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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey hows it going guys? So I'm new to the site and arent having much luck with engaging conversations with anyone. Anyone offer some tips to either spruce up my profile or any need-to-know advice? Thanks in advance.

Jez x

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Practically all will look at the profile before opening the message.

Have you looked at your profile how its seen by everyone else? (Do so my clicking your own name of you haven't).

Would you reply or engage in conversation with you based on it? If so then crack on as you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Practically all will look at the profile before opening the message.

Have you looked at your profile how its seen by everyone else? (Do so my clicking your own name of you haven't).

Would you reply or engage in conversation with you based on it? If so then crack on as you are."

I just dont know what else to put. Thanks for your help tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd lose the pic of you with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd lose the pic of you with someone else"

Oh, and the first line of text

Bored people arent sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd lose the pic of you with someone else

Oh, and the first line of text

Bored people arent sexy"

Thanks a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd lose the pic of you with someone else

Oh, and the first line of text

Bored people arent sexy

Thanks a lot "

Well let me put it another way then, do you think "I'm really bored" is going to inspire people to find you attractive and interesting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd lose the pic of you with someone else

Oh, and the first line of text

Bored people arent sexy

Thanks a lot

Well let me put it another way then, do you think "I'm really bored" is going to inspire people to find you attractive and interesting?"

Yh no I've changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is for some a big thing when reading a profile and being fab straight can put some people off

It’s just a label at the end of the day but we live in a world we’re labels matter.

Be true to yourself and live your best life even on here.

Best of luck.

T

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I'd lose the pic of you with someone else

Oh, and the first line of text

Bored people arent sexy"

Never understood how someone with the internet at their fingers can be bored? It's the internet lol it doesn't stop at social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey hows it going guys? So I'm new to the site and arent having much luck with engaging conversations with anyone. Anyone offer some tips to either spruce up my profile or any need-to-know advice? Thanks in advance.

Jez x"

Well no one is meeting at moment so not surprised people not bothered. But also your information is a bit confusing. You say you are straight but you list Men and TVs as people you want to meet. Have a think about this and decide what it is you do actually want and put that down in straight forward language. Also loose the hat. It's only in songs that people say you can leave your hat on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any fanny about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another fab straight profile

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hi OP and welcome to Fab! Don't change it if it truly reflects who you are and what you are looking for. If you do, it's almost like false advertising. There's general advice on mine should you wish to use it. Good luck. Xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What do you write when you message people? A lot of guys have no idea how bad their messages are. Don't be one of them. Post an example and ask for feedback.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s better than ‘fill in later’ but it will merge into the background like many guys profiles do, on here.

Photos, for a guy I suggest more than four but less than ten. They should however each be different so body shots (you state ample, well let’s see how ample) suited and booted etc..

Text, stay away from graphic descriptions of sex or bragging how great you are at giving oral or repeater etc..women, men or tgirls don’t believe that for a minute, unless you have verifications that back up the claim.

For a guy I’d say more of what you’ll bring to a meet, than what you’re looking for, as unfortunately there’s plenty of choice on here especially for women.

Profile should be treated as organic, if it’s not working then change it.

My advice like any, should be treated with scepticism as it may not achieve any success at all, that’s why I spruce mine up a few times a year. Add and subtract pictures regularly.

Good luck Op

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Maybe some better photos. Three headshots don't give anyone any idea of your size/build. A tasteful cock pic is good to have (just not a close-up, lit by a camera flash, shot).

Also...you can't accommodate (which is fine) but people will assume that's because you're married/attached so a note as to why might avoid that.

Bry (and Char)

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