FabSwingers.com forum: Am i doing something wrong??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously not i have alot of other personality traits but its hard to get them across after ur first message!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously not i have alot of other personality traits but its hard to get them across after ur first message!!!"

Oh, ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No advice then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???"

The problem could be your attitude, your age, your profile, maybe you aren’t as polite as you think you are...loads of possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously not i have alot of other personality traits but its hard to get them across after ur first message!!!"

That's what your profile is for.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..three things..

Expectations

Profile

Effort.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No advice then??"

What do you think you could do better? It’s always good to reflect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think that maybe some profile tweaks may help?!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

You’re just too young to interest me!

There’s plenty that can’t get meets.

Check out those guys that do, see how they set their profiles out. Unfortunately you need to stand out. Then follow it up with good messages and decent pics.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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Dont feel bad buddy. I cant get a meet with the ladies in the uk either.... It could possibly be due to my geographical location i dont know. But it takes time. And right now... There isnt anybody wanting to meet. It'll happen for you some sunny day my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?"

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???"

Try not having any expectations, throw interesting pics up every now and again, drop the odd message to those who you feel meet what you may be looking for and vice versa, be active in the forums, these things may help, they may not, but it's worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol"

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol"

Yes no need to mention not being a perv, there are sites with a better ratio of women to men than this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aint a perv"... That's where you're going wrong see bud. Everyone else on here is see... I'm a fucking massive pervert for instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected "

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

""I aint a perv"... That's where you're going wrong see bud. Everyone else on here is see... I'm a fucking massive pervert for instance.

Most of us are perverts here.

Badge of honour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

There’s fun weirdos and pervs, then there’s the weirdos and pervs who sniff your feet under the table on a social meet after ‘accidentally’ dropping money, then follow you home crying and wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics of you and a more detailed bio will do the trick. Then just keep being you and the right person will come along bro. Trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I aint a perv"... That's where you're going wrong see bud. Everyone else on here is see... I'm a fucking massive pervert for instance.

Most of us are perverts here.

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Yeh fuck aye. I thought being a perv was the entry criteria on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

You promised you wouldn't tell anyone about that...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

""I aint a perv"... That's where you're going wrong see bud. Everyone else on here is see... I'm a fucking massive pervert for instance.

Most of us are perverts here.

Badge of honour

Yeh fuck aye. I thought being a perv was the entry criteria on here

Not for everyone, it seems!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

If you haven't realised by now, it's a numbers situation on here. There are 100's of guys all seeking the same thing.

So, to make yourself stand out against the rest, you have to SELL yourself!

Your profile is 4 lines long. It doesn't say what you could bring to a meet or what you'd expect from others at one. But you need to expand your profile.

But as you say, you've other traits you could bring to light; if positive, maybe bring those into your profile?

Your pic is only a partial facial one; you need to make it a full facial one at least.

It's all about your own effort into your profile to achieve results along with bags of Patience and Perseverance.

It does work. Look at similar threads in the Forum Index for more advice.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

Loool i feel sorry for that dude but defo gonna have a review of my profile. Your all g’s for this thanks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

Loool i feel sorry for that dude but defo gonna have a review of my profile. Your all g’s for this thanks!!!"

Why on earth would you feel sorry for the dude in that scenario?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

Loool i feel sorry for that dude but defo gonna have a review of my profile. Your all g’s for this thanks!!!

Why on earth would you feel sorry for the dude in that scenario?

Dont u feel sorry for people like that. Its sad to b that weird lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" a full facial "

Who doesn't love a full facial, am I right girls?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???"

Polite and not ugly is not enough on here. There are so many men looking for meets.

Id say a little more depth and effort to your profile might help. Your age is against you I think.

Or maybe just get to some clubs when they re open and meet people that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

Loool i feel sorry for that dude but defo gonna have a review of my profile. Your all g’s for this thanks!!!

Why on earth would you feel sorry for the dude in that scenario?

Dont u feel sorry for people like that. Its sad to b that weird lool"

No. I would feel sorry for the person getting sexually harassed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

Loool i feel sorry for that dude but defo gonna have a review of my profile. Your all g’s for this thanks!!!

Why on earth would you feel sorry for the dude in that scenario?

