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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not just meet and play...where do people go to meet someone likeminded for a relationship? Meet up apps are full of fake profiles so what are the best options?

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Hi x

I'm struggling to find somwone who is not here for just fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m wondering the same.

It’s one thing to have fun experiences, but long term the goal is to meet a woman who shares the love of the lifestyle, and it’s difficult to gauge that on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with you, the lifestyle for me is best enjoyed with someone you have a connection with but seemingly v v few people seek the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh, the million dollar question...let me know if you find the answer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhhh, the million dollar question...let me know if you find the answer!"

Hello how are you?? I haven’t found the answer yet ha x

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By *ubberclubberMan
over a year ago

Southsea

I'm wondering the same. The usual apps are all a bit too vanilla.

Here or OK Cupid seem best so far although not many people in my area.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Or what about meeting people conventionally in life, in a bar or through friends....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not many men (if any) up in the northeast, where i live want regular,which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same for me too. I would LOVE a girl who means more to me than a quick fuck. Just doing normal couple stuff would be nice too. I'm very affectionate and totally ready to give myself to the right girl. xx

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If you find any decent apps or sites please inform us!

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By *ldbury1984Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have been looking to meet someone that wants more than sex... Its catch 22 if you sign up to tinder, bumble etc are they as naughty as you will they enjoy the scene or will anyone on fab want more... Its a tough one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or what about meeting people conventionally in life, in a bar or through friends....?"

You run the hazard of people finding out what for me is a purely personal life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you find any decent apps or sites please inform us! "

Social meet ups sound the best bet atm if you can find one?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road."

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle! "

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x"

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

That's what I initially came in here for 10 years ago and I've never found him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x

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Indeed, you are the unicorn now haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x

Indeed, you are the unicorn now haha x"

except nobody wants ro ride this one!

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

PDI and Loughborough

I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger. "

Thank you Rob and Im sorry for your loss bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x

Indeed, you are the unicorn now haha x

except nobody wants ro ride this one!"

I don't believe that for a second!

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

PDI and Loughborough


"I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger.

Thank you Rob and Im sorry for your loss bud"

Gianluca thankyou. I'll also add there have been a few fab weddings too over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I keep getting reminded by my friends from here that this “isn’t a dating site”

I don’t go looking for it but if it finds me that’s would be nice but I’m very untrusting and self destructive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my husband on here 7 years ago. Neither of us were openly looking for a relationship but here we are 7 years in and it's all great. Yes it's not a dating site but equally it's a place to meet like minded people and if those minds want something lasting together then why not seize the opportunity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ot678Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Would love to find out how to meet someone for more...

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle! "

The statistic disadvantage is just one of them, out of your control. You just have to have a positive outlook towards things. I would also suspect there are more women than you think on here who would like a relationship with the RIGHT man. But with the amount of games and head fuckery that goes on naturally I think most women would keep this a guarded peice of information. I can't see dating in swinger circles much different to the vanilla world. Just get out there, socialise, go to clubs, have meets. You never know you may just connect with someone on a higher level on your adventures. It may take a bit of hard work. Should someone really take your interest be prepared to be brave and show your hand first. Not every endeavour in life is successful but often behind most great wins is risk and a path defeats. These are lessons. You don't want to find your self stuck in Limbo with some endlessly second guessing if they're as into you as you are them. So always be prepared to be the one who is open with their intent first. That initial act could be the foundation of an open, honest and trusting relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I keep getting reminded by my friends from here that this “isn’t a dating site”

I don’t go looking for it but if it finds me that’s would be nice but I’m very untrusting and self destructive. "

I hear you on the last bit

Always looking for self-improvement though

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think here is a good place. I had a relationship from here. It was fun till I realised it wasn’t actually going anywhere.

I think a lot of people may want a relationship too much, which is off putting. And others aren’t looking but someone great turns up

Also try the Matchmaking thread

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Have dated from another site and looking to do so again. Much more than fuck n go. Someone who will be a friend as well as sharing the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret to finding a relationship is..........

Don’t go looking for one....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think here is a good place. I had a relationship from here. It was fun till I realised it wasn’t actually going anywhere.

