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By *hetattooedguy88 OP   Man
over a year ago

congleton

So after being stuck in lockdown and thinking about life etc, I have come to the conclusion i want to settle down.

What would successful couples recommend obv there's pof and tinder etc. But i don't want to meet a vanilla woman i want a like minded woman to settle down with have kids etc ?

Im i living in a dream world thinking i may meet somebody on here or clubs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean recommend a place to meet a partner that likes swinging? I'd say anywhere is possible. Only a tiny fraction of women are looking for a relationship on fab or in clubs and of that tiny fraction a high proportion want monogamy.

Cast your net wide, we honest from the start and hopefully you'll meet a woman who wants similar to you. Good luck

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Be honest and when you find her, have no secrets and talk openly and honestly about what you want and what gets you going.

It’s no use secretly wishing she were fucking you with a strap on, for example, if you don’t communicate it with her.

After so many failed relationships, the one with a fellow swinger is the closest and most honest I’ve ever been to anyone. It’s great.

J

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Be honest and when you find her, have no secrets and talk openly and honestly about what you want and what gets you going.

It’s no use secretly wishing she were fucking you with a strap on, for example, if you don’t communicate it with her.

After so many failed relationships, the one with a fellow swinger is the closest and most honest I’ve ever been to anyone. It’s great.

J"

I think you've hit the nail on the head with the honesty bit, if add emotional communication to that too.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming


"Be honest and when you find her, have no secrets and talk openly and honestly about what you want and what gets you going.

It’s no use secretly wishing she were fucking you with a strap on, for example, if you don’t communicate it with her.

After so many failed relationships, the one with a fellow swinger is the closest and most honest I’ve ever been to anyone. It’s great.

J

I think you've hit the nail on the head with the honesty bit, if add emotional communication to that too. "

Definitely.!

Sometimes it’s hard to convey emotions accurately. The right partner will understand.

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By *hetattooedguy88 OP   Man
over a year ago

congleton

Yeah agreed im always open and honest. My last realtionship i told her all about this side of my life. She was all happy and said she was interested in the life. A year later she turned out she had just said that to get what she wanted too.

Thanks for the replies and advice

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We meet on a swingers site (not this one)

We was open about what we wanted from the start

Now 10 years + we are Still together and enjoying the lifestyle

I wish you well in finding the special someone xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah agreed im always open and honest. My last realtionship i told her all about this side of my life. She was all happy and said she was interested in the life. A year later she turned out she had just said that to get what she wanted too.

Thanks for the replies and advice "

Yeah people will do that, men and women. It's rife on here

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

This is what i am after (minus getting married and having kids) but a relationship would be nice, and for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after being stuck in lockdown and thinking about life etc, I have come to the conclusion i want to settle down.

What would successful couples recommend obv there's pof and tinder etc. But i don't want to meet a vanilla woman i want a like minded woman to settle down with have kids etc ?

Im i living in a dream world thinking i may meet somebody on here or clubs

"

We met at swinging club op, and kept in touch via Fab and we've been together now for nearly 2 years. It can happen.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You could meet her anywhere, you don't have to tick all the little boxes just the big ones (similar values, aspirations, lifestyle) and the trick is then to male sure you adventure and grow together

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By *hetattooedguy88 OP   Man
over a year ago

congleton


"So after being stuck in lockdown and thinking about life etc, I have come to the conclusion i want to settle down.

What would successful couples recommend obv there's pof and tinder etc. But i don't want to meet a vanilla woman i want a like minded woman to settle down with have kids etc ?

Im i living in a dream world thinking i may meet somebody on here or clubs

We met at swinging club op, and kept in touch via Fab and we've been together now for nearly 2 years. It can happen. "

Thats awesome!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after being stuck in lockdown and thinking about life etc, I have come to the conclusion i want to settle down.

What would successful couples recommend obv there's pof and tinder etc. But i don't want to meet a vanilla woman i want a like minded woman to settle down with have kids etc ?

Im i living in a dream world thinking i may meet somebody on here or clubs

"

We met on here and are now happily and rampantly married xx

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

would love a romantic relationship with swinging as an option, not swinging without the romantic side. got too many of those tshirts

chane your profile ad see what the response is with face pics

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Fwb might be a better route to begin with would definitely be easier to introduce swinging in that situation

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Not sure the having kids is going to be very conducive to swinging, certainly not until they've grown up a bit and you've got family around to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet on a swingers site (not this one)

We was open about what we wanted from the start

Now 10 years + we are Still together and enjoying the lifestyle

I wish you well in finding the special someone xx "

Do.you happen to remember the site.

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