FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone into younger guys

By *ornylad1018 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

As young lad on here it’s hard to find women and couples to chat with and have fun with, if anyone’s interested hit me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As young lad on here it’s hard to find women and couples to chat with and have fun with, if anyone’s interested hit me up. "

It's a no from us.

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By *ornylad1018 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

Ok no probs thanks for your response.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It might not be your age that is holding you back. It also isn't really a time when people are reaching out so much to look for others.

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

I've set up a few dates for Ashley with much younger guys. The main issue is a lack of common interests to chat about and it's this that puts her off tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've set up a few dates for Ashley with much younger guys. The main issue is a lack of common interests to chat about and it's this that puts her off tbh. "

We guess in essence they are just too young.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

I really do appreciate younger men. However, only the ones who engage in conversation, and have a personality.

Not all women are the same, of course, as not all younger men are the same.

We all have our preferences, and find here what we put into it.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

^^^^^^

Definitely with you on that ... if a young chap can hold a decent conversation, is articulate and interesting then his age has no bearing.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes conversation can be super dry with younger men, they seem to struggle keeping a conversation going... "hey how are you, what you up to" are all conversation killers... ButI also met afew younger men advanced in maturity and they are super hot and fun in and out of bedroom

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By *ornylad1018 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

Thanks a lot for the feedback ladies let’s hope I can get a few more meets after all this is over.

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

A few years back Jess used to meet a 19 year guy but he was so mature for his age

Now she is not so keen on young guys

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By *ornylad1018 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

Why’s that then?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Interested to know what you classify as “young” I know it varies person by person but the general consensus I find it tends to be under 30

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Met a couple but like another person said on this forum not got a lot in common now we are both a bit older but she has met a younger at clubs

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By *augthy couple2Couple
over a year ago

bradford

Mrs a Peel likes younger guys

But they must be able to accom

No good if they still live at home with mummy

Message us if this is you

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"Mrs a Peel likes younger guys

But they must be able to accom

No good if they still live at home with mummy

Message us if this is you"

Liking the look of Mrs Peel

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Unfortunately tastes vary from person to person, couple to couple so any generalised opinion will naturally be influenced by your own perspective.

With that in mind we can only speak from our own perspective also, and fully understand the argument that meeting with people the age of your own children makes some people uncomfortable, and it is one of the most cited reasons on here why people won't meet with younger people. But as always there are exceptions, us for example, and we do meet with younger guys around the age of the OP.

Body types isn't something that we would stipulate one way or another, except that we aren't looking for the extremes. Speaking with friends over the years most of them feel the same as us that obese or too muscular body types are not really what we/they are looking for. Average is more than good enough, but there will always be exceptions.

For us the overriding factor is whether someone is mature enough to handle a conversation, be that in the chatroom, forum, a pub, on Skype or wherever. Admittedly, as someone has previously said, conversation can sometimes run dry because of a lack of common interest but speaking online before physically meeting always helps. It is unfortunate for the OP and others like him that too often people associate age and maturity, and assume that a low age means immaturity. There is no way around this sweeping generalisation, so the only thing to do is find the exceptions - They are out there

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Jasmine enjoys a younger guy, we are very chatty so find conversation either fine but I suppose it’s down to the groundwork prior to the meet

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By *ricksOfTheTradeMan
over a year ago

Its not that bad to be honest yeah you get the odd couple that dont like it but as everyone else is saying there is no point in talking to a brick wall just try to engage thats my advice anyway

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By *teve0673Man
over a year ago

hornchurch

"Its not that bad to be honest yeah you get the odd couple that dont like it but as everyone else is saying there is no point in talking to a brick wall just try to engage thats my advice anyway

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... cant be that bad as u had a veri from a meet an hour ago. Havent u heard of COVID 19 ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love younger guys ,but I partial too an older guy too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes conversation can be super dry with younger men, they seem to struggle keeping a conversation going... "hey how are you, what you up to" are all conversation killers... ButI also met afew younger men advanced in maturity and they are super hot and fun in and out of bedroom

I get that but some people don't even allow a conversation to begin it's like message delete repeat

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

At 21 you will have absolutely nothing in common with the majority of couples. You are the same age as our son. You are not a swinger and probably don't understand the dynamics of how this works. Be honest, you're just after a shag. Come back in your 30's with some relationship experience behind you and a bit of life experience too.

