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"I am hoping " Shouldn’t be waiting long xxx | |||
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"I know of 10s of people who have got together on here. I believe relationships can be found anywhere, and where better than a shared interest or hobby. Good luck op " Thankyou ...... xxxx | |||
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"It's not a dating site. But the ones you mentioned aren't swinging sites. It's probably easier to turn a swinger meet into a relationship, than introduce a vanilla date to swinging. Good luck to everyone who is single but would prefer not to be." Pretty sure by mentioning the other 3 dating sites I made it obvious that I am aware it’s not a dating site as I’ve been here since 2015. Totally understand what you mean about the meet situation, sometimes it’s hard as a single male as I’m sure you can appreciate. Cheers fella, good luck and enjoy the lifestyle xx | |||
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"We met here on Fab and are having the time of our lives!! Both so in tune with each other it’s uncanny. Good luck in your pursuit of finding love xx " Thankyou guys | |||
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"I am hoping " Then we need to meet up! X | |||
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"We met on here. We were not looking for relationships. But there was just something there from our first meet and the rest is history. If you want the lifestyle as part of your future relationship I would say this is the perfect site to find dates. Most people aren't swingers but obviously generally people on here are and would also like that as an aspect going into a relationship. So removing that elephant in the room and avoiding potential wasted time you can concentrate with getting to know each other. Just because your both swingers doesn't mean you can't do the whole normal dating process just with knowledge that if things progress your both open to remaining in the scene." I agree totally with your analogy xx | |||
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"I’ve done the pof match etc stuff and you’d be extremely lucky to find someone into swinging in my experience. Too much vanilla for me. " POF Isn't quite as vanilla as you think... Some of the guys in here I recognised on there... Some are on there just to hook up. | |||
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"I’ve done the pof match etc stuff and you’d be extremely lucky to find someone into swinging in my experience. Too much vanilla for me. POF Isn't quite as vanilla as you think... Some of the guys in here I recognised on there... Some are on there just to hook up. " Be interesting to see if any ladies from here are there, but percentage wise I’ve more chance of finding a lady from here on here | |||
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"We met on here. We were not looking for relationships. But there was just something there from our first meet and the rest is history. If you want the lifestyle as part of your future relationship I would say this is the perfect site to find dates. Most people aren't swingers but obviously generally people on here are and would also like that as an aspect going into a relationship. So removing that elephant in the room and avoiding potential wasted time you can concentrate with getting to know each other. Just because your both swingers doesn't mean you can't do the whole normal dating process just with knowledge that if things progress your both open to remaining in the scene." And what a lovely couple you are x | |||
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"I know of 10s of people who have got together on here. I believe relationships can be found anywhere, and where better than a shared interest or hobby. Good luck op " This ^^^^ yes many fab couples have met on here, which is so lovely | |||
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"We were both single on here 5 years ago. The day we were due to meet for the first time that time of the month hit. D asked me to go on a date with him instead. We both deleted our profiles before we had even met. 2 weeks later we were engaged. Today is our third wedding anniversary. It really does happen. But the big difference for me was D had a great well written profile, sent me a proper first message that was a couple of paragraphs long and was just perfect for me. It happens. Keep looking xx" Gosh. Happy anniversary. | |||
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"It's not really working.. Guys turn into alpha male and that's where swinging ends, unless its mff offer. Guys here (not all obviously) are not swingers, they just want to get laid. I'm not much of a swinger myself, I'm straight, so I would enjoy cuck type more than full swing thing. Finding someone adventurous would be good start for me. " This is precisely what I think will work for me, not to label it as anything other than, I would like a woman who has a higher sex drive than me. As such I wouldn’t want to play with other women per say. But I find the prospect of her openly playing a tremendous turn on! | |||
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"I met an amazing man on here. For obvious reasons we will never be a couple but if he wanted to go "exclusive" then I would do it. " That's pretty much my scenario. Me and my last regular were playing for over 3 years,only with each other. Going exclusive has some benefits | |||
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"I met an amazing man on here. For obvious reasons we will never be a couple but if he wanted to go "exclusive" then I would do it. That's pretty much my scenario. Me and my last regular were playing for over 3 years,only with each other. Going exclusive has some benefits " I would like nothing more than to know we were mutually exclusive....Time will tell! Covid has put a serious barrier in our way though | |||
