comfortable with other parts of your body. This probably isn't the case, but unfortunately it is an impression a lot will get. Sort this though and you have the makings of a pretty good profile!

Good luck mate!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Nothing wrong with your text, you're straightforward enough about what you're after, with no annoyances such as txtspk or bad grammer to put a spanner in the works.

A bit more imagination thrown in perhaps as you mainly seek women, who are generally more turned on by having the whole scene painted for them so to speak. But by and large its not a bad effort.

The biggest problem however is your pics in your public gallery. Your friends gallery may be absolutely marvellous but to attract women who are casually browsing again you probably need to depict more than you do. You have three shots of nothing other than your cock which would probably be enough for some casual encounters with other single guys, but again women usually want more than that. For all they know you could be quasimodo, admittedly with a larger than average dick but that alone will not get you too far. I can understand keeping face pics private (hell mine are in my friends gallery though I usually send one with the first reply to any femme I am intrigued by) but try and sell other attributes of your body or imagination with more extravagent and varied shots. At present sadly a lot of ladies will think you are merely a bloke with a decent sized penis, but fuck all in the imagination department or comfortable with other parts of your body. This probably isn't the case, but unfortunately it is an impression a lot will get. Sort this though and you have the makings of a pretty good profile!

Good luck mate! "

Mr Lick has pretty much summed it up for me. I always look.at the profile before reading the message. I wouldn't have read your profile as your username and avatar would've put me off. I did look though and public pics only of your cock confirms my initial thoughts.

At the end of the day it's my opinion and you can't please everyone. If your profile works for you...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that folks.

That's just the kind of feedback I was looking for.

I'll see what I can do about adding some pics.

I have taken some care over the text so it's good to hear that it comes across ok.

Personally, I hate textspeak and sloppy spelling

It's interesting to read Mr Lick talking about attracting single guys.

I had to put on my profile that I'm not looking for more single guys, I have an ample supply already

I still tend to get a couple of messages a day but it has dropped down to a reasonable number now

Thanks again for your help

Biggie

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can put a privacy filter on to stop single guys from messaging you first

and yeah your profiles pretty open and honest, i think you just need pictures that show face and body and you will get more couples and women interested in you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top