Dont u feel sorry for people like that. Its sad to b that weird lool

No. I would feel sorry for the person getting sexually harassed "

An them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

I'm sure you are describing me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op your profile is a reflection on you. Do you think it shows the best of you?

Your all right i just looked at my profile and it could do with afew adjustments lets see if it works lol

‘I ain’t a weirdo, I ain’t a perv’ shouldn’t be seen as positives. They should be a given. That should he expected

I'm a weirdo and a perv though

Aye and so am I. But I’m assuming OP claimed he wasn’t these, as they can be seen as negatives

I'm sure you are describing me here

You're into that sort of thing as well? Fancy a civil partnership?

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By *ommy 999Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?"
May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7?? "

The nanny

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet? May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7?? "

That’s just rude...... start your own thread.

No disrespect OP but anyone can be horny and want a fuck , doesn’t entitle you to it. You have to be hot, sexy and fucktastic to win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

it’s not very time consuming picking up my phone and scrolling through the forums. Takes about two minutes of my time. My baby plays, eats, naps, interacts with his dad (my lovely husband) and every so often the tv occupies him for five minutes at a time! ya know

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

Dont let him troll ya..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet? May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7?? "

Why have you listed yourself as straight when your profile says looking for cock?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet? May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7?? "

Out of order. Mind your own business. That kind of small minded nastiness is not welcome

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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And the claws. Come out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

Dont let him troll ya.. "

I’m not annoyed, therefore he can’t troll me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???"

I’d suggest starting your profile again.

Talk about what you enjoy. What your experiences have been. What you want to experience. The sort of people you want to meet.

Be honest.

Be real.

Avoid saying things like “let’s make it happen ppl” at all costs because a) nobody likes txt sports and b) it makes you sound like a bell end. And no one is going to fuck a bell end.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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Ladies.. Maybe you should be nice to that guy... Seems like he could really be the type to take your sex life to a whole new level.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Loosing the will to live on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are..."

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"And the claws. Come out... "

More like a lioness paw that pins down the cub when she has had enough nonsense

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?"

...and are there any left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?"

It wasn't feckin curry sauce that's for sure. I wouldn't expose my kids to that sort of perversity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soo I’ve been on fab a year and still havent had a meet on here!! Im always polite and i think im not an ugly fella so whats the problem???"

Maybe you should ask what people think is good about your profile.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?

...and are there any left?"
i have gyros deep fried mushrooms and a greek salad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know at 21 i wouldnt be on here not that age is a barrier..

But i was out with my friends..socialising.

I never had an issue meeting people what us oldies call the old fashioned way.

Many want to find a connection.

At 21.. doesnt interest me.

Your just a fish in a ocean..

Joining doesnt give to an automatic meet.

Why not clubs n socials if youd been on here 1 yr.

But op good luck..sites for all

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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"And the claws. Come out...

More like a lioness paw that pins down the cub when she has had enough nonsense "

Just kinda smack em around a little til they get the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?

It wasn't feckin curry sauce that's for sure. I wouldn't expose my kids to that sort of perversity..."

You’re ridiculous!!! You don’t know the first thing about chicken nuggets you have no business serving them to anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us women have preferences..believe it or not...we actually have a choice...

And perhaps you just dont do it for us..

Soz

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?

...and are there any left? i have gyros deep fried mushrooms and a greek salad... "

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I’m proper shocked he said that! As if he’s questioning your parenting. Women are just meant to be mothers, cooks and cleaners, they don’t deserve any time for themselves..... Hell fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think ‘I’m polite and not ugly’ is honestly enough to get a meet?

May I ask who looks after your Baby when you are on here 24/7??

The nanny

But I haven’t been on all day, only came on tonight while he’s sleeping

Not that it’s any of your business. But you must have an issue with me, if you need to ask. You going to ask all the other parents on here? Are you monitoring how often they’re online as well?

I was perving with a friend on here whilst cooking my kids their chicken nuggets tonight so there we are...

The important question here is, what dip did you serve with the chicken nuggets?

It wasn't feckin curry sauce that's for sure. I wouldn't expose my kids to that sort of perversity...

You’re ridiculous!!! You don’t know the first thing about chicken nuggets you have no business serving them to anyone! "

I know enough about chicken nuggets not to put curry sauce on them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about to ask for someone help with my profile initially but I’m so confused at what’s happening now. Btw would women consider 24 as too young ?

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