FabSwingers.com forum: So what am I doing wrong!

By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

Well you've been here six months and four of those we've been in lockdown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the poster above said we are still in the midst of a pandemic but had you been closer, I would reply to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

Not a bad profile at all with nothing offensive on show and good pictures.

The forums can be good fun and shite at the same time but they can improve your profile traffic by joining in.

When messaging always read the persons profile and never send a message containing zero effort.

Never send cut and paste messages and yes most people are indeed fine.

You just need to relax and find your niche on here but most of all enjoy yourself and best of luck.

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By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Well you've been here six months and four of those we've been in lockdown!

Haha - yes!

I think I probably meant replies - meets elsewhere were before that! Thanks

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By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Not a bad profile at all with nothing offensive on show and good pictures.

The forums can be good fun and shite at the same time but they can improve your profile traffic by joining in.

When messaging always read the persons profile and never send a message containing zero effort.

Never send cut and paste messages and yes most people are indeed fine.

You just need to relax and find your niche on here but most of all enjoy yourself and best of luck.

Thank you!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Your profile looks fine to me. If it’s a lack of replies it’s difficult to say since obviously every person you’re messaging is unique, so really the only thing within your control is to reevaluate the kind of messages that you’re sending out?

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By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

"Your profile looks fine to me. If it’s a lack of replies it’s difficult to say since obviously every person you’re messaging is unique, so really the only thing within your control is to reevaluate the kind of messages that you’re sending out? "

I love YOUR profile for many reasons!

Plus, you’ve taught me how not to message, though to be honest I’ve never said LOL

LOL!

Oh.... shit

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I love YOUR profile for many reasons!

Plus, you’ve taught me how not to message, though to be honest I’ve never said LOL

LOL!

Oh.... shit"

Thank you, that’s very kind of you. Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

The simple fact is that the site is awful. It used to be excellent a few years back; seriously. Now it is a chat site and for forum users - and honestly has been for about 4 or 5 years now. If you expect to meet anybody (when all is over) - you will be sadly disappointed - despite what anyone tries to say to you on here.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a good profile, a step above most single guys on here.

Maybe add a few more semi clothed pictures, but to be honest lack of face pictures will always be an issue to some you’re trying to meet.

If you find the site difficult to meet others as previously commented, use the forums more to get your profile seen, then after lockdown try and get to a social or even better a club night. Look for newbie nights as you won’t be alone

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By *lint94Man
over a year ago

I had a look mate, i am not responding because i have got a lot more experience on here but just to give my a personal opinion about it

First of all i see a big big Bio that i was personally surprised to see how accurate it was, i might say that the more you add to it the least you can talk about yourself, so i’d probably shorten that down, just give a glimpse of what kind of guy you are then if someone has more questions about yourself, you are the one with all the answers.

I’d probably put some pictures that describe your look a bit better, so far i see some body shots that could be anyone on this website and there’s waaaaaay to guys on here. Anyone could have even just one single picture and steal that opportunity you seeking. Try and picture yourself in a way that is closer to how the women on here want to see you!

Probably this covers it all

best of luck dude!

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By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Thanks all - great advice, much appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!

But you still decided to join in the middle of a global crisis?

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By *ingle_doc OP Man
over a year ago

Oxford

But you still decided to join in the middle of a global crisis?

Ok"

I had too much time on my hands.....

Wasn’t expecting to meet, but was hoping for some replies & chat, hence the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not doing anything wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

The only thing you are doing wrong is being a single male looking for any form of fun on here. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

I'd reply to you (but I'm not your type x).

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

Probably the main thing you're doing wrong is owning a set of male genitalia.

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By *ittle-black-dressWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

"Hi guys,

firstly, browsing the forum is great - loads of great conversations!

Would appreciate advice on my profile. I get zero interest.... I'm guessing this might be the lack of verifications, unless I'm way off the mark with what I say. I'd appreciate the advice.

Is it 'cheating' to ask for phon/video calls or socials for verifications

Thanks!"

Just read your profile, nothing negative nothing aggressive in it. I think everyone is right it didn't help that we're in lockdown for 4 months.

Keep smiling and stay positive. It will happen.

Btw verifications are not a deal breaker for me. It's the person behind the profile and the toned body I take into account.

Hope this helps and feel free to message me if you wish to chat

xxx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

" I'd reply to you (but I'm not your type x). "

and us....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hi OP, a belated welcome to Fab. Can't see anything wrong, just give it time, enjoy the forums and the cam rooms as well. X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What are you doing wrong? Not messaging me.... That's what

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