I think a lot of people may want a relationship too much, which is off putting. And others aren’t looking but someone great turns up

Hey Kinky..i dont see a matchmaking thread? am i missing somethign?? x

Also try the Matchmaking thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tesco Sainsburys, Morrisons, Waitrose and if you're after posh totty M and S foodhall. Just become a super stalker, it'll take the heat off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here trying to find friends for chat, maybe dating/more. I have comprehensively bombed at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard enough to find someone to become a regular FWB without looking for the holy grail of someone for a relationship

I’d love to be exclusive with someone from here and explore more of the scene with them as I wouldn’t be brave enough to go to clubs etc on my own. I have gone to local social events and even organised one

Be good to do normal coupley things too and go out on dates

Xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Looking to date too. There’s more to life than sh.....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again "

I’m sorry for your loss please don’t give up xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again "

I’m sorry to hear that. Xx.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I can't see dating in swinger circles much different to the vanilla world. Just get out there, socialise, go to clubs, have meets. You never know you may just connect with someone on a higher level on your adventures"

Well, at the moment, clubs dates and meets are off the table at the moment as far as I can see.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Would be nice

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Would love to chat to women with interest in the sub lifestyle, or even better wearing my collar x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Hey Kinky..i dont see a matchmaking thread? am i missing somethign?? x"

You are

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/960748#message_24365919

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By *attM73Man
over a year ago

Oldham

Yeah I agree

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I really I would love to date a lady who also loves this lifestyle. Romancing and loving a lady who is open to life and sharing life's experiences would be the perfect match. Somebody who enjoys travel, conversation, and a man that can cook for her, and who also like to play as a couple or alone. Then coming home to tell me about her fun times over a glass of wine... If only there was a lady like that out there for me ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We seek the same things my friend ha

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By *oneycpl76Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Arr sweet thread, wish you all good luck in finding a significant other. Keep looking they are out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" except nobody wants ro ride this one!"

I’m keen to get back in the saddle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new to this site and am finding it really hard to get to know anyone. Seems like because I'm a single male no ladies even read your message or look at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just gonna put my two pence worth in....I would ultimately like to have someone to share this lifestyle with....I genuinely think it's the way forward as far as relationships are concerned. Yes, I would like to have something more meaningful with the right person, if it happens, it happens. It would be nice to have a relationship evolve in that way but I'm not gonna force it!

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By *heGreenMan555Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Well it *is* a Swinging site not a dating site. And from what I hear it’s even harder there! At least people here are clear about why they’re here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a partner to share lifestyle.

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By *ancyabitof biloveCouple
over a year ago

Burbage

We met on here 5 years ago. It took a lot of looking and patience but worth the wait.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Dont know if this is of any use probably wouldnt work as the uk is much bigger than ireland but there was a girl in ireland who set up a kik group for people who are interested in swinging but who possibly want to date it is going well and there have been a few connections so im told i only joined it a few weeks ago so possibly someone could do something like that maybe local to the area you are in so someone could do one for people in london someone else one for people living in the south and so on just an idea

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"We met on here 5 years ago. It took a lot of looking and patience but worth the wait. "

Think the same tbh... been to Clubs and stuff and still hold out hope of meeting ‘someone’ who I can go forward with and be together with that’s honest and agree limits with if required... you never know what tomorrow holds lol x

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Do couples like to date singles?

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Do couples like to date singles?"

Up to everyone to do what they want... if a single agrees then take it from there and visa versa... easy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason I first joined the sight was to try and find somebody I could go clubbing with, but had that 'connection' also! I haven't experienced yet and to find somebody you could share that with and it enhances the sex between the 2 of us rather than causes issues is like finding a 4 leaf clover

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

This is what i want so badly. Hard to sort out though when it comes to the crunch it never seems to happen . Really hoping i will find this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is- to find 'THE' right partner you can't just pair up with a random partner, you need to build that sexual electric together first to make the club experience what it could be!

