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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi.frustrated and lost young man.previous posts may have been crude and out of context.

Struggling to engage in conversation and lack of confidence.id like to rebuild confidence and self esteem etc but dont know where to start due to previous relationships.i thought this would be a good place to start but where or how do i start from profile to explaining etc..any advice appreciated and please no negativity.T.I.A

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

This is purely my own opinion, but I think many will now ignore or block you based on your previous posts.

Unfortunately fab can be a cruel place and people can and will just block profiles if they read something that they don't like or agree with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green arrow is a good indicator of how a poster approaches fab and going by your history I’d suggest deleting your account and starting again but maybe try a calmer approach and use a little bit of respect.

Alas you can’t erase your green arrow but best of luck with what ever you do.

T

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"hi.frustrated and lost young man.previous posts may have been crude and out of context.

Struggling to engage in conversation and lack of confidence.id like to rebuild confidence and self esteem etc but dont know where to start due to previous relationships.i thought this would be a good place to start but where or how do i start from profile to explaining etc..any advice appreciated and please no negativity.T.I.A"

Based on the green arrow I'd say quit and start again.

New profile.

Less cock pics.

Think about what you want and more importantly what you offer.

Punctuation and grammar are important to a lot of people.

It's a cliche but it's true, your profile is your shop window. Dress it well.

Good luck.

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde

Don't know what you've done or said but if people block you and you get a bad rep it's hard to come back from that so maybe are up another account and learn from your mistakes but personally doesn't bother me if I get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi.frustrated and lost young man.previous posts may have been crude and out of context.

Struggling to engage in conversation and lack of confidence.id like to rebuild confidence and self esteem etc but dont know where to start due to previous relationships.i thought this would be a good place to start but where or how do i start from profile to explaining etc..any advice appreciated and please no negativity.T.I.A"

Why don't you start by explaining why you posted so many shit threads?

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Although I’ve been on fab a few years, I’m new to Posting on the forums. What’s the green arrow thing you’re talking about?!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Although I’ve been on fab a few years, I’m new to Posting on the forums. What’s the green arrow thing you’re talking about?! "

By your name there's a green arrow. Tap it and it'll bring up the last 35 threads you posted on, or whoever's posts you're looking at.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Although I’ve been on fab a few years, I’m new to Posting on the forums. What’s the green arrow thing you’re talking about?!

By your name there's a green arrow. Tap it and it'll bring up the last 35 threads you posted on, or whoever's posts you're looking at."

Ahhhh I see! Thank you

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wow I can only hope my green tick doesn’t look quite so awful as OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piece of advice, don't be a jerk.

Also, punctuation pal.

I struggle with my self esteem and this place probably doesn't help tbh but I'll never stop being trying to be nice even if sometimes I'm a bit too eager.

Even if my looks are way below par below par for the "beautiful people" being nice can be a leveller.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's crystal clear that you have no idea about women and their needs and desires so before doing anything, try reading about women and actually listening to them without imagining they are an object in which to stick your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's crystal clear that you have no idea about women and their needs and desires so before doing anything, try reading about women and actually listening to them without imagining they are an object in which to stick your cock."

There seems to be a lot of these types of members joining recently.

Maybe it is due to the lockdown....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's crystal clear that you have no idea about women and their needs and desires so before doing anything, try reading about women and actually listening to them without imagining they are an object in which to stick your cock.

There seems to be a lot of these types of members joining recently.

Maybe it is due to the lockdown...."

I've been here ten years and it's the same as it's always been. It seems we are failing our sons.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's crystal clear that you have no idea about women and their needs and desires so before doing anything, try reading about women and actually listening to them without imagining they are an object in which to stick your cock."

Agree 100% with this.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"It's crystal clear that you have no idea about women and their needs and desires so before doing anything, try reading about women and actually listening to them without imagining they are an object in which to stick your cock."

Totally this.

Your previous posts have really not shown you in a positive light. Your profile is very rambling & difficult to read & doesn't really make sense, it's also totally at odds with the type of posts & comments you have made on the forums.

K

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Although I’ve been on fab a few years, I’m new to Posting on the forums. What’s the green arrow thing you’re talking about?!

By your name there's a green arrow. Tap it and it'll bring up the last 35 threads you posted on, or whoever's posts you're looking at.

Ahhhh I see! Thank you "

It's known locally as "the green arrow of truth"

It can be both revealing and educational.

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