FabSwingers.com forum: Hello there!

By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

This is something that’s probably posted at least once a day in the forums.

Bottom line is that men vastly outnumber women on here and as such they have a lot of messages in their inbox, so they can’t realistically reply to everyone. Try to make your message stand out, you should be thinking why should a women reply to your message but not another one of the hundreds in their inbox?

Also, this is probably the worst time for chatting to new people as we are in lockdown, most want to keep in contact with friends! Nobody is meeting so making new connections to meet is rather pointless right now.

Make your profile original and stand out from the rest, 1 or 2 lines of text that don’t really state what you’re looking for isn’t going to make women jump all over you.

Importantly, women don’t have to reply to anyone on here they don’t want to, so expecting a reply is not something you should think about.

Try the forums or chat rooms, you might make some new friends or chat to others.

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