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"At 21 you will have absolutely nothing in common with the majority of couples. You are the same age as our son. You are not a swinger and probably don't understand the dynamics of how this works. Be honest, you're just after a shag. Come back in your 30's with some relationship experience behind you and a bit of life experience too. "

Bit harsh! How do you know what his turn ons are? He has to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much bashing younger guys saying they have nothing interesting to say, cant keep a conversation going?

Maybe because some oldies have the personality of dried up grapes and we have no interest in entertaining their bullshit about how it was 'in their day's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So much bashing younger guys saying they have nothing interesting to say, cant keep a conversation going?

Maybe because some oldies have the personality of dried up grapes and we have no interest in entertaining their bullshit about how it was 'in their day's

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By *on0808Man
over a year ago

Billericay

"Its not that bad to be honest yeah you get the odd couple that dont like it but as everyone else is saying there is no point in talking to a brick wall just try to engage thats my advice anyway

... cant be that bad as u had a veri from a meet an hour ago. Havent u heard of COVID 19 ?????"

If you looked at his veri you'd see that it says webcam ,so nothing wrong there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So much bashing younger guys saying they have nothing interesting to say, cant keep a conversation going?

Maybe because some oldies have the personality of dried up grapes and we have no interest in entertaining their bullshit about how it was 'in their day's

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I tend to get younger men just repeatedly sending me messages saying "hi"... "how's you?".... Zzz totally switch off as I have an really informative profile and is that all I get is hi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to get younger men just repeatedly sending me messages saying "hi"... "how's you?".... Zzz totally switch off as I have an really informative profile and is that all I get is hi...

Maybe people are trying to be polite?

how else should they start a conversation.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I tend to get younger men just repeatedly sending me messages saying "hi"... "how's you?".... Zzz totally switch off as I have an really informative profile and is that all I get is hi...

Maybe people are trying to be polite?

how else should they start a conversation."

With a line that's personal and thoughtful. Not generic and dead end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to get younger men just repeatedly sending me messages saying "hi"... "how's you?".... Zzz totally switch off as I have an really informative profile and is that all I get is hi...

Maybe people are trying to be polite?

how else should they start a conversation.

With a line that's personal and thoughtful. Not generic and dead end

Lol how can you get to that stage if your left on read lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I tend to get younger men just repeatedly sending me messages saying "hi"... "how's you?".... Zzz totally switch off as I have an really informative profile and is that all I get is hi...

Maybe people are trying to be polite?

how else should they start a conversation.

With a line that's personal and thoughtful. Not generic and dead end

Lol how can you get to that stage if your left on read lol "

Exactly. You left unread because the reciever didn't find it appealing. Its like spam mail isn't it?

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By *ookinginspainMan
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Dont wantto dent yr ego..but did you not know the ratio of single guys to ladies/couples is about 80/20..this isnt a site fir a free fuck!!! And if you cant find a regular girlfriend at 21.. what makes you stand out from the crowds..try and put a bit more into your profile...good luck..you are going to need it..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. You left unread because the reciever didn't find it appealing. Its like spam mail isn't it? "

When I first came on here a couple years ago I found this to be the case. I started off naive to it all and put little thought into messages, and soon realised and then was told that’s why.

Read the profile, tailor your message to a couple of things they mention in their bio, personalise what you’re saying and you’ll find sooner or later the older women will begin replying a little more often. “Hi are you okay” can be copy and pasted from message to message, and when you’re a guy messaging a girl your chances of that being given a moments attention are slim.

And often is the case that using “lol” and other text speak several times in a message can also lessen your chances

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