FabSwingers.com forum: newbies ;-)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New to swinging in general, looking for a bi fem who's discreet to join our sexy fun finding it hard to find a lady who doesn't mind not having cock as we soft swing only and it will be very girl on girl.

Finding that there's a lot of time wasters on here or fakes that arnt even bi fems at all

please help x x x

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to Fab!

Sorry you've had trouble with those who've maybe wasted your time, but as you get more experienced, you'll likely find it easier to spot those who are not so serious about meeting etc.

There are some great people on Fab, and sometimes it takes a while to get established. Perhaps find people who you can be friends with, even if not swinging, as that's also a way to get to know others, potentially in clubs or at parties etc.

Good luck and have lots of fun!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou for the encouragement

I'm finding myself being really picky lol which is odd coz I'm not a shallow person but seem to judge ppl by there pics on here :s x x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou for the encouragement

I'm finding myself being really picky lol which is odd coz I'm not a shallow person but seem to judge ppl by there pics on here :s x x "

On some if the profiles pics are all we have to go on

Good luck!!!

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Thankyou for the encouragement

I'm finding myself being really picky lol which is odd coz I'm not a shallow person but seem to judge ppl by there pics on here :s x x "

I think it's wise to assume that pics will show someone at their best, and they may be somewhat outdated. I don't think it's shallow, in the slightest, to be only dealing with those that you find physically interesting, I think it's normal and healthy.

Best to trust your gut instinct as much as possible. We don't always know why we don't quite feel comfortable or right about something, but it's wise to pat attention to what you're really saying to yourself.