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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anything I can do to increase likelihood of being replied too? I haven’t got any verify which I know doesn’t help but no one wants to help me get any apart from guys if I meet them but I’m not here to meet guys haha! Thanks in advance

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport


"Anything I can do to increase likelihood of being replied too? I haven’t got any verify which I know doesn’t help but no one wants to help me get any apart from guys if I meet them but I’m not here to meet guys haha! Thanks in advance "
simple to answer, your profile won’t be helping you op. Oh and if you don’t want messages from men that use the filters

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Don’t blend into the background on here, plenty of profiles written exactly the same as yours. As you’ve not asked for profile advice I can’t comment to explicitly.

See it as a social site first, when lockdown ends get to socials or clubs, if that seems like too big of a step, then be visible on the forums or chat rooms.

No effort on this site means no one will be interested in you, you’re one of thousands of guy, who are competing to get the attention of very few women.

Basically stand out as best as you can

Good luck Op

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Tell me... what on your profile is there to attract the opposite sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me... what on your profile is there to attract the opposite sex?

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The disclaimer at the bottom had my wife chomping at the bit. !!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does OP even stand for ?? And yeah I guess my profile doesn’t stand out one bit so majority will go for guys with verifys who are more known to the scene whereas I’m brand new basically and haven’t explored yet! Hope your all keeping well during this pandemic and thanks for the kind replies

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"Tell me... what on your profile is there to attract the opposite sex?

The disclaimer at the bottom had my wife chomping at the bit. !!!!

T"

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"What does OP even stand for ?? And yeah I guess my profile doesn’t stand out one bit so majority will go for guys with verifys who are more known to the scene whereas I’m brand new basically and haven’t explored yet! Hope your all keeping well during this pandemic and thanks for the kind replies "

Original poster. We are only trying to give you the help you need. We cant gove you direct advice because you didnt technically ask for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be good looking and dont be ugly. Universal rule for online stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything I can do to increase likelihood of being replied too? I haven’t got any verify which I know doesn’t help but no one wants to help me get any apart from guys if I meet them but I’m not here to meet guys haha! Thanks in advance "

We would say take away all those warnings. What do you honestly think they mean OP??

Thing is though, if you took all that away you wouldn't have a profile left.

Just a thought for you. .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did your current status bring you an influx of messages, OP?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Ditch the warning paragraphs OP. They are meaningless and clutter your profile .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I’d like direct advice. You guys can inbox me if you’d prefer. And if your gonna be a dick about “be good looking” maybe don’t bother commenting. Your not exactly a god for looks are you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No hahaha

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Ok I’d like direct advice. You guys can inbox me if you’d prefer. And if your gonna be a dick about “be good looking” maybe don’t bother commenting. Your not exactly a god for looks are you lol"

Why do you have to be so rude?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wouldn’t you be if someone was making a cocky comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply+quote button helps

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Wouldn’t you be if someone was making a cocky comment?"

I don't see any cocky comments. Use the reply and quote feature so people know wjo you are responding to. Having a rant won't help your chances on here

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport


"Ok I’d like direct advice. You guys can inbox me if you’d prefer. And if your gonna be a dick about “be good looking” maybe don’t bother commenting. Your not exactly a god for looks are you lol"
I think op it’s becoming clear as to why you’re not getting far in the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok I’d like direct advice. You guys can inbox me if you’d prefer. And if your gonna be a dick about “be good looking” maybe don’t bother commenting. Your not exactly a god for looks are you lol I think op it’s becoming clear as to why you’re not getting far in the site. "

Because I don’t take lightly to comments made on

Me? What a shame lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hi and welcome to the forums!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi and welcome to the forums! "

Thanks hun. Hope you and family are safe and well during this pandemic ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does OP even stand for ?? And yeah I guess my profile doesn’t stand out one bit so majority will go for guys with verifys who are more known to the scene whereas I’m brand new basically and haven’t explored yet! Hope your all keeping well during this pandemic and thanks for the kind replies

Original poster. We are only trying to give you the help you need. We cant gove you direct advice because you didnt technically ask for it"

I’d happily take advice from you if your willing too give me some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously being a fanny about what i said which is a half truth about online stuff.

If your offended by that your gonna struggle. Don't be one of those guys who gives women shit when they don't respond though. You're better looking than me and you only need to look at some of the prof pics in the forums to know your up against hench cunts with massive cocks. Don't act wet ffs. Don't take things personally because those kind of guys don't do well online. Doesn't matter what you put in your profile for most women if they don't like your pics. Im a skinny cunt so ive got to work hard. It wasn't even a cocky comment but your gonna get ruined by some of the women on here if you're gonna react like that.

Pics profile personality

Dont take being ignored personally

Don't act needy, beggy or seem desperate

Don't send shit like hi hun or dick pics in your first message. It might work if you're what you're looking for in their profile but i wouldn't know cos no one is openly looking for a skinny bastard.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"What does OP even stand for ?? And yeah I guess my profile doesn’t stand out one bit so majority will go for guys with verifys who are more known to the scene whereas I’m brand new basically and haven’t explored yet! Hope your all keeping well during this pandemic and thanks for the kind replies

Original poster. We are only trying to give you the help you need. We cant gove you direct advice because you didnt technically ask for it

I’d happily take advice from you if your willing too give me some? "

I can give you advice.. but many people who ask for it dont act on it...

You were rude to the guy above. Itll get you no where on here. Learn to note your tongue and smile

As for the profile, maybe try writing what you can offer a lady rather than what you want want want. Also, describing categories as 'ok' isnt very flattering.

For picture advice, all I can suggest is take 100 pictures to get 1 good one, maybe look on some popular guys profiles for picture ideas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does OP even stand for ?? And yeah I guess my profile doesn’t stand out one bit so majority will go for guys with verifys who are more known to the scene whereas I’m brand new basically and haven’t explored yet! Hope your all keeping well during this pandemic and thanks for the kind replies

Original poster. We are only trying to give you the help you need. We cant gove you direct advice because you didnt technically ask for it

I’d happily take advice from you if your willing too give me some?

I can give you advice.. but many people who ask for it dont act on it...

You were rude to the guy above. Itll get you no where on here. Learn to note your tongue and smile

As for the profile, maybe try writing what you can offer a lady rather than what you want want want. Also, describing categories as 'ok' isnt very flattering.

For picture advice, all I can suggest is take 100 pictures to get 1 good one, maybe look on some popular guys profiles for picture ideas. "

I’ll take all of that into consideration and try edit my profile to please people who are reading it. Thanks a lot hun

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi and welcome to the forums!

Thanks hun. Hope you and family are safe and well during this pandemic ????"

All good thanks, there's advice on my profile should you wish to use it and good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profiles an arsey rant..but been here yrs and don't give 2 hoots what others think.

Women are about 1 to 400 men.

So if your not enticing in non fab world it won't shine thru on here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I'm one to judge but your profile doesn't stand out and the pic with a mirror has a rather dubious stain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that I'm one to judge but your profile doesn't stand out and the pic with a mirror has a rather dubious stain."

Wow! Yeah I’m gonna look at putting different photos up for sure. Thanks !

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