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"It's not really working.. Guys turn into alpha male and that's where swinging ends, unless its mff offer. Guys here (not all obviously) are not swingers, they just want to get laid. I'm not much of a swinger myself, I'm straight, so I would enjoy cuck type more than full swing thing. Finding someone adventurous would be good start for me. " cuck type in the making here! Pity we are so far away | |||
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"I'm so happy to say it does happen. It was never in my mind to look for a relationship on here. In the beginning I had my reservations if it was the right thing to do but as time has gone on I know it was " Whats happened to make you think that way | |||
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"I'm so happy to say it does happen. It was never in my mind to look for a relationship on here. In the beginning I had my reservations if it was the right thing to do but as time has gone on I know it was Whats happened to make you think that way " I honestly couldn't say on here | |||
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"I am also hoping but not holding my breath " No way will you be waiting long xx | |||
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"I am also hoping but not holding my breath No way will you be waiting long xx " I'm still waiting lol | |||
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"It's not really working.. Guys turn into alpha male and that's where swinging ends, unless its mff offer. Guys here (not all obviously) are not swingers, they just want to get laid. I'm not much of a swinger myself, I'm straight, so I would enjoy cuck type more than full swing thing. A shame your age range is just a touch to low. I'm sure you will be inundated with offers x Finding someone adventurous would be good start for me. " | |||
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"I am also hoping but not holding my breath No way will you be waiting long xx I'm still waiting lol " Come over to my inbox your wait might not be long if I have my way lol xx | |||
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"I am also hoping but not holding my breath No way will you be waiting long xx I'm still waiting lol " Shame you are so far away your pics are just yum | |||
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"Hi guys, before you start I know it’s not match, Pof, Baddoo etc. I was curious to know how people would go about trying to get a “relationship” with a like minded swinger. I was in a relationship but it sadly ended, we met before we decided to swing. Their must be people who actually want the lifestyle but, I would imagine, want the benefits of a relationship as well...... I know I do. Please, don’t come back with daft comments as I do think it’s a serious question. Take care love ya xxxxx " I would like to find this but it's a pipe dream for me, an impossibility. | |||
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"I’ve had 2 long term relationships and made loads of friends., and I date solely here because here is where I find people I’m compatible with. I think the key is to not “look”. It will find you. V x " Thank you xx | |||
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"I’m not actually looking, but il know if it hits me, we’re all supposed to be supercool on here but lockdown has taught me that I’d like the odd night of snuggling up or someone to be my plus one at functions, bbq’s etc. But whenever I think someone is a potential there’s always a minus. They either want to live in ur pocket, too far away or get all posesive" Agreed or they turn out to be a liar!! | |||
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"I’m not actually looking, but il know if it hits me, we’re all supposed to be supercool on here but lockdown has taught me that I’d like the odd night of snuggling up or someone to be my plus one at functions, bbq’s etc. But whenever I think someone is a potential there’s always a minus. They either want to live in ur pocket, too far away or get all posesive Agreed or they turn out to be a liar!! " Or married | |||
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"I’m not actually looking, but il know if it hits me, we’re all supposed to be supercool on here but lockdown has taught me that I’d like the odd night of snuggling up or someone to be my plus one at functions, bbq’s etc. But whenever I think someone is a potential there’s always a minus. They either want to live in ur pocket, too far away or get all posesive Agreed or they turn out to be a liar!! Or married " Oh yes that too! | |||
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"I am hoping " Why is your profile unavailable to view then? | |||
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"I’m surprised there isn’t a dating section on here as I’m sure it would be busy " Maybe recommend it to the site owners | |||
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"We met on fab and were fbs for a while. It's been a natural progression and we thought hey why not? Neither of us were looking for a relationship. We are now in a very loving relationship. I guess the moral of the story is don't go looking for love and when it happens you will know " I'm hoping that the Mr and I can find our way back to each other, but I suspect my feelings may be unrequited after such a long time apart thanks to Covid | |||
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"Its something I would deffo be open to, but isn't the reason I'm on here. I can just imagine most of the guys running for the hills if you mentioned this at a meet lol I like variety, so as long as we both still got that, I wouldn't see any problems with a swinging relationship." I wasn't even open to a relationship at all, from here or otherwise but it happened anyway and actually I think you may be surprised at how many men on here are looking or open for a more serious relationship. | |||
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"I’m surprised there isn’t a dating section on here as I’m sure it would be busy " I think that’s a great idea x | |||
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"I know several couples, both straight & less so who met via swinging. It's not a bad way to start, at least you have that in common!" Me too. I've found that the people I've met on this site 'get me' in a way others don't. That is a good base for a relationship in itself. | |||
