FabSwingers.com forum: Profile updates and first few messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d be interested to get your views please.

I have always kept my updates clean, polite and respectful. I feel that it would look like I’m fake or desperate if I put: “looking to eat pussy now”

But if a female puts an offer out similar every bloke local wants in lol.

My thoughts are that although the nature of this site is sexual I feel like I’m disrespectful talking to women or couples without knowing anything about them and they instigated it.

So is my gentleman approach the reason why I’m not getting further than a few messages.

Or should I come straight out with what I’m looking for at that moment which isn’t out of the ordinary.

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sell yourself op, it's a numbers game on here

Are you sending a pic early on as lack of pics will put many off?

What can you offer a meet and why should they choose you?

I would be put off by crude status updates /messages and think many would.

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I think people are different.

On the occasions when Alice is chatting with a guy, she doesn't like it when they chat incessantly. She's here for 1 reason and it is not to find a new bestie.

However, other partners of mine have been the opposite.