FabSwingers.com forum: Not much luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi we are new to the swing scene and not had much luck or interests is it our profile any hint or tips would be great to make us more appealing and if any essex swingers are interested please message dan and vikki x

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Hi we are new to the swing scene and not had much luck or interests is it our profile any hint or tips would be great to make us more appealing and if any essex swingers are interested please message dan and vikki x "

Not sure If you have noticed, but theres a pandemic going on ... just a thought..

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

You look great..

If I was being picky, I’d say it’s written very much from a male perspective, And also pretty bad grammar..

Most couples want to know they’re talking to both in a couple..

And good grammar for most is important..

But just an observation..

Without Covid, you’d be doing great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No we know that we not looking to meet now obviously when it’s safe to do so but it’s just that no couples seem interested in talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ill get this sorted out

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"No we know that we not looking to meet now obviously when it’s safe to do so but it’s just that no couples seem interested in talking "

Theres little point tbh. You chat for a bit then loose contact.. no ones meeting for the foreseeable future. Rotten time to choose to start swinging.

Ps good luck finding a single woman too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse "

This site works very well..

Easy to blame the site ..

I’m on my third profile in 10 years on here and never had trouble meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse "

You've only been on for 8 weeks during a pandemic!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could our age difference be a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse

You've only been on for 8 weeks during a pandemic!!"

Why would tell someone else to try a new site when you aren’t yourself

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Could our age difference be a factor "

Nothing wrong with your age or pics. Just bad timing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse

You've only been on for 8 weeks during a pandemic!!

Why would tell someone else to try a new site when you aren’t yourself

Was I the one asking question no and I Hahn tried other sites before but being a single male it's different on a swinging site that is really for couples more than singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse

You've only been on for 8 weeks during a pandemic!!

Why would tell someone else to try a new site when you aren’t yourself

Was I the one asking question no and I Hahn tried other sites before but being a single male it's different on a swinging site that is really for couples more than singles "

I agree it’s impossible now on here but I’m still laughing and popping the odd time. No offence meant just laugh at peoples reaction to honest questions

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We used to get many many messages until I made our profile read clearly that it is written by and run by the male.

This has seem the number of messages we receive drop massively.

So if you write your profile together so its clearly written by both you will definitely get far more interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No we know that we not looking to meet now obviously when it’s safe to do so but it’s just that no couples seem interested in talking "

Your profile says you are looking to meet.

The majority of the text is pointless warnings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s been changed thank you

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately."

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are not looking to meet now of course we would like to meet someone but obviously until it’s safe to do so I a couple or woman message to say they wanted to meet now I’d delete them as that is just stupid

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either. "

Oh of course, I’d like to think that should be obvious but apparently lots of people still don’t get it!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either.

Oh of course, I’d like to think that should be obvious but apparently lots of people still don’t get it!"

Yes, and still pondering this question you asked as well.. "Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d understand if my profile said meet now that would mean now but if it says meet that could mean when ever

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either.

Oh of course, I’d like to think that should be obvious but apparently lots of people still don’t get it!

Yes, and still pondering this question you asked as well.. "Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight?" "

That sort of thing always makes me think it’s just a man pretending to be a couple, or the woman has been pressured into a threesome she doesn’t want, or the bi woman who joins them is expected to put on a show for the man and get nothing out of it herself. I steer very clear!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either.

Oh of course, I’d like to think that should be obvious but apparently lots of people still don’t get it!

Yes, and still pondering this question you asked as well.. "Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight?"

What utter nonsense..

Why does a woman have to be bi ?

So many couples looking for straight guys.. it’s exactly the same..

They may want a straight woman.. jeeez

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Get rid of the “legal notice”, it’s meaningless bollocks and puts people off because it makes you look naive.

Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight? I’d take one look at that and delete your message immediately.

This coupled with the fact the OP's have only joined 6 weeks ago and shouldn't be looking to meet in the middle of a pandemic either.

Oh of course, I’d like to think that should be obvious but apparently lots of people still don’t get it!

Yes, and still pondering this question you asked as well.. "Why are you looking for a single woman for threesomes when the female half is straight?"

What utter nonsense..

Why does a woman have to be bi ?

So many couples looking for straight guys.. it’s exactly the same..

They may want a straight woman.. jeeez"

Tell that to all the straight couples in my inbox.

With straight couples who want a straight man, it’s usually very clear that he will only be playing with the woman. OP’s profile doesn’t make it clear what is expected of the woman joining them, whether they want a straight woman, or who they expect her to play with. If they’re a cuckquean couple, and the woman will only have sex with the man while his wife watches, they should say that.

Don’t tell me I’m talking nonsense when I have 18 months of experience as a bi woman on here and you have none.

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By *is_a_visMan
over a year ago

Cambridge/ London but often Herts/ East Anglia

Being perfectly honest, I would try and increase use of punctuation. It can make messages and especially your profile very hard to read.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Maybe some better pics ? Not everyone is a gynaecologist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less close up pictures and more full body. Plus we're in lockdown so everyone will be in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some better pics ? Not everyone is a gynaecologist x"

Wish there was high five emoji haha

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

"Maybe some better pics ? Not everyone is a gynaecologist x

Wish there was high five emoji haha "

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Your profile is 75% none legal nonsense that has less legal standing then a gentleman's handshake, shows you didn't really check out t&c upon joining (they are all pretty much the same on all social sites and void the "legal nonsense").

The other 25% needs a few fullstops as was hard to read as 1 sentence.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Personally ur pics r all cocks n pussy. Not appealing to me. I'd rather read a profile that shows your personalities. And that legal mumbo jumbo is pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a different site there are so many better sites out there good luck though this site has been like this for years now and will get worse

You've only been on for 8 weeks during a pandemic!!

Why would tell someone else to try a new site when you aren’t yourself

Was I the one asking question no and I Hahn tried other sites before but being a single male it's different on a swinging site that is really for couples more than singles "

Why on earth would you think its just for couples rather than singles ?

I have been on fab since day one 14 yrs ago. Yes its has its up and downs over those years . But all in all its been great .

I dont do women or couples so single lads are my aim.

Altho not right now it hasnt . But dont give the site a bad name as you only get out of fab what you are prepared to put in.

To the OP . Try getting in the chatrooms talking to folk. Its always a good start . Get on cam if you like let people see who you are in every day life .

Just a thought . X

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

It's not a bad profile ..However in times of Covid like everyone you have Bob Hopes chance of meets on here. There's a few scutty couples and singles on here still trying to meet though . That's obvious .

It probably seems weird saying it as a single guy but I would think about changing some of the photos in your profile .. more body/ physique shots than really close ups of fanny and cock etc save them to private maybe ? And just a few sexy erotic pics on general display would work better for you I would think .. ..but it's your space so do what you please obviously .

Stay safe

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