See I talk the talk just need to find out if I can walk the walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still looking , please let me know if you find a place

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a look through some of the profiles on this page. Such a shame majority are too far away from me

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again

I’m sorry for your loss please don’t give up xx"

Ahhhhhhhh thanks xxx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again

I’m sorry to hear that. Xx. "

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would alwasy welcome this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same, one day it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same, one day it will happen"

I'm hopeful for one day , just everyone is so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to happen at some point soon, think I've gotta be more patient ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol"

I hear you loud and clear! I thought I found rocking horse shit years ago and was about to celebrate - but it was the bloody new puppy who positioned it perfectly to make me believe what you don’t believe is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's got to happen at some point soon, think I've gotta be more patient ahah "

Patience is a virtue they say...

Like ‘All good things come to those who wait!’

Some things get better with age and mature and become more desirable- yet some things just get more rotten with age- be careful ‘waiting’ - go get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol

I hear you loud and clear! I thought I found rocking horse shit years ago and was about to celebrate - but it was the bloody new puppy who positioned it perfectly to make me believe what you don’t believe is possible"

Oh I’m sorry to hear of your experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's got to happen at some point soon, think I've gotta be more patient ahah "

How’s ten years patience? Another ten years for me and il be reaching cats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rescuing cats I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's got to happen at some point soon, think I've gotta be more patient ahah

How’s ten years patience? Another ten years for me and il be reaching cats lol "

Yeah I'm sure someone will be for you soon , especially looking as good as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rescuing cats I mean lol"

If they need rescuing - they have run out of lives! Using that comparison - I’m similar to a cat! Ruby- nudge nudge hint hint ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's got to happen at some point soon, think I've gotta be more patient ahah

How’s ten years patience? Another ten years for me and il be reaching cats lol

Yeah I'm sure someone will be for you soon , especially looking as good as you are "

Is that a less cheesier way of saying - ‘how good looking you are?’

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol"

Lottery win probably better odds but i never give up... life is way to short

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Rescuing cats I mean lol"

Don’t x

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Would like to no my self

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Not just meet and play...where do people go to meet someone likeminded for a relationship? Meet up apps are full of fake profiles so what are the best options? "

all the places we can't do during covid times so we have to make the most with online. Being online can develop your communication skills to find like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking too...pls see my profile..thanks!

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Also looking...

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"Dont know if this is of any use probably wouldnt work as the uk is much bigger than ireland but there was a girl in ireland who set up a kik group for people who are interested in swinging but who possibly want to date it is going well and there have been a few connections so im told i only joined it a few weeks ago so possibly someone could do something like that maybe local to the area you are in so someone could do one for people in london someone else one for people living in the south and so on just an idea "

Whos interested in a Skype group for potential dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reaching for cats sounds like where I'll end up

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I would like to find a lady into this lifestyle who would like a relationship as well as continuing to engage in a little playing together and apart..is there one out there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We weren't looking for a relationship on here when we met. But when you think about it if your looking for a relationship where you can share the lifestyle together, what better place than here? After all swinging is not for many people. If you meet on here you both don't have the pressure/worry of the others reaction to swinging when you approach the subject like in normal dating. Also its highly likely they will likewise want to continue in scene as part of the relationship. So with that out of the way you can both concentrate on dating and getting to know each other without swinging being a potential problem down the road.

I agree entirely - the problem is supply and demand through...thousands of men and v few women who want a relationship here so it’s searching for the proverbial needle!

I think very few men want relationships that women on here x"

I wasn't looking for a relationship when I met Mr Nice on fab. We were both very happy been single as very good friends with benefits and NSA fun. Gradually we started doing things away from the scene together and have fallen in love with each other. It's nice to not have to have broached the subject about swinging as we both like the lifestyle. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. It will happen when it feels right. Enjoy your journey. Miss Nice

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

It would be nice to meet someone for a relationship who is into the lifestyle.Whilst I have no problem attending a club on my own I think

these experiences are best shared.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

Once you’ve entered into the swinging world it does worry me that I won’t be able to settle for a vanilla relationship...

But then also tried a swinging relationship and that had its draw backs too ...

Deep down I just want a lovely lady to love me as much as I love her - simples .... (but soppy yes)

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It's hard enough to find someone to meet and play.

The idea of finding a lady who shares my non-fab interests (camping, rambling, parkrunning, general outdoor activities) as well is the dream.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I'm looking too...my profile states it too.

