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By *an.thisMan
over a year ago
Torbay & Bournemouth |
Hi all I would also like to discuss and share my expectancies as well as hear others people stores. What I would also like to see how, why, and when, did they decide to become sexually free wanting and preferring this lifestyle.!Which after experiencing it myself I could and wouldn’t ever get back in a long term relationship that is unless like so many of you lucky men out there I also find a lovely lady who also preferres this lifestyle as well then that would make me the happiest man on earth. After my bad experience of being with someone who accused me for for over 15 years that I perverted, sick in the head, I had something was wrong with me for wanting to try and spice up our sex life because it had become dull, predictable and boring and she new it as well, wouldn’t try not once because she was bought up a good old catholic girl and anything other than traditional sex ie vanilla was disgusting and even looking at porn together was wrong, so I knew any thoughts I had of wild Sex parties, orgies, or trying anal was never going to happen. But because my parents had been together for over 30 years, I knew because I loved her and that I would never cheat on her i had no choice other than suppress my feeling for her happiness for as long as I could as could but I didn’t last I had no choice to end it and even though she told everyone it was my fault I didn’t care anymore I Had become so miserable for so long I Swar I would do what I liked regardless of anyone else's opinion. So when it did finally end the first thing I did was try swinging and have never looked back or been happier. But I’d like to hear other people stories as it’s not easy being the minority and not following the majority like all the others. Plus I have also never felt jealousy over anyone of my ex partners, I actually found it arousing when other men tried to hit on them? and why wouldn’t they ?? all of them where gorgeous sexy women and still they still are and we are still good friends I just could cope with the jealousy and they had no adventure. But that was also a problem they all took my lack of jealousy as I wasn’t being protective enough or that I didn’t love them enough and because they all had previous extremely jealous partnerst they confused their jealousy with love instead of being over controlling . So I’m interested in listening to the couple and how they got into swinging as unfortunately I have never had the pleasure or opportunity of ever finding a partner who was like me. So im so envious of all the lucky couple on here who have found a perfect match I’d like to see how , why, they don’t seem to mind share their partners who you can see like myself they clearly adored their partners just like i loved my my wife so I’m also interested to see if they are also missing the jealousy jean or if not how they deal with it. |
