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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what the problem is!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv bin on one meet since Iv bin on here and I can't seem to get a reply of anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well get a better profile?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

safe sex clicked and unsafe sex pics may be a factor

and please note MAY.

good luck and maybe expand on your profile and sell yourself more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you read it ? Is it crap ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no what you mean that pic was taken with a good friend I wouldn't do that with just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I no what you mean that pic was taken with a good friend I wouldn't do that with just anyone "

Re pic - i seen lot worse on here so they are fine - but do agree with profile it needs a bit more work - having said that you do have a varify on your account and says alot - so dont dispair just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I no what you mean that pic was taken with a good friend I wouldn't do that with just anyone "
well put that in your profile, just be genuine, polite respectful and for me, don't want to see cock pics unless I ask!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Al do that now thanks xx

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Well, where do we start with your Profile?

It is all one sentence, spread over 2-3 lines, written as if you'd read it out in one breath.

It's littered with Text Speak, and little punctuation, which can be offputting to some people.

You need to expand your Profile, putting things into paragraphs.

All of your pics are genital shots, but you need to get a facial pic on if at all possible. Keep the cock pics for later.

Get into the Forums; if possible, get yourself to a club, even if it is for a social time; it's a question of being noticed!

Above all, as I have said before to others who have said the same as you - you have only been on a few weeks, so you have to be patient! This is not an "Instant Fix" site - if you expect it to be so, then look elsewhere!

It will take some work; it will take time, but you have to sell yourself as you are up against so many other single guys.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabulous advice Xx


"Well, where do we start with your Profile?

It is all one sentence, spread over 2-3 lines, written as if you'd read it out in one breath.

It's littered with Text Speak, and little punctuation, which can be offputting to some people.

You need to expand your Profile, putting things into paragraphs.

All of your pics are genital shots, but you need to get a facial pic on if at all possible. Keep the cock pics for later.

Get into the Forums; if possible, get yourself to a club, even if it is for a social time; it's a question of being noticed!

Above all, as I have said before to others who have said the same as you - you have only

been on a few weeks, so you have to be patient! This is not an "Instant Fix" site - if you expect it to be so, then look elsewhere!

It will take some work; it will take time, but you have to sell yourself as you are up against so many other single guys.

Good Luck."
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By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

You have only been on here for 7 weeks and you have already had a meet. Don't be so expectant! Single men are a dime a dozen. If you are patient you may reap the rewards in time. TBH I'm a bit fed up of reading these posts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have only been on here for 7 weeks and you have already had a meet. Don't be so expectant! Single men are a dime a dozen. If you are patient you may reap the rewards in time. TBH I'm a bit fed up of reading these posts! "

Lol well said Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone and the best of look to you all hope to speak to you again soon x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Single men profiles with more of their playmates genitalia than theirs: instant turn off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well, where do we start with your Profile?

It is all one sentence, spread over 2-3 lines, written as if you'd read it out in one breath.

It's littered with Text Speak, and little punctuation, which can be offputting to some people.

You need to expand your Profile, putting things into paragraphs.

All of your pics are genital shots, but you need to get a facial pic on if at all possible. Keep the cock pics for later.

Get into the Forums; if possible, get yourself to a club, even if it is for a social time; it's a question of being noticed!

Above all, as I have said before to others who have said the same as you - you have only been on a few weeks, so you have to be patient! This is not an "Instant Fix" site - if you expect it to be so, then look elsewhere!

It will take some work; it will take time, but you have to sell yourself as you are up against so many other single guys.

Good Luck."

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you seen you public pic

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields


"You have only been on here for 7 weeks and you have already had a meet. Don't be so expectant! Single men are a dime a dozen. If you are patient you may reap the rewards in time. TBH I'm a bit fed up of reading these posts! "

fed up?...we are bored shitless...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you seen you public pic "

Serious??? YOU are the one whinging about the lack of meets

We have NO public pics, but are recieving messages from interested guys (a few are chancers, but the majority read our text in full) daily. Why? Because our profile is designed to sell who we are and what we want.

Your profile is uninteresting and pics are not 'selling you'.

Expand your profile and drop the none 'safe sex' pics. You are going to get judged no matter what you write on your profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Have you seen you public pic "

But I'm not whining like a petulant brat about my lack of meets!

My profile works just perfectly for me, yours isn't working for you and you're here asking for assistance. We're bored stiff at the lack of imagination and hand holding displayed by the single men like yourself that flood the forums with these "look at me threads" but we still try and help.

If your response here is indicative to the messages you send you're surprised no one's interested?!! Really?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok keep dont get you're nickers in a twist ! Iike someone said on here women and mfs don't Evan need a pic on ther profiles to get a message its us men that have are work cut out for us

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By *hickencurryCouple
over a year ago

brisbane

Lots of people do find mental stimulation attractive too. Profiles and posts littered with spelling mistakes remove any potential for that. If we find it off putting assume others do also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have met few people off here but u get talking to quite a lot but when u suddenly get to sorting out a meet they block you seems to be a lot of timewasters on here to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you read it ? Is it crap ? "

Yes and yes. You've BEEN on this site...not BIN. You're 27 not 14, text speak puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest mate, with the imagination and punctuation used on your profile you could be 14 for all any prospective browser could tell.

Flesh your profile out a bit, inject some imagination, get rid of the text speak and spell correctly, the same goes for your forum posts and messages.

And all you can see in your two profile pics is your cock, one of which displays it slapped between a pair of mamms which, nice as they are, tells a prospective meet absolutely nothing about you physically except you possess a penis.

Like I said, you could be a 14 year old lad or an illiterate lazy 50-something bloke for all anyone can tell from your profile. I'm sure you're not, but you need to get that across to folk and tempt them into meeting you. Two pics of your hard-on with three lines of bad txt spk do bugger all, Rab C Nesbitt could have an identical profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have met few people off here but u get talking to quite a lot but when u suddenly get to sorting out a meet they block you seems to be a lot of timewasters on here to "

Yeah if I had more than two emails off you in this style, I'd block you as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and

"So where are all those real couples and horny ladies out there fun discrete guy wanting lots of horny fun. "

Isn't a profile, it's shit.

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