FabSwingers.com forum: Any thoughts on the profile?

By *apperDom OP Man
over a year ago

London

Wanted to get a woman's point of view here and if you think there are any pointers or things I could improve with my profile?

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got any Dom type pics in play?

Sometimes fems want to know, why you can't accommodate x

If I've missed the explanation of that sorry. I did skim over the bio quick.

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By *apperDom OP Man
over a year ago

London

Yes! Although i've heard women don't like seeing other women on a guy's profile

So i've been reluctant to post those pics

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Normally when a bloke can't accommodate it's cos his Mrs or kids are there. I'm totally single live alone and still struggle for meets . Good luck OP but your chances are very slim to zero of meeting a genuine female or couple on here. Try the club's.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Yes! Although i've heard women don't like seeing other women on a guy's profile

So i've been reluctant to post those pics "

It’s a swinging site, not a dating one. If women don’t want to see you with other women, don’t waste your time with them. Those people are being small minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes! Although i've heard women don't like seeing other women on a guy's profile

So i've been reluctant to post those pics "

That’s just some people’s views post a varied collection of pics. It’s your profile.. if your a Dom then let your pics show it too

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By *apperDom OP Man
over a year ago

London

Thank you for the replies everyone

And i do agree 100%, i think it puts some people off, but I'm not here to be exclusive to them. I guess it's better to look at it as me showing off my fine work haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

I'd suggest that you expand on your flexibility and sensitivity to others, as it could seem like you are overlooking empathy somewhat. Consider focusing on your key attributes and doing a fine check that each of them are included and not contradicted. That should reveal a clearer picture of you.

Regarding your pics that include others -

If it's fine that you know and accept that you will probably lose some people when they see those, you can continue as now. Consider why people are viewing pics - it's largely to let them form a good representation of how you look. When you are a small fraction of the pic contents, that opportunity and their needs are lost. If someone's threshold for negatives is breached, you lose them.

Reflect on whether the pics are better focused on letting others get what they want from them, whilst the text can convey anything important that you want them to understand about you.

It's a good profile, would attract me but there are likely some who, whilst they are bombarded with choice, may skip to the next messager instead. It won't generally be about being not sexually matched but they weren't satisfied by how you were trying to communicate that you were.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Negative status update and most of it consisted of the BDSM test. No thanks. However, don't change it if it truly reflects who you are and what you are looking for. If you do, it's almost like false advertising. There's general advice on mine should you wish to use it. Good luck. Xx

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By *apperDom OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hm some very good points here! I find it comes down to the balancing of the Dom attributes and the social/outside personality, and trying to convey that through text can get long at times or confusing to some

It does give me a few things to think about though for sure. I'm always on and off with leaving the dick pics there. I mean most men on here have a dick in their hand or mirror picture of it on their profile, seems way over-used at this point

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

What struck me was the claim that you say you are 100% degrader and sadist and you have a photo of your hand round a woman's throat. We wouldn't touch you with somebody else's bargepole.

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