I did meet a guy on here and we were together 6 years...

We had some great times

Sadly 3 years ago I had to move away due to family commitments, I have been single and looking for another connection since...

Fab is so much better with a partner to share it with x

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By *and2aCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

It can be whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger.

Thank you Rob and Im sorry for your loss bud

Gianluca thankyou. I'll also add there have been a few fab weddings too over the years. "

So sorry rob . Emma was a lovely lass . Yes a good few of them and a good few i have been too over my 14 yrs on fab .

Ive also had relationships but hell the jelousy was unreal in one or two and not from me .

But they do come when you least expect them .

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

We know it's not a dating website.

But is it wrong that single swingers might want to meet and become a swinging couple.

Unfortunately the fab-dating site seems to have disappeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rescuing cats I mean lol

If they need rescuing - they have run out of lives! Using that comparison - I’m similar to a cat! Ruby- nudge nudge hint hint ??"

The tragic part of the story is, I’m allergic to cats lol

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

It's a swinging website for swingers whether single or couples. Single swingers have ever right to be here to date and meet fellow single swingers that eventually become a swinging couple like yourselves.

A few have been part of a swinging couple and are currently single and enjoy the lifestyle so what's the problem?

Some couples just exude a certain uppity attitude

What happens when a swinging couple decide to break up? Do they then have to leave fab or the swinging lifestyle because they are single and are shunned from the community?

Fab is what you want it to be, so many different reasons for being here and that's the great thing about this website.

So any couple viewing this thread, scoffing at all the poor singletons wanting to date, do it silently. Thanks xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

Nobody is complaining. People are asking for more functionality and a way of meeting likeminded people - which, ironically is the very same reason why you’re on here yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website

It's a swinging website for swingers whether single or couples. Single swingers have ever right to be here to date and meet fellow single swingers that eventually become a swinging couple like yourselves.

A few have been part of a swinging couple and are currently single and enjoy the lifestyle so what's the problem?

Some couples just exude a certain uppity attitude

What happens when a swinging couple decide to break up? Do they then have to leave fab or the swinging lifestyle because they are single and are shunned from the community?

Fab is what you want it to be, so many different reasons for being here and that's the great thing about this website.

So any couple viewing this thread, scoffing at all the poor singletons wanting to date, do it silently. Thanks xxx"

Well said x

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By *iccii69Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Hi all - likewise am looking to meet that elusive fem for dating/stag/vixen relationship - would be lovely to meet someone likeminded.....

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral


"Rescuing cats I mean lol"

This is exactly how i feel xx

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

PDI and Loughborough


"I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger.

Thank you Rob and Im sorry for your loss bud

Gianluca thankyou. I'll also add there have been a few fab weddings too over the years.

So sorry rob . Emma was a lovely lass . Yes a good few of them and a good few i have been too over my 14 yrs on fab .

Ive also had relationships but hell the jelousy was unreal in one or two and not from me .

But they do come when you least expect them . "

Sioux thankyou I'm sure we will meet again once safe socials are possible. XX

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

Does it matterwhat they use it for? Does it say somewhere in the rules that dating isn't allowed?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'd like to meet someone who I can be me with. Met a few guys on dating apps but when I mention that I like to go to clubs etc they aren't so keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope everyone manages to eventually find what they’re looking for

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website "

People meet up and click in all kinds of situations... don’t understand your comment tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to meet someone who I can be me with. Met a few guys on dating apps but when I mention that I like to go to clubs etc they aren't so keen. "

Had the same with women myself. I live in hope on here lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Well it *is* a Swinging site not a dating site. And from what I hear it’s even harder there! At least people here are clear about why they’re here... "

So where does one go to date a swinger???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined Fab back in 2009, been to socials clubs met people and made friends. For me I clicked with my late partner at a swingers party, we had a fantastic 6 years together until she passed away earlier this year. Being positive go to clubs and socials when we can as it is possible to get into a relationship with another swinger.

Thank you Rob and Im sorry for your loss bud

Gianluca thankyou. I'll also add there have been a few fab weddings too over the years.

