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"I'm new here and I don't know whether posting nude pics of myself would attract or interest the ladies to message me? I don't bite. I am a bit disappointed at the moment. I know about no meet ups that's fine " With regards to pics - take a look at other guys (verified ones) pics for ideas of both what works and what might work for you. As for disappointment perhaps your expectations are set wrong - taking a more laid back approach and accepting that meets (when allowed) or even conversations are not guaranteed always helps improve the perception, as does putting some thought into how you approach and use the site to get the most from it - things like writing an interesting profile and building a good set of pics help, as does getting involved in the forums and not just relying on sending blind messages etc | |||
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"I'm new here and I don't know whether posting nude pics of myself would attract or interest the ladies to message me? I don't bite. I am a bit disappointed at the moment. I know about no meet ups that's fine With regards to pics - take a look at other guys (verified ones) pics for ideas of both what works and what might work for you. As for disappointment perhaps your expectations are set wrong - taking a more laid back approach and accepting that meets (when allowed) or even conversations are not guaranteed always helps improve the perception, as does putting some thought into how you approach and use the site to get the most from it - things like writing an interesting profile and building a good set of pics help, as does getting involved in the forums and not just relying on sending blind messages etc " This  | |||
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"I can't do a fantastic write up of me, I am happy to chat first" Makes sense. You can get away with typing on chat vs writing up your profile! I wish I had find a female version of you! | |||
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"I can't do a fantastic write up of me, I am happy to chat first" Why can't you? Just use your imagination. | |||
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"Lack of interest/replies" Take part in the discussions on forums - people will know more about you, your interests, hobbies, etc 98% people I have met we have had interactions on forums, then sent PMs. Good luck! | |||
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"I'm new here and I don't know whether posting nude pics of myself would attract or interest the ladies to message me? I don't bite. I am a bit disappointed at the moment. I know about no meet ups that's fine With regards to pics - take a look at other guys (verified ones) pics for ideas of both what works and what might work for you. As for disappointment perhaps your expectations are set wrong - taking a more laid back approach and accepting that meets (when allowed) or even conversations are not guaranteed always helps improve the perception, as does putting some thought into how you approach and use the site to get the most from it - things like writing an interesting profile and building a good set of pics help, as does getting involved in the forums and not just relying on sending blind messages etc " .this | |||
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"In all honesty, your bio just makes it look like you’re wanting women to send you dirty pictures and sexy chat. That’s not going to appeal to a lot of women. " Absolutely agree with you my dear | |||
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"I have changed bio " Hmmmmm. Take a look at Gemini Man who gave you some excellent advice earlier up in this thread. Read his profile then read your own. May give you sone idea of the 'competition' from other single guys you have on this site. | |||
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"I haven’t read your profile tho, it’s late and I can’t be bothered but still, don’t take the no replies personally, it’s nigh on impossible keeping up in here." Well, I haven't got an yes or no from you! It's a torture! | |||
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"I have changed bio " Oh wow......"fill in later" would take up less room on the servers and have the same impact as your bio  | |||
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"In all honesty, your bio just makes it look like you’re wanting women to send you dirty pictures and sexy chat. That’s not going to appeal to a lot of women. " Oops! I have come to the wrong site. I should have gone to Tinder! | |||
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"Exotic Spirit has a really good bio. As he’s hidden his profile, he might let you borrow it "He can borrow mine, as long as he can walk the talk when meeting someone.  | |||
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"Lack of interest/replies" Gotta ask,did you read the undercover reporters "story" on ...was it the mail or the sun.....fab and sign up from that? You do realise it was a women reporter? (Who clearly joined on a weekend to only get 60 dick pics an hour)! Due to the ridiculous amount of men to women ratio on here, men seriously have to put in effort to get any kind of result. | |||
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"I have changed bio Hmmmmm. Take a look at Gemini Man who gave you some excellent advice earlier up in this thread. Read his profile then read your own. May give you sone idea of the 'competition' from other single guys you have on this site." I agree with you. His profile is catchy not only because of sexy photos, also because of very interesting bio | |||
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"Exotic Spirit has a really good bio. As he’s hidden his profile, he might let you borrow it "Yep, guys have to be epic authours and produce a stunning bio to get any attention; we can't get away with only 2 lines... Or leave the profile totally blank. | |||
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"I have changed bio Hmmmmm. Take a look at Gemini Man who gave you some excellent advice earlier up in this thread. Read his profile then read your own. May give you sone idea of the 'competition' from other single guys you have on this site." 
