FabSwingers.com forum: Help and advice please...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,I would appreciate a little help and advice please.

I am a single guy new to the swinging scene and have had a profile on here for over a month now. I am hoping to get to know and meet a female or couple to hopefully enjoy a little discreet fun with. But so far no ones been interested. So i would very much appreciate any advice from any females or couples out there.

Is it my profile,photos or maybe i just dont appeal. All advice will be taken on board. Thanks

By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Hi!

Looking at your profile, there's one big factor you haven't grasped! You have only been on here 6 weeks, so you have to learn to give it time!

This site is NOT an "Instant Fix" site.

You have a short Profile, text wise; it could do with a bit of padding out if you could do so, but equally, it is grammatically correct and doesn't have text speak etc which can be off-putting to some.

Ditch the cock pics; at least they become viewable only in private. At least your main picture shows you smiling, but obviously in a more formal setting; try for one less formal.

You say you cannot travel, but maybe you need to consider the option to attending a club. There are a few in either Leeds or Manchester, or you could try Youtopia in Sherburn, east of you.

Getting yourself noticed in a club or even becoming involved in the Forum pages gets you noticed too.

Good Luck!

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Genuine, discreet fun" doesn't say much does it? What are you looking for, what can you offer?

Your text doesn't stand out, but you have a nice face which is positive.

So good luck.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of comments above id have to agree with and as a ex moderator off another site i know that profiles can and do play an important role

Think what it is you want out of this site and build that into to the profile but equally tell us a little about your persoanlity

lastly id ditch the "wedding suit" picture far to formal - just my personal opinion ok

Good luck and welcome to the world of FS