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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all find it hard getting meets cos in wheelchair due to accident. Only want fun like everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice.At least theres some lovely people out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

But I didn't mean to imply those that wouldn't consider him because of his disability weren't, I was referring to the 'fancy a fuck' ones though am not sure if women send those kind of messages?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

But I didn't mean to imply those that wouldn't consider him because of his disability weren't, I was referring to the 'fancy a fuck' ones though am not sure if women send those kind of messages?"

Hard to take it any other way when you state, and I quote:" people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all find it hard getting meets cos in wheelchair due to accident. Only want fun like everyone else "

Have messaged you

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

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"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

But I didn't mean to imply those that wouldn't consider him because of his disability weren't, I was referring to the 'fancy a fuck' ones though am not sure if women send those kind of messages?

Hard to take it any other way when you state, and I quote:" people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair". "

Do you make it a personal mission to try and rub someone up the wrong way on every thread you post to?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Hi all find it hard getting meets cos in wheelchair due to accident. Only want fun like everyone else "

You will find it difficult but don't play the disability card, one can be a lovely person but not want to play with a guy in a wheelchair - keep your chin up, perhaps expand your profile and good luck! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thxx for reply..one thing i dont do is play the disability card..i tell people im in wheelchair because its right thing to do...no use lying

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

But I didn't mean to imply those that wouldn't consider him because of his disability weren't, I was referring to the 'fancy a fuck' ones though am not sure if women send those kind of messages?

Hard to take it any other way when you state, and I quote:" people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair".

Do you make it a personal mission to try and rub someone up the wrong way on every thread you post to?"

I'm not responsible for how you perceive my comments, if you wish to analyse all my posts do feel free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm some people aren't focused on the question x

I message you wheely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice.At least theres some lovely people out there x"

A lot of single guys struggle to get meets on here regardless.

Usually, they have a profile that doesn't sell themselves to start with.

Tell us more about yourself ...focus on your positives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get some photos mate will help alot , as guys with no photos dont do well anyways

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to Fab

I'd definitely encourage you to say much more in your profile, as largely it tells us you're a great person, and that you're using a wheelchair, after an accident. I understand your emphasis of wanting people to know this, but maybe 90% of your profile could be about you, your sexual interests, experience and what kind of people you like etc. This way, the disability is still mentioned, but the overall picture being painted is more about you, and will help target interest from those with similar reciprocal needs.

Meeting others socially is also a way to get verified in person, so consider how you could interact this way too. I'd definitely encourage you to put photos up, as people then know how you look, and it can culture physical attraction etc.

There's quite a bit of advice on profile building, so take some time to search around, and also feel free to ask any of us for advice, myself included.

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for advice.had more response since changed it but will take more time on it thanks again x

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

I don't think your lack of meets has anything to do with you being in a wheel chair have people told you that is why they won't meet you?

I think it is the fact that your profile is so sparse and there are no photo's. Us girlies and some of the lads like to have an idea of what you might look like, doesn't have to be face or cock, can just be a clothed body shot.

Also how is anyone meant to know if you would be interested in them, if you haven't put what you are looking for! Do you like petite, curvy, muscular, sense of humour?

Also as is the case for all single blokes, get to a social and get yourself known, the Notts Social is always good and when held at its normal venue, very wheelchair friendly.

Good luck.

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in touch with someone on FAB who was also w'chair bound due to bike accident. I've lost their details unfortunately as my pc crashed just before back up. Can't remember their user name but if anyone sees a bi-couple from the East Essex (Clacton)area who say he's in a wheelchair give them a shout.(and let me know thier user name please) They are an extremely nice couple. As for the OP, keep trying and as has been said, put some more detail into your profile. Good luck!!

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"I was in touch with someone on FAB who was also w'chair bound due to bike accident. I've lost their details unfortunately as my pc crashed just before back up. Can't remember their user name but if anyone sees a bi-couple from the East Essex (Clacton)area who say he's in a wheelchair give them a shout.(and let me know thier user name please) They are an extremely nice couple. As for the OP, keep trying and as has been said, put some more detail into your profile. Good luck!!

Pm sent.

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could do with a bit more on your profile; what you are like, ie personality, what you are looking for ie age, size etc.

You already have two verifications though telephone is no longer allowed, however that is good going considering how long you have been here.

Do a search on the forums for both profile advice and disabled; people worth their weight in gold will look at you first not the wheelchair and there are many on this site that are like that.

Good luck and welcome to Fab

Whilst I agree with the majority of this, it does annoy me when people imply if you have preferences that exclude certain groups of people you're somewhat lacking in the milk of human kindness.

Some of us are here for fantasy. Mine is tall, white, sub men. It doesn't mean I'm not "worth my weight in gold" because I don't wish to play with someone in a wheelchair.

But I didn't mean to imply those that wouldn't consider him because of his disability weren't, I was referring to the 'fancy a fuck' ones though am not sure if women send those kind of messages?"

i understand what you were saying Kinky lets see if i can translate for the thickies im disabled so think i have a clue on this from my point of vue when walking down the road some will see the disabilaty before they see a person to me i wouldnt give that person a second glance then there are thouse who see a person not a disablity they are worth there weight in gold and there are a lot of people on here who see the person first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice above. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been stated before but a few pics would help you out a great deal plus a little bit more about you.

Best of luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thxx again all will b updating in next few days happy swinging all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thxx again all will b updating in next few days happy swinging all xx"

I agree with most of whats been said above; just be yourself and honest up front with people - being disabled should not be a barrier to having some fun in your life - good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met a guy in a wheelchair a few times and he is fab in bed,,

he too was in car accident but by god it didnt alter his skills making a woman cum...

every one needs a chance to meet no matter wat...good luck with meets hunxx

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