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By *ik501 OP   Man
over a year ago

withernsea

Can any of you lovely people give me some tips or advice on what to put in a message that will get noticed and make you stand out from the rest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more to work on than your messages.

I wouldnt read your message based on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on here for more than a year m8. What have you been doing all this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean it is hard. you want to be respectful and nice but a lot of people are like "dont be boring and just say hey". its hard especially for males because women get hundreds of messages and you want to stand out but also dont want to come off as a dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say a profile pic, but one of my best friends on here hasn’t got a profile pic!!! But he had to work his ass off to get my trust

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Start off with "Hello". It's amazing how many people don't do that. Use their names, however they are given in their profile. Say why you think you might be compatible, showing that you have read their profile and are not just carpet-bombing the same massage to 1,000 people. Don't say anything particularly sexual beyond a moderate flirt. Be polite and don't sound entitled. If you can make them laugh then even better.

You're going to struggle with no photos and hardly any text in your profile. We probably wouldn't even open a message from somebody without a profile photo.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Attach a clear face picture.

Ask them a question which shows interest in their profile.

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