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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there anything you guys look for? Do you look at someone’s profile picture?

The headline?

Im asking out of curiosity, I get a few messages read but no replies. Would usually try and send a few lines, a few questions and attach a face picture but I’m not sure what else to do, any tips are appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If avatar is interesting and message is decent, I look at the profile. Otherwise I delete or block.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Is there anything you guys look for? Do you look at someone’s profile picture?

The headline?

Im asking out of curiosity, I get a few messages read but no replies. Would usually try and send a few lines, a few questions and attach a face picture but I’m not sure what else to do, any tips are appreciated."

Try adding more dick pics to your profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think there's anything more you can do. You seem to have a good approach. It's probably a question of keep trying, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pics and no effort at writing something about yourself etc usually goes straight in the bin for us. Humour is key

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the feedback.

Humour, putting it in words is a bit tougher than I thought on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I'm probably like most people here, there may be some things that are a total game changer - these may be interests, looks personality aspects and these can work to exclude or include. The overall sum result is also important and makes the decision easier.

I look at the profile of someone messaging and form my first assessment. Photos included in messages help build this up, as do the message contents.

A profile name doesn't usually deter me but it can do for many people.

For success with me, most results will be gained via effort on your profile.

It can be impaired or increased by your message content - if it's zero or low effort, it reduces your chances of receiving increased interest or may just kill it dead.

Fab means sustained hard work for single men. Some survive and thrive, many don't. Many don't seem to even want to adjust unrealstic expectations, often becoming negative or uncomfortable to deal with

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

My first impression comes from the first line of your profile text: "Here to fulfil some of my needs". If you wrote to us and we saw that I would immediately think that you are not interested in our needs or wants because your top priority is you. That's all we need to know. Pass.

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