FabSwingers.com forum: totally new and a lil lost ;)

By *razysexylady OP Woman
over a year ago

hull

Hi I'm Sam. Totally new to this whole swinging scene. I've had group sex in the past but usually with friends n their partners. Never joined a site like this before. I'm a lil over whelmed by it lol. Met one guy on here who's kinda turned into my Regular FB

but looking more to explore my bi side with MF couples. I'm getting a bit frustrated tho by attention from some couples who in the first message expect me to drop everything to meet them. :s I'm a single mum with kids and so nervous about this so want to chat for a little while first, to see if we click. I'm genuine, just a little shy lol. There seems to be some very nice people on here tho. Been very interested in the forums and been following religiously... This is my first post tho so sorry for droning on. Nice to meet ya all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy x we have a regular crowd and attend their parties x but Im lucky in that I have a partner who watches out for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, its perfectly understandable to be a little overwhelmed lass, there's just so much to take in for a newbie and so much exploring to do! Fortunately its mostly fun (or all fun for me so far, so I consider myself lucky!)

My best advice would be not to take anything too seriously and don't feel obliged to have to go through with anything you don't want to.

Have fun!

P x

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By *razysexylady OP Woman
over a year ago

hull

"Ah, its perfectly understandable to be a little overwhelmed lass, there's just so much to take in for a newbie and so much exploring to do! Fortunately its mostly fun (or all fun for me so far, so I consider myself lucky!)

My best advice would be not to take anything too seriously and don't feel obliged to have to go through with anything you don't want to.

Have fun!

P x

Thank you ... Sound advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem Madam. I aim to please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting a bit frustrated tho by attention from some couples who in the first message expect me to drop everything to meet them. "

There's a reason for this Sam. They are highly unlikely to be couples. Much more like guys posing as couples. Think about it:- what are the chances of having BOTH the guy and fem of a couple sitting there in front of the PC, kids sorted, fem all dressed to kill and ready 'in the starting gate' to jump in the car to race to meet you.....

But a guy on his own, who wants to 'fit you in' before he gets home IS sitting in front of the PC (or more likely phone in the car) and ready to move at a moments notice.....

Sorry to be cynical, but there's a load of liars out there and, as you are lucky enough to be a rather attractive lady, you will sadly be preyed upon by them...

But you'll learn very quickly to spot them...

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By *razysexylady OP Woman
over a year ago

hull

Thanks doll. Yeah I'm starting to get the hang of it and don't reply unless they have verifications and don't reply at all to 'meet now' messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks doll. Yeah I'm starting to get the hang of it and don't reply unless they have verifications and don't reply at all to 'meet now' messages lol "

If you are a site supporter (at the massive cost of £5 for two months Silver) you get extra blocking options so that you can stop a large number of the idiots contacting you in the first place...

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By *ngelkissesxxWoman
over a year ago

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Sam, I'm much the same as you, wanting to meet more couples but finding a lot aren't all that genuine. I have found it best to reply to those who have met bi fems before and so have already sorted out any issues and boundaries. A lot of the couple profiles on here that want bi fems seem to be the guy making the moves and I'm wary of that, I have no intention of arranging to meet a couple and then finding out its only the guy who is meeting.

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