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By *orfolkPleaser87 OP   Man
over a year ago

based in Norfolk but travel alot

Hi all,

I'm just wandering what I am doing wrong and looking for some advice.

I know the ratio of men to women is insane on here but I just get passed over all the time most the time no even a reply to a message, let alone anything further.

I know I have no verification's which doesn't help but can't get them if I can't get a meet.

I would be grateful for some advice / feedback?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Is that drawl down your suit from the poking out tongue or a spunked over mirror in your first public photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *alistraWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

What about your profule do you think would make a woman want to reply to a message from you?

Put yourself in our shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that drawl down your suit from the poking out tongue or a spunked over mirror in your first public photo "

Clean yer mirror

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It must be very difficult for lots of you single guys, but surely, after a year and no meets/verifications you would want to try something different?

Good luck.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't find pics with sanitary bins in the background especially sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find pics with sanitary bins in the background especially sexy. "

Your photos are really Fab. Suppose us guys need to be more creative like you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on Fab at least 2.5 years (one of your photos is dated February 2018). In that time, have you seriously not been able to get yourself to any organised social or a club, so people could get to know you in person, and that you could get a verification?

This is not the best time to start over but if you are serious about this lifestyle, redo your profile so it reflects a bit more about you, your personality, what you are looking for and what you can offer. Do include why you can't accommodate, as in most cases it is assumed the person who cannot accommodate is married/in a relationship. If you are married/in a relationship, be honest about it. Yes, it will limit your chances on here, but at least you won't be deceitful.

Lose the cock pic, put it in your friends photo, and then you can always send it in a message when required. As long as it's not the first message.

Good luck.

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By *orfolkPleaser87 OP   Man
over a year ago

based in Norfolk but travel alot

I've made the suggested changes. Thanks to all for the helpful insights. Any more constructive criticism or positive feedback is welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would also like a few profile tips! Wanna get more involved in the scene but I never seem to have any luck, any help appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would also like a few profile tips! Wanna get more involved in the scene but I never seem to have any luck, any help appreciated "

It’s less about ur pics mate and more about ur chat ! A shy baby never gets no sweets hahaha

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By *heLipsLickerMan
over a year ago

Love Island


"What about your profule do you think would make a woman want to reply to a message from you?

Put yourself in our shoes. "

Most men’s feet would never fit.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Op, if you don’t go to clubs or socials, very rarely contribute to the forums and your profile is bland and uninspiring, why do you think you’re not getting meets on here ?

Nobody can write a profile for someone else, it doesn’t truly reflect you, if they did.

But FAB is a community, you either get involved or stand in the background with thousands of other Men with similar outlooks and bland profiles like yourself.

Asking for help is a start but if you truly want to meet others on here, start doing the work.

Get some better pictures up, use the camera timer facility and check the background, dirty plates or underwear never look good. Then try to show your sparkling personality within the text, humour always goes down better than graphic sex acts you’d like to try.

And finally get on the forums, people will look at your profile then and if it’s interesting your messages then may get read and responded to.

Good luck

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