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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

We have been on this site for around 2 weeks ish, just wondering if anyone could look at our profile and let us know what you all think if there is anything we should change add/remove from our profile, we haven't met anyone yet that is interested in the same idea as us so any help would be great.

Thankyou xxxxx

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By *ance66Man
over a year ago

tewkesbury

i,ve just read your profile and although im no expert on writing profiles it seems well written and informative and would be the sort of profile i,d respond to rather than the short and uninformative ones.

the pics are great.

at the end of the day it just comes down to patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a great profile, and at least showing the male side too!(I like the female half lots lol)..my first suggestion would be going to a club or social...I think its normally easier for meeting a single bi girl in a club where she feel safe.

U could possibly change the wording of it sounding like its Mr who likes to see whats happening and make i sound more like Mrs is looking for enjoyment from a woman.

good luck, great pics!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is a good profile

Good pics, well worded

Have fun x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I agree, nice profile

(yeh i know mine is crap but you dont have to be able to do something to see when someone else does it well- i cant sing but i enjoy music).

Pics are good and its nice to see a couple put at least one pic of the guy on there (and no i aint bi or gay).

only two problems with it that i can see....

i am male, and too old

(oh shit thats not a problem with the profile thats a problem with me).

have patience and enjoy fab,

on a serious note you are seeking what most couples on here are, the ellusive bi femme. so you have plenty competition.

I wish you well xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Thankyou very much for all your feedback, i'm glad its a good profile, well i guess its all about patience then thanks again everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good profile and pics got to a club you dont have to play and its safe

and welcome to fab enjoy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

We have been on this site for around 2 weeks ish, just wondering if anyone could look at our profile and let us know what you all think if there is anything we should change add/remove from our profile, we haven't met anyone yet that is interested in the same idea as us so any help would be great.

Thankyou xxxxx "

Natalie, on the good side, what you have got is well-written, and on the BIG plus side you make clear the position re: the males 'involvement'. Far better to be up front about that in our opin. Good range and standard of pics too, and nice to see a full face pic of BOTH of you - something even we haven't got!

The only down side - if we were being picky - is that you could do with sub-editing it down to about 2/3rds of the current length. We felt that it was getting just a little too wordy and almost started saying 'please like us'. There is NO need for anyone on this or any other site to like you - just find what you offer and what they are looking for works together and that you all stand a good chance of sexual fulfilment from a meet.

Other than that, wish you every success with it. Just have loads of patience . . . it'll come...

Pork and Perky xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

We have been on this site for around 2 weeks ish, just wondering if anyone could look at our profile and let us know what you all think if there is anything we should change add/remove from our profile, we haven't met anyone yet that is interested in the same idea as us so any help would be great.

Thankyou xxxxx

Natalie, on the good side, what you have got is well-written, and on the BIG plus side you make clear the position re: the males 'involvement'. Far better to be up front about that in our opin. Good range and standard of pics too, and nice to see a full face pic of BOTH of you - something even we haven't got!

The only down side - if we were being picky - is that you could do with sub-editing it down to about 2/3rds of the current length. We felt that it was getting just a little too wordy and almost started saying 'please like us'. There is NO need for anyone on this or any other site to like you - just find what you offer and what they are looking for works together and that you all stand a good chance of sexual fulfilment from a meet.

Other than that, wish you every success with it. Just have loads of patience . . . it'll come...

Pork and Perky xxx"

agree with Pork and Perky mabe try to compact it abit other then that you have only been on a week and with your looks it shouldnt take you long to find some one to play with if not its there lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

We have been on this site for around 2 weeks ish, just wondering if anyone could look at our profile and let us know what you all think if there is anything we should change add/remove from our profile, we haven't met anyone yet that is interested in the same idea as us so any help would be great.