So sorry rob . Emma was a lovely lass . Yes a good few of them and a good few i have been too over my 14 yrs on fab .

Ive also had relationships but hell the jelousy was unreal in one or two and not from me .

But they do come when you least expect them .

Sioux thankyou I'm sure we will meet again once safe socials are possible. XX "

Aww i do hope so Rob . Asap xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to meet someone who I can be me with. Met a few guys on dating apps but when I mention that I like to go to clubs etc they aren't so keen. "

This! In the vanilla dating world it’s so hard. I met a guy, fantastic person. Strictly monogamous. I brought up my experiences but he said I’d have to leave them behind if we were to have a relationship. I tried it, but just couldn’t do it.

Another guy I met prior to that..: we both joined here. Couples profile. But long distance and 6 kids between us meant we only saw each other a handful of times a year over 2 years and I fell for him big time. But we enjoyed the swinging together. But circumstances led us to parting ways. I am still heartbroken about that tbh lol but slowly accepting we couldn’t make it work.

So back here with a singles profile now. I didn’t realise once a partnership ceased your lifestyle interests had to be curbed too.

I don’t want to not try at all so if this site generates possibilities what is even wrong with that????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol"

Have you considered polyamoury?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol

Have you considered polyamoury?"

I’ve looked in to it, haven’t really considered it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emima_blackTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Ah yes, those idiot guys make it hard for the rest of us (again), and not in a good way.. xx to you all

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Unlike a dating site membership, most experienced swingers on here have partners and multiple people they can call on and have great sex with whenever they want and a limited amount of time to think about meeting new people. So typically someone has to be very special to break through , unless the person they are after is just ‘sleeping their way through fab’

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Im a bit bored of one offs now. I really want a stag vixen or hotwife cuckold relationship now with the normal side of things out of the bedroom like snuggles on the sofa and pubs/restaurants etc. I can’t continue in the vanilla dating world anymore. I will travel for the right person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been looking for a swinging relationship on here and on other dating sites for a few years now. I don't want to be a single guy as I loved the scene with my late wife . I cant imagine just having a vanilla relationship forever more so I'll keep on looking .

Think it's hard early on on normal dating sites to mention the swinging , however it cuts down on time and scares a lot off !

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

There does seem to be lots of people who have met their soulmate on here and set up home quite happily.

I think there is a chance of meeting the right person here.

At least you will already be aware of some shared interests.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I met a guy on a vanilla dating website and after a few dates (and a few drinks) I told him about swinging and he acted like I had just taken a s**t in his mouth!

I realise I need to date another swinger as I love the lifestyle

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Thinking about a dating forum post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear all this!

I can’t do monogomous dating. Tried it... failed.

I can’t do swinging with a fuck buddy. Tried it... fun, but no intimacy.

I need a good success story here where a partnership in the lifestyle can be set upon, achieved, and continue to thrive in a good relationship.

Rocking horse shit/cloud cuckoo land comes to mind lol

Have you considered polyamoury?

I’ve looked in to it, haven’t really considered it though! "

I mean it could work. I have a few people who I am with. It just takes honesty as to who you are spending your time with.

Plus I am slightly different in that kids and buying a house etc... has never been for me, so dating and holidays and food and trips is all I am after.

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"Ironically, most of the people on here that are complaining are single men and woman.

Perhaps you don’t understand that’s it’s a swinging website NOT a dating website

Does it matterwhat they use it for? Does it say somewhere in the rules that dating isn't allowed? "

Indeed, for many singles on here , finding a compatible partner to enjoy the lifestyle with would be a big bonus!

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley


"Hi x

I'm struggling to find somwone who is not here for just fuck x "

I'm local, looking for something more, but outside your age range..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thinking about a dating forum post?"

I think a forum for this would be ideal. Being able to search by geography and interest / there are so many single swingers who’d love to find a compatible partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about a dating forum post?"

Dating forum/option on interests DEFINITELY a good idea

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I met someone from another swinging site ... we fell into a relationship and fell in love ... it was just as perfect as could be ... and then he proposed ...12months later we had a terminal cancer diagnosis and 16months later he was gone ... that was 4 yrs ago ... I’ve given up ever finding that again "

so sorry for your loss ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about a dating forum post?

