FabSwingers.com forum: Verification

By *L3001 OP Man
over a year ago

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Still not verified nor managed to meet anyone on here in 2 years, I know I don’t have public pics due to my job and wanting to stay private, been on cam many times people have said they would veri me but haven’t, a lot of couples and singles won’t touch me without verification but I can’t get one? Really want to play with some gorgeous singles and couples on here but don’t seem to be getting much or any luck, any ideas?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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We are in the middle of a pandemic, you are not likely to get any meets now. Why not join in in chat or the forum, it will let you get known and hopefully in chat get you a cam veri

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By *L3001 OP Man
over a year ago

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"We are in the middle of a pandemic, you are not likely to get any meets now. Why not join in in chat or the forum, it will let you get known and hopefully in chat get you a cam veri"

Yeah, I wasn’t saying about meeting now I mean in general, been on here 2 years, been on the webcams too and not been verified which when it is safe to meet again, doesn’t help my chances

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

Put some photos up on profile but private ?? Friends only

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

As everyone is now in the same place, not being able to meet, the time between then and now could be useful to plan and improve potential for you.

If your job involves lots of people seeing all of your body, it's understandable that you can show off nothing, in public pics. If it doesn't, you could potentially find something physically to show that won't give you away.

I think profiles with pics will get more attention from others than those without. I specifically exclude people without any pics when I do searches for people here. You would never appear on my list, nor that of others who search for men in the same way.

Just that 1 change will make you more accessible and appropriate for many here.

It's worthwhile looking at any other opportunities that could improve your potential for success. Most of the single men for the past year have stayed unverified, save for those who used cams. It's less of a deal breaker than it was before the pandemic.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"Still not verified nor managed to meet anyone on here in 2 years, I know I don’t have public pics due to my job and wanting to stay private, been on cam many times people have said they would veri me but haven’t, a lot of couples and singles won’t touch me without verification but I can’t get one? Really want to play with some gorgeous singles and couples on here but don’t seem to be getting much or any luck, any ideas?"

Personally I wouldn't even look at a profile without at least one pic visible

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I've given cam veris to people and they haven't received them and also people have verified me and I've not received them I think its a bit hit and miss at the moment x

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham West Midlands

"I've given cam veris to people and they haven't received them and also people have verified me and I've not received them I think its a bit hit and miss at the moment x"

If the other user doesn't fit within your filters the verification might not save. I tend to add people to my friends list then do verifications for them

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
over a year ago

Op when you go in the chatrooms have you actually asked if anyone would mind verifying you. As if you don't ask how do people know, they aren't mind readers.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

If it was normal times and the distance wasn't as far as it is then we would consider meeting with you, with or without verifications, as you fit what we are looking for.

However the total lack of any form of a picture would put us off entirely. It's great to see a face pic, but if you are concerned about showing your face then there are plenty of other pics you could upload that won't identify you. Sorry to say it but we have been messed around in the past by people that 'can't upload a pic' and your profile would trigger the warning bells for us. You were given the self same advice by many well meaning people six months ago, but you still haven't acted on it. Your choice, but it's probably a factor in why your not having much luck.

Returning to the question of verifications, use the forum and cam rooms to get to know a few people and then ask them to verify you on cam. We often verify someone we have spoken to on cam. It needs to be more than just a simple wave over the cam, but if theres some interaction, chat, maybe even flirting, then we will happily verify people. And yes, that also includes people that don't meet our profile. If you just sit there expecting people to click your cam and then verify you then you are somewhat off the mark. Interaction is critical.

Have a think about it. Good luck

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

North West

A kindly request from you good people. Been on here 3 months+ and due to the lock as we all know, no meets. I have tried in the cam rooms but to no avail.

Could someone please verify me I am genuinely real and exist lol. Its not a fake profile and not a time waster. I have been doing this for many years now. I just wanted to post a video and it won't allow me to because I am not verified.

Thank you in advance for anyone's help appreciate it

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
over a year ago

"A kindly request from you good people. Been on here 3 months+ and due to the lock as we all know, no meets. I have tried in the cam rooms but to no avail.

Thank you in advance for anyone's help appreciate it

Not sure what you asking for here? If people haven't met you or seen you on cam how exactly are they meant to verify you?

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