FabSwingers.com forum: Frustrating site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's that bit about facebook on your profile ?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Probably a numbers thing and to be honest a blank avatar never goes down well on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

A rant about it in the forums won’t help. I understand your frustrations but people know what they’re looking for on here and they don’t owe you anything. Not even a response. Chin up, if fab isn’t for you, based on what you’ve said about yourself, you’ll be alright without it.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What happened to you on your previous profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

Wow if most women will flirt with you how do you even have time to be here?

I find that most women reply to messages on here, even if it’s just to say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

If you find it so easy to chat and flirt with woman why bother with fab ? Not having a go just curious

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

What others say is right but look at your profile from the view of a lady looking for someone...

No pics, just a silhouette avatar.

A three line non descriptive profile, but nineteen lines on legal stuff!

What does it say about YOU???

Browse the Forum Index for lots of tips on how to improve a profile!

One positive point, you do have 1 Verification, which a lot of guys would kill for in their first year on here!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a very inticing profile other that you have a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!"

I can of course understand the ratio however my experience of actual messages is lack of quality, that is the downfall. It's their issue not so much the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.

If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.

Seems reasonable to me, at least.

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By *ittleREDridingWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

627 unread messages in my inbox and I rarely answer one with no profile pic at all I have to admit. It makes me wary that it’s some dude I’ve rejected making another profile to stalk me. Stalking/obsessive behaviour is an issue on here, you gotta be wary

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

Put a dick pic up you’ll get lots of People messaging you then, granted they’ll be all “fab straight” men but Beggars can’t be choosers

lol

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What's that bit about facebook on your profile ?

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

[Removed by poster at 29/05/20 11:20:54]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Put a dick pic up you’ll get lots of People messaging you then, straight” men but Beggars can’t be choosers

lol "

This is so true I hardly ever get a response from a female or couple even if its a no thanks small fish in a big pond i guess

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

No avatar, no pics to view and one verification in over a year. Add in a rather cocky arrogant status and it hardly shouts nice genuine guy.

We wouldn’t give you a second look

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’d totally chat with you op looking at your profile pic

hit me up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Why are you here?

The lockdown is restricting people from meeting and pulling in even more men here. You're in abundant supply, so have to be more of a pull than the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
lol but your profile is your advert and you dont have one all you have is the really quite pointless disclaimer, no pics and no write up but one veri, your profile is your advert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't reply to you.

1. No avatar

2. No public pics

3. Cocky and whiney status update.

4. No bio info

5. That stupid disclaimer

So basically everything

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Some good advice above, complaining in your status update won't help, and will just turn people away. I've never met anyone through here despite trying with original thoughtful relevant messages. Even when you get an answer, the conversation usually quickly disappears amongst their 500 messages a day. People I have met have been through clubs, who are also on here.

When I look at women's profiles, that "legal" claptrap just makes me turn and walk away, especially if its copied and pasted from elsewhere without even changing the site name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try making an effort with your profile pic for starters, first impressions and all that. By the sounds of it if you get that sorted every woman on fab will want you if you can squeeze them in around all the others your manage to constantly pull

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"No avatar, no pics to view and one verification in over a year. Add in a rather cocky arrogant status and it hardly shouts nice genuine guy.

We wouldn’t give you a second look"

We,d give you guys a second look, third too probably..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't even consider reading your message without a profile picture, never mind respond to it.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

Why should they reply to you?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Picture

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

First thing I do if someone messages me is look at their profile. If its a silhouette pic and basically a blank profile I won't answer anymore. If someone can't be bothered to make even the most basic effort in their profile than they probably won't make any effort with meeting etc. And that disclaimer is a pointless so that's another negative when I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the lads trying to suck you off are pretty chill after a few nos. Deffo wound one to many up who have found on whos nearby ??????

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Terrible profile if you want women to respond

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

You do sound over confident.

The reality is.....can't be arsed to add a photo, can't be arsed to write a profile, can't understand why people aren't tripping over themselves to meet you?

It's not silent blind date!

Put effort in and you'll get effort back.

Currently you come across as a lazy chancer.

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By *acknicklausMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

So how does a genuine guy get off first base? Jack

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"So how does a genuine guy get off first base? Jack

It's a combo of photos, profile and message. Are you presenting the best version of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab straight and lot of "legal crap" instead of having a profile text.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!"

But when i look at the search page, equal number of men and women are online and joined today...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Most will look at a profile before replying OP. I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!

But when i look at the search page, equal number of men and women are online and joined today...

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exactly the devide is not as much as people would like you to believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

A one sentence profile, and no photos.

Now THAT is what we call effort!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.

If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.

Seems reasonable to me, at least. "

You don't have any pics either?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So how does a genuine guy get off first base? Jack

Get off first base?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is fab and the first thing most women and my wife included look at it the profile of the message sender because the profile is the window into the sexual soul.

A good honest well written profile could be the first chance you get to make an impression in your hunt for cunt or cock.

Clear honest profiles that express your personality can win the day.

Yours op puts you in the egg and spoon race without the spoon or indeed the egg.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how does a genuine guy get off first base? Jack

Bare back pics are not helpful

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Decent profile might help !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

PUT SOME PHOTOS ON YOUR PROFILE ...its not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

Welcome to Fab. Get used to it, it's the place where egos come to die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, being male on here can be frustrating. Persevere, it doesn’t have to be the only site/App you use and you don’t have to use it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a fuck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Who gives a fuck"

No one apparently, hence the OP's frustration.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Most women need pics up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Welcome to Fab. Get used to it, it's the place where egos come to die. "
mens egos lol

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

And you post on a forum and don't even respond to the comments you get..

If you got a message who knows how long it would take you to reply to that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."

Profile practically non existent.

No profile pic.

No pics on display.

Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.

You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Profile practically non existent.

No profile pic.

No pics on display.

Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.

You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat no"
exactly i love putting in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Profile practically non existent.

No profile pic.

No pics on display.

Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.

You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do you get most women to chat and flirt with you? Go on the regular apps if you want all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Profile practically non existent.

No profile pic.

No pics on display.

Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.

You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in

"
lol I'm very tanned but not black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.

Profile practically non existent.

No profile pic.

No pics on display.

Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.

You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in

lol I'm very tanned but not black

Hahaha nope you arent black lol

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"What others say is right but look at your profile from the view of a lady looking for someone...

No pics, just a silhouette avatar.

A three line non descriptive profile, but nineteen lines on legal stuff!

What does it say about YOU???

Browse the Forum Index for lots of tips on how to improve a profile!

One positive point, you do have 1 Verification, which a lot of guys would kill for in their first year on here!"
the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

"the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong "

Bang on I think. There is a limit to how much criticism (however polite or constructive it might be) that is good for anyone's mental health

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong

Bang on I think. There is a limit to how much criticism (however polite or constructive it might be) that is good for anyone's mental health"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume your face is visible in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to silhouettes

Don't know why you're having a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guessed this was by a man with no pics as soon as I read the title

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I too am a sex god IRL but on fab my powers shrivel away. I blame the illuminati and admins.

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.

If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.

Seems reasonable to me, at least. "

Your profile may be decent but you have no public pics or avatar yourself

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Womens choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. "
kinda rude...and shalow

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not at all. If the profile isn't what we are looking for why bother reading or replying? Perhaps you should read the faq section where it clearly states no reply means no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t think this is rude or shallow, it’s everyone’s own choice who they choose to speak with.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Womens choice...

We all make choices as I'm sure you do too.

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