Far too kind but thank you - although if I'm being held up as the 'competition' this site should be a cakewalk for anyone with their wits about them | |||
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"Exotic Spirit has a really good bio. As he’s hidden his profile, he might let you borrow it
Yep, guys have to be epic authours and produce a stunning bio to get any attention; we can't get away with only 2 lines... Or leave the profile totally blank."Unless you're fit as fuck, then you don't need to speak  | |||
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"I have changed bio Hmmmmm. Take a look at Gemini Man who gave you some excellent advice earlier up in this thread. Read his profile then read your own. May give you sone idea of the 'competition' from other single guys you have on this site.
Far too kind but thank you - although if I'm being held up as the 'competition' this site should be a cakewalk for anyone with their wits about them "With that bum, you don't even need a bio  | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!!" I love salt n shake, makes me feel involved in adding the flavour I'm about to taste | |||
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"I'm new here and I don't know whether posting nude pics of myself would attract or interest the ladies to message me? I don't bite. I am a bit disappointed at the moment. I know about no meet ups that's fine " I've fabbed your lovely face to help get the ball rolling. | |||
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"Exotic Spirit has a really good bio. As he’s hidden his profile, he might let you borrow it
Yep, guys have to be epic authours and produce a stunning bio to get any attention; we can't get away with only 2 lines... Or leave the profile totally blank.
Unless you're fit as fuck, then you don't need to speak "That is what I do. Cover the face and fire the base! | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!!" This just made me c h o k e laughing! It's the same disappointment you get when you discover the salt to add is missing reading Robs profile | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!! This just made me c h o k e laughing! It's the same disappointment you get when you discover the salt to add is missing reading Robs profile" Hahaha yes, that's the one bless him | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!! I love salt n shake, makes me feel involved in adding the flavour I'm about to taste " You tried cheese an onion mixed with salt an vinegar boom pickled onion all day | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!! I love salt n shake, makes me feel involved in adding the flavour I'm about to taste You tried cheese an onion mixed with salt an vinegar boom pickled onion all day" What are you? Sick b@stard (  ) | |||
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"If you were a bag of crisp defo be salt n shake come on rob lad go mad got to more to you than that!!! This just made me c h o k e laughing! It's the same disappointment you get when you discover the salt to add is missing reading Robs profile Hahaha yes, that's the one bless him"
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"Give me ideas, what else can I put?" Your interests in general, kinks if any
And please load a pic with a smile!
You look unhappy and too serious on the actual.
Few body pics (skip your dick pic) | |||
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"Er ... The Virus?" That old chestnut on new profiles....what if there was no virus? | |||
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"Give me ideas, what else can I put?" You have to write it yourself otherwise it won't be you - but generically including a little about yourself, what you're looking for (in a little more detail than "sex with women"), the type of person you'd hope to meet etc whilst finding a way of doing it that makes you stand out and shows a little of your personality and you'll be along the right lines. As for "selfies" I'm crap at them too and hate most pics of my face - but have found with a little practice and learning how to use the timer on my phone camera that you can come up with some reasonable pics that show off your body etc and have actually enjoyed doing so and finding the right pics for here. Remember too that you've only been here a week - which is no time at all in Fab terms and also that single men outnumber women by around 10:1 so you need to present the best possible version of you to stand out. Try and take the focus off the idea of meeting/messages and get a feel for the site and how you think you can best use it and you'll find your perception improves no end. Ultimately it comes down to five things - profile, pics, expectations, attitude and approach - get those right and it won't guarantee a thing but you'll find your time here a lot easier - get any of them wrong and you'll find it frustrating | |||
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