FabSwingers.com forum: New to this need advice

By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Hello I joined I think last month and am quite new to this thing I'm more of a person to person kinda talker and as this is new for me I was wondering how should I go about messaging someone on here without sounding like a complete idiot

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Welcome to fab.

Everyone's different in what they like obviously but I don't think you can go far wrong if you just introduce yourself, say you've read their profile and like it (make sure you do and fit their requirements) then ask them to have a look at yours and if they like it to get in touch.

He prepared for lots to not reply though, people get loads of messages and no reply means no thanks.

Good luck

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hi Op

You send a message the woman will then check out your profile, often in stealth mode (so you won’t know as she won’t appear in your views). So don’t think they’ve been rude if the message is deleted and you get no reply, they’ve looked at you read the text and decided not for them.

There’s more to the swinging lifestyle than this site, after lockdown look at attending socials, especially as you say you’re a more person to person type of guy.

Good luck

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By *ishygirlWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Hello I joined I think last month and am quite new to this thing I'm more of a person to person kinda talker and as this is new for me I was wondering how should I go about messaging someone on here without sounding like a complete idiot "

Welcome to Fab!

What makes you think you’d sound like a “complete idiot”?

If it helps, just talk to fabbers like you would if you were face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome op to the crazy world of fab.

Just be you and write messages as you would chat face to face.

Just a couple of personal pointers:-

Drop the drug reference.

Never send a cut and paste message.

Don’t be crass and send a sex message straight off the bat.

Read the profiles.

Enjoy your adventure and good luck.

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Might be a huge hint (goes for alot of guys surprisingly) is if you're messaging someone, probs best not start off with a simple message that isn't the following :

"nice tits"

"id fuck you"

"submit to me"

And more...

Speaking to a friend or two, and seeing the majority of posts on Thai site, this is typically what gets us men blocked from messaging :P

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