I think a forum for this would be ideal. Being able to search by geography and interest / there are so many single swingers who’d love to find a compatible partner."

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By *ntrigue me 2019Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

That is a fantastic idea, I'd love to find someone who shares my kinks, the possibilities for fun would be endless then.

Being single does have it's advantages, however, being with someone you're involved with not just a fwb would be ideal.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I'm looking to date, to find a lady to spoil as my princess, a long term relationship. Where we can do "Vanilla" couple things as well as enjoy the swinging pleasures in life. Love travelling, intelligent conversation, naturism, and of course watching my lady have fun with others.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"There does seem to be lots of people who have met their soulmate on here and set up home quite happily.

I think there is a chance of meeting the right person here.

At least you will already be aware of some shared interests."

It makes total sense. The fact your a swinger and more importantly you want to continue swinging once in a relationship is a petty massive skeleton in the closest in the vanilla world. At least dating on here you remove the stress as the skeleton is already out and everyone is happy about it. At the end of the day I think we all want to be with someone who accepts us for who we are and wants to share our madness with us.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I did get talking to a lady off Tinder we got quite intimate virtually! So I thought I'd test the water and mentioned I like swinging and have a few lady friends.. Guess what she didn’t like the idea!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I've enjoyed the scene for over a decade now and I probably know a similar amount of couples who swing together and are on the scene, and couples who live a more traditional lifestyle.

It definitely can work, I believe personally, like any relationship trust and honesty are the foundation.

Throw in good open communication and similar interests and I believe people have a good chance of meeting someone to share it all with.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral


"I met a guy on a vanilla dating website and after a few dates (and a few drinks) I told him about swinging and he acted like I had just taken a s**t in his mouth!

I realise I need to date another swinger as I love the lifestyle"

Was he an extra kinky swinger then? : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does seem to be lots of people who have met their soulmate on here and set up home quite happily.

I think there is a chance of meeting the right person here.

At least you will already be aware of some shared interests."

Yes. And am hoping that such a meeting has just happened to me. Obviously with covid about, we are taking things slowly. But means we are doing the vanilla world flirt around each other thing first. Which, to be honest, I am finding rather nice. Instead of just jumping in to bed first

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By *ornymale1234Man
over a year ago

derby

Yes be nice to take someone out for drink and meal and not just jump in to bed but there none in the area think fab should open a dating site just for swingers i

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Hi x

I'm struggling to find somwone who is not here for just fuck x "
.

TBH that's exactly what both Debs and I were looking for when we first met nearly 20 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sedans and intimacy in general is soo much better with someone you genuinely share a connection with, Ofcourse swingers have a soft side as well, I hope lol

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Sedans and intimacy in general is soo much better with someone you genuinely share a connection with, Ofcourse swingers have a soft side as well, I hope lol"

Much as I don't consider myself a hardened swinger, I definitely have a soft side (arguably too soft)

My last gf told me I'm far soppier than she ever imagined I would be.

Would be very open to the idea of dating someone from this site, if the opportunity arose

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

As a single man with an interest in the swinging scene it would be nice to find a like minded female to enter this world, even better if it leads to more, that's just a bonus. The problem is, im single(widowed) everyone stereotypes this as a bloke out to get laid. I do get that there are a lot on for that, but some of us have a genuine interest and want to share the experience with a similar individual. If something leads to more than just the swinging side of things then great, a little vanilla to go with the spice. Like some mentioned above, those interested in more tend to be too far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so glad I’m not the only person who is thinking along these lines. I want this lifestyle and I thought guys would be more up front and honest. Yes we all love sex but I’m hoping for something more long term to experience things together. Why do so many just think we just want a shag? It’s not a free hooker site we have feelings!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm looking to date as well. I don't like hook ups as I feel like I'm treated as a free prostitute.

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella


"Hi x

I'm struggling to find somwone who is not here for just fuck x "

HI,

I'm looking for more than just a Fuck...

Fancy chat and getting to know you better...