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"I’m surprised there isn’t a dating section on here as I’m sure it would be busy " I've mentioned suggested and requested this multiple times. It's long long overdue x | |||
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"It's not a dating site. But the ones you mentioned aren't swinging sites. It's probably easier to turn a swinger meet into a relationship, than introduce a vanilla date to swinging. Good luck to everyone who is single but would prefer not to be." I agree, I also think swingers are more interesting and exciting people (massive generalisation I know) | |||
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"I’m surprised there isn’t a dating section on here as I’m sure it would be busy I've mentioned suggested and requested this multiple times. It's long long overdue x" https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1105721 | |||
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"I met my now husband on here. Wasn't looking for anything serious, went out for drinks, came home for sex and that's it for 9 years." Wow I love to hear stories like this...many couples have met through fab. And many of us are secretly hoping for The One... I actually joined here cos I got bored of dating sites and peeps are entitled to use this site as they wish (within reason of course) | |||
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"This thread has made me smile. I was just told in private that it was pointless to be looking for a relationship on here but you guys have made me happy about it again. My take away points from this is: - Don’t be looking for a relationship as such, they happen when not expected. - Be open and honest with what you are looking for on your profile. " Yes I joined here 5+ yes ago predominantly for sex but also to find a relationship. Im going with the flow and when and if she is here well bump into each other. However I havent expressed this openly on my profile merely alluded to it. Just be happy and go with the flow and when the right person makes contact we'll know. | |||
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"This thread has made me smile. I was just told in private that it was pointless to be looking for a relationship on here but you guys have made me happy about it again. My take away points from this is: - Don’t be looking for a relationship as such, they happen when not expected. - Be open and honest with what you are looking for on your profile. " that is good and to the point advice. I don't think you're desires here are pointless and im sure you'll find what you're looking for. I had a peak at your profile but I'm outside of your age range unfortunately.. good luck with your search xx | |||
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"This thread has made me smile. I was just told in private that it was pointless to be looking for a relationship on here but you guys have made me happy about it again. My take away points from this is: - Don’t be looking for a relationship as such, they happen when not expected. - Be open and honest with what you are looking for on your profile. that is good and to the point advice. I don't think you're desires here are pointless and im sure you'll find what you're looking for. I had a peak at your profile but I'm outside of your age range unfortunately.. good luck with your search xx" Aww thanks, I saw you had looked but the cuck thing isn’t for me, good luck though and I’m sure you’ll find someone too | |||
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"It's not a dating site. But the ones you mentioned aren't swinging sites. It's probably easier to turn a swinger meet into a relationship, than introduce a vanilla date to swinging. Good luck to everyone who is single but would prefer not to be. I agree, I also think swingers are more interesting and exciting people (massive generalisation I know)" I'd agree that people with active sex lives tend to be more interesting generally. I used to go to F-L munches and have wonderful conversations on all sorts of subjects. | |||
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"I am hoping " Cant imagine once we are unlocked that you won't be short of offers, nices pics X | |||
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"I am hoping " We all live in hope. Hope for the end of lockdown. Hope for the jab. Hope for clubs reopening. Hope for the end of lonelyness. Hope for love in a relationship. Probably realistically, 3 out of 4 would give us all hope! | |||
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"I approached this very question recently. Some rubbished it, some wanted a dating aspect to FS. I came out of a cuck relationship last year and that's the kind of relationship I'm looking for, with a good helping of kink on the side. You'd be lucky to find that on your average common or garden, dating site and how do you broach the subject openly on those sites? Most of the women on them look mummsy as if sex is a quarterly year chore. A dating aspect to this site would be taken up I'm sure.." Should never judge a book by its cover. I usually put something in the comments on dating sites like I have a fab life but looking for something more which some people will understand, some won’t. I’m more a plain Jane or mummsy as you put it, so people wouldn’t expect me to be on fab. Also half the guys on dating sites are on fab too | |||
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"Perhaps Fab should have a dating section. If it happens, it happens. " There used to be a fabdating site, but it seems to have disappeared. | |||
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"We met through fab, been together four years now " Hot couple xx | |||
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"It's not a dating site. But the ones you mentioned aren't swinging sites. It's probably easier to turn a swinger meet into a relationship, than introduce a vanilla date to swinging. Good luck to everyone who is single but would prefer not to be." I'd agree 100% | |||
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