FabSwingers.com forum: Is my new profile wrong?

By *oLfEnStEiN619 OP Man
over a year ago

Billingham

I've just joined not so long ago and been verified today. However I've not had much luck with replies. I've never been on a site like this before so am looking for peoples advice, opinions and even criticism about my profile?

Am I expecting things to fast? When I send messages am I not saying the write things? Or is my profile completely worded wrong in my profile. Is the description to demanding? Thanks all comments welcome.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Whoa!!

You'll find this query crops up so often in these pages, and the answer is simple.

You've only been on a week! It takes time. You are up against dozens, if not hundreds of other guys, and it is NOT an "instant fix" site.

To get noticed you have to rise above the others, which means you have to "sell" yourself, which means working on your Profile. It is so short and says little.

You have to expand on it; list your likes, preferences etc, and group the text into paragraphs.

Get yourself a full facial photo. Get involved with the Forums, and when you feel comfortable, get to a club, even if it is just for a social evening.

You have to get noticed; that's the crucial part. But success will come along at some time, but it does take time and requires effort.

Good Luck.

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By *oLfEnStEiN619 OP Man
over a year ago

Billingham

"Whoa!!

You'll find this query crops up so often in these pages, and the answer is simple.

You've only been on a week! It takes time. You are up against dozens, if not hundreds of other guys, and it is NOT an "instant fix" site.

To get noticed you have to rise above the others, which means you have to "sell" yourself, which means working on your Profile. It is so short and says little.

You have to expand on it; list your likes, preferences etc, and group the text into paragraphs.

Get yourself a full facial photo. Get involved with the Forums, and when you feel comfortable, get to a club, even if it is just for a social evening.

You have to get noticed; that's the crucial part. But success will come along at some time, but it does take time and requires effort.

Good Luck."

Thanks for the advice its most welcome. Think I'm going to look around other profiles as well for hints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a search in the forums too as there is lots of advice and if you have been here before, can those you met then give you a verification?

Good luck and welcome back

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By *oLfEnStEiN619 OP Man
over a year ago

Billingham

"Do a search in the forums too as there is lots of advice and if you have been here before, can those you met then give you a verification?

Good luck and welcome back

I've not been on this site before so its my first time but gonna take both advice on that, I got a pic of my face but only in friends gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know if i can judge being straight but doesnt look to much wrong with profile but as a single man you just have to keep looking for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is my new profile wrong?"

oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These fetishes you mention - some detail would possibly be enticing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah fettish is such a funny word, saying it without expanding can bring intrigue but can also bring up peoples fears and they may just pass on contact if they have no idea what they are. but if you say what they are then maybe someoene with similar ones will be interested enough to contact you

public face pic will help loads, i know you got in friends only, but showing it not only shows your not cheating but lets people see what you look like which is a major part of getting meets, after all your going to be going up against guys who arnt afriad to show anything they got.

ive been getting meets from my first week, and been on here as single and couple so feel like ive learnt quite a bit in the year or so ive been around these sort of sites.

overall i dont find i have much problem getting replies or meets, sure not everyone replies but enough do,

concentrate on getting to know people and making friends if your after single women, as if you get on well it will make the idea of meeting so much more appealing, if they chat back dont ask them for meets straight away as thats what most blokes do then they go back to getting ignored again,

i find my profiles worked well for me, as i think my photos sell my looks well, ive gone into my interests by keeping it simple and using the tick boxes, and just used the profile text to describe myself in a little more detail, but made sure no paragraphs dominate my page, as i want people to click on my profile and be able to see my pics and most my info without having to scroll

simplicity is often the key, after all your trying to get interest to reply to a message, and many people will read your profile before deciding to open your message

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As By Robbies-Got-Talent says, with some great advice, if you have special interest needs, then it's ideal to expand upon them -

it stops the guessing game, and most people won't be queuing at a single guy's profiles sending messages saying 'please show me your pics' or 'tell me your kinks' etc.

You've taken on board the advice so far.

Overall, you will benefit from a longer more detailed profile. All the pics you can get on - as long as it's not tons of cock pics or variations on the same body part/pose, will help too.

Welcome and Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do i get looked at by more men than women and only men want to meet me not women ?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"why do i get looked at by more men than women and only men want to meet me not women ?"

That bent over avatar and the fact that you mention that you're curious...

Add in the number of men onsite versus the number of women and fanny's your uncle bob in a frock.

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By *oLfEnStEiN619 OP Man
over a year ago

Billingham

Hiya I've updated my profile so I was just wondering if you's could check it out and let me know what you think? Does it sound to soft and boring or was it better than the others :D

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