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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

send so many messages no replies what do you need to do to meet or even chat to people isit a secret club? im a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"send so many messages no replies what do you need to do to meet or even chat to people isit a secret club? im a nice guy "

If some one fancies you then they do but if they don’t then they don’t.

It’s not you it’s them but without them then that only leaves you.

Chin up op and best of luck!!!

T

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

We are in the middle of a pandemic hardly anyone is meeting ...

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

yeah im not expecting meets even just chats that could lead upto future meets

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport


"yeah im not expecting meets even just chats that could lead upto future meets"
first thing most will do is look at the profile op.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes plenty, but those guys who do get meets, start with a very good profile, pictures and often contribute to the forums or (when they’re back on) socials and clubs.

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

yeah was just about to look for posts for advice on fixing it im pretty hopeless with things like that

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

what kind of pics should i post? I need to be discreet though to the job that i do but can understand about bein more active in the forums. Which il try start doin

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"what kind of pics should i post? I need to be discreet though to the job that i do but can understand about bein more active in the forums. Which il try start doin "

Chatting in the forums is a good way to make frends a have a good banter

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah been reading a few things todays task is to fix my description on my profile lol try make it exciting lol

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Yeah been reading a few things todays task is to fix my description on my profile lol try make it exciting lol "

Astronaut fighter pilot etc lol

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Dolphin trainer

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well profile changed better than it was lol. Just need to work on pics now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well profile changed better than it was lol. Just need to work on pics now lol"

Do you think your status will attract the people youre interested in?

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I shall change that alsos

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Well profile changed better than it was lol. Just need to work on pics now lol

Do you think your status will attract the people youre interested in?"

That’s a hard question to answer there

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

its changed now just incase just the typical guy i guess lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No longer giving profile advice but leave it, if you’re happy it’s a true reflection of yourself

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah think so lol no doubt il change or add bits later lol thanks for ur advice uv giving already its much appreciated

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"what kind of pics should i post? I need to be discreet though to the job that i do but can understand about bein more active in the forums. Which il try start doin "

That discreet because of job line always makes me cringe your job can't say anything about you being here its your private life and its not illegal and certainly does not bring your company into disrepute so in MY OPINION men only say this because they have something to hide and I don't have anything to do with them profiles you also don't have to show face pick but nice body pic would be a start x

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

"

Whos to say some of your clients aren't on here already

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Remember also that you can chop and change your profile text as and when you see fit, so it can be a constantly evolving work-in-progress. Probably much like yourself as an individual.

I'm sure it is more difficult for newbies right now in the middle of this pandemic, and I know this might not be what you want to hear, but patience truly is a virtue around here. Currently getting involved in the forums is the best way to get involved, but it will take a few weeks to establish yourself on there so try not to get too disheartened at first

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50% of your public pics are of your penis.

Maybe alter that balance a bit..

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics"

Discreet and cannot accommodate are massive red flags x

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Remember also that you can chop and change your profile text as and when you see fit, so it can be a constantly evolving work-in-progress. Probably much like yourself as an individual.

I'm sure it is more difficult for newbies right now in the middle of this pandemic, and I know this might not be what you want to hear, but patience truly is a virtue around here. Currently getting involved in the forums is the best way to get involved, but it will take a few weeks to establish yourself on there so try not to get too disheartened at first

Good luck! "

Thank you

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"50% of your public pics are of your penis.

Maybe alter that balance a bit.."

I only changed that earlier b4 it was jst a body pic

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics

Discreet and cannot accommodate are massive red flags x "

Why massive res flags??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics

Discreet and cannot accommodate are massive red flags x

Why massive res flags??

"

It suggests that you are cheating, and many people frown on that.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics

Discreet and cannot accommodate are massive red flags x

Why massive res flags??

It suggests that you are cheating, and many people frown on that. "

Exactly that x

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

What sort of first message are you sending?

A lot of the time that first message needs to be right for us to even consider engaging, and we’re pretty likely to chat!

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By *ilverfox84 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's mainly bcause of some of the client's i have apart from that im a open book lol

Plus 1 of my friends was on here years ago and someone made up a fb page and added all his friends and family to it which wasnt good.but i will definitely work on gettin better pics

Discreet and cannot accommodate are massive red flags x

Why massive res flags??

It suggests that you are cheating, and many people frown on that.

Exactly that x "

Fair point but not but can understand what you mean

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, I message if I see a status or profile that interests me.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Yes, I message if I see a status or profile that interests me. "

Same here honestly

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