Thankyou xxxxx "

Looks fine to me to its honest and clear so should get positive reaction and sadly for this site a few pests to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest its well written good pics, though we found a little insecure in the way you,ve mentioned no sexual contact at all by hubby? hands of etc etc this could be put a lighter or politer way?

and the fact your trying to find that elusive single fem that only wants to play with you will shorten your chances of a meet,

we have been on the scene for years and have had limited play with single fems, so dont hold your breath on many meets, though try clubs social and parties maybe easier than on ere to get what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all.

thanks again for all your messages, i will take onboard on what you have all said, we tried to write the profile with as much info in it as poss and to be clear of what we are looking for, i couldnt think of another way to say ''nobody touches my hubby'' lol so any suggestions would really help, and we have been advised to go to clubs a few times does anyone have any good ones they know of in nottingham? and how do they work? we are very new to this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly your age range is very limited... Might want to revise it slightly to open up avenues

And with regards to not wanting to see another woman with your hubby - fair enough, I'm the same with my partner if he's involved in things. But as a female who predominantly plays alone, I don't and won't meet couples who want what you do cause I feel I'm not there for pleasure for me but rather to be a mere plaything to put on a show for the man - there's also the worry for me that it's purely for the man and therefore the woman isn't that into it but is doing it to keep him happy. (I'm not implying this is the case, just sharing thoughts)

There are a lot of couples on here who are similar in that the man doesn't play - in this scenario it could be good to open your mind to similar couples to you - that way you can get the girl on girl but with everyone feeling a bit more involved.

This isn't to say you won't find what you're looking for - this is purely from a personal point of view. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hiya,

thanks for your message, yes i understand that some women would think that they are there for only one of the couples involved,and i know your not saying that this is us,but just to make it clear it isn't lol its not a show for him as it was me that originally suggested it and its not me just doing it because he wants me to as i am fully bi and have been as long as i remember, its just our way of us both being involved but without my partner and another women doing anything sexually, i dont want that and neither does he, so i guess it is just a waiting game, thankyou very much for your comments though and i see now that some people would think that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

Your profile is rather wordy, a little heavy going.

Info is good but it doesn't need to be like a girlie chat over coffee.

Brief, informative and a few cheeky lines is all that's required to get someone curious about you.

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i guess everyone is just different, thanks for all your feedbacks i have changed a few bits and opened up the age range a little more, more i guess some people like short profiles and others like longer ones something interesting to read, we prefer the longer ones with info and boundries set out if they have any so we know its right to message them from the start,i guess others like shorter ones and get to know the people through messages, each to their own, good luck everyone and have fun we will xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to hide your friends list

Not everybody like to be shown

Also is avoid those on your list to spy on each other

Great profile

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You come across as interesting, likeable people, which is an essential thing for most of us. As some say, maybe you could trim a little off, maybe not needing to emphasise all the footy interests etc, especially as he's not touching, merely watching, or playing with you - perhaps you could have left it as just saying he's typically masculine.

It usually takes a while to become established on Fab, especially when one of several things is in place -

1. limited range of target audience of interest

2. not being verified

3. having limited specific interests that aren't likely to be flexible.

You like what you like, and go for what you want, so that you're all satisfied, so this is right.

My suggestion is to meet people socially, so that others get to know you. Whilst now there are mf couples, some might separate, if they know you, allowing you the mff experience that you're looking for. Knowing others socially would also allow you to be verified, as some people will only communicate/meet with verified users, or are unsure of new/unverified Fab users. Social meets can be at the pub, in your home, wherever, and don't have to be at clubs etc.

Keep your messages to others as interesting as your profile, and targeted to what they and you hold in common, and things should improve. As holiday season is coming, things could get a little slower, as people are away too.

It can take some patience and effort, but it's worth it in the end. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is it with people saying the "elusive bi fem" when theres bloody loads if them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is it with people saying the "elusive bi fem" when theres bloody loads if them on here "

There are not that many single bi-fems who will meet an MF couple privately. In a club, yes. Couples have a real problem trying to meet a genuine single bi-fem - see it in the forums quite often.

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By *eeking Maid MarianMan
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest N Notts


"Hi everyone,

We have been on this site for around 2 weeks ish, just wondering if anyone could look at our profile and let us know what you all think if there is anything we should change add/remove from our profile, we haven't met anyone yet that is interested in the same idea as us so any help would be great.

Thankyou xxxxx "

Nothing at all to criticise...I would say it is an excellently written profile. Like many things in life, I believe Fab is a "numbers game". The more "blanks" (pun intended) you come across...pun number 2.... the closer you are getting to a successful connection. Patience is not one of my virtues either......

All the best with your quest!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think look at mine and get tips

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