FabSwingers.com forum: Profile review

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I’ve been on fab for a while now and wondering if some experienced fabbers can look at my profile and give me some feedback on how to spice it up.

Genuine help and responses only please. No arseholes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower your eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your face expression permanent? Looks a bit scary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yh I honestly can’t take a good photo those are my actual best ones

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Reads a little like a JML advert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need more dick pics

I can't beleive I'm saying this but he does need more dick pics!!

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

Looks too bland

Anyone want to review mine?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Looks too bland

Anyone want to review mine?"

Needs less dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop reading soon as i see meet up to 99.

Shows lack of a brain cell for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve changed my profile round a bit tell me what it’s like now please

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Too many similar pics, you seema nice guy but it’s not very exciting.

Also re down below.....what if we want to meet a hairy monster at short notice and you’ve just waxed for another couple, how would you pull that one off ? Think about what you say before committing to it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Looks too bland

Anyone want to review mine?

Needs less dick pics"

Why do guys put dock pics and pretend to be straight. Only gay men like looking at dick pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid your profile is quite bland and generic OP. There's nothing that leaps out that's going to really grab anyone's attention.

As for the paragraph where you mention about playing couples and playing alone with female halves of couples, I'd lose the whole thing. It's pointless.

While there are some couples where female half may play solo, usually they'll mention it on their profile. Similarly, a lot of couples profiles will state that they don't.

You'll also find that you will have to put in the leg work.

A lot of single men come onto fab, knock up a quick profile and assume that because they're on a 'sex' site, that's all they have to do and that they'll be swamped with offers by lunch time.

Firstly, fab isn't a 'sex' site. It's a swingers site.

Secondly, single men hugely outnumber women and females here and therefore, we're the ones who will have to do the most work.

Don't assume that women and couples will come and find you. Generally, they won't. You will have to seek them out, which is why I suggest that your paragraph about couples and solo play is pointless. That would be something that you could ask in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of your sentences start with "I"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve updated my profile more. Keep the advice coming it’s really helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lower your eyebrows

OMG almost spat out my recently dunked biscuit lol.

All your photos look a passport application. Maybe change your expression. Try smiling possibly. Just a thought, all constructive obv. Also on a side note, do you really want to meet a 75 year old, that Bernie Ecclestone territory.

Good luck boyo Jim x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trust me when I say I can’t smile especially when showing my teeth and yes I would meet a 75 year old as right now I have no age preference on fab yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much nothing there now.

Think about what sort of experiences / fun you're actually looking for.

You also need to think about what sort of skills you bring to the table.

Ask yourself why someone should choose to play with you over one of the thousands of other single guys here.

Approach it in the