Andy xx

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella


"I’m so glad I’m not the only person who is thinking along these lines. I want this lifestyle and I thought guys would be more up front and honest. Yes we all love sex but I’m hoping for something more long term to experience things together. Why do so many just think we just want a shag? It’s not a free hooker site we have feelings! "

HI,

I'm looking for more than just a Fuck, Long Term with like minded Female xx

Andy xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

looking for a beautiful likeminded soul for fwb lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I feel the same. Think some guys forget

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

Hi,

I'd like to meet like minded Sexy female but also for Long Term relationship..

Andy xx

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Yea I feel the same. Think some guys forget "

Hopefully not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking about a dating forum post?"

Yes definitely I’ll be interested

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"looking for a beautiful likeminded soul for fwb lifestyle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I'd be very interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looking for a beautiful likeminded soul for fwb lifestyle "

Does the soul have to be beautiful, or does the person have to be beautiful or both?

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I would ideally like to find a long term partner who also likes this lifestyle xxx

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Hi x

I'm struggling to find somwone who is not here for just fuck x "
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Say hi sometime xx

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

I’d love to find someone to date I know this is a sex site but sometimes doing couple things is good. I want to get a connection with a guy and not have to worry about him finding out I’m in a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely some of those who say they are looking to date/ relationship partner do not say that on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I don’t because I’ve had may guys say what are you on here for then. It’s a sex site! So rather not want the hassle. I try to find out what they are looking for first plus I’m open to just see where things go

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Hi

Skype group for single swingers looking for a date

Mail me if you want to join group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I don’t because I’ve had may guys say what are you on here for then. It’s a sex site! So rather not want the hassle. I try to find out what they are looking for first plus I’m open to just see where things go "

Just this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thinking about a dating forum post?"

Try the Matchmaking thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking the other day could I be ready for a new long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These sites are all shit. Too many fakes. Your best bet is to go clubs. I met my ex at eureka. Although she didn't wonna swing when we got together lol but all this online stuff is so unnatural an your also competing with an overwhelming amount of men to women ratio.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Not just meet and play...where do people go to meet someone likeminded for a relationship? Meet up apps are full of fake profiles so what are the best options? "

Grabs popcorn as I’m wanting the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These sites are all shit. Too many fakes. Your best bet is to go clubs. I met my ex at eureka. Although she didn't wonna swing when we got together lol but all this online stuff is so unnatural an your also competing with an overwhelming amount of men to women ratio. "

I don't think this is true. There are quite a few examples of people finding relationships on here...once you sort through the timewasters!

I met my ex at OP4F and everyone said the same thing about going to clubs too. There is nothing wrong with putting it out there x

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

This would be the dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such lovely people who are open about feelings on this forum thread. We are all similar having unfulfilled needs and some helpful suggestions. It's not easy to find to satisfy our needs and loneliness is dreadful especially for us unattached single guys, assume unattached single females also whose in boxes are flooded with timewasters. Hard to resolve but at least people feel comfortable to Express their feelings here.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

This is what i need now, cuddles, walks and pubs as well as fun in this wild swing world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what i need now, cuddles, walks and pubs as well as fun in this wild swing world"

Don't we all!

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"This is what i need now, cuddles, walks and pubs as well as fun in this wild swing world"

Sums it up!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics


"These sites are all shit. Too many fakes. Your best bet is to go clubs. I met my ex at eureka. Although she didn't wonna swing when we got together lol but all this online stuff is so unnatural an your also competing with an overwhelming amount of men to women ratio. "

I think this site can be really good for people wanting to meet others, for me personally it's clubs only, as I'm just not prepared to invest the time online as I don't trust anything cyber orientated.

I do know plenty of people who have met online though and created something lasting together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These sites are all shit. Too many fakes. Your best bet is to go clubs. I met my ex at eureka. Although she didn't wonna swing when we got together lol but all this online stuff is so unnatural an your also competing with an overwhelming amount of men to women ratio.

I think this site can be really good for people wanting to meet others, for me personally it's clubs only, as I'm just not prepared to invest the time online as I don't trust anything cyber orientated.

I do know plenty of people who have met online though and created something lasting together.

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Miss yoooooou beautiful xx

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By *irgilMan
over a year ago

london

hi all! any single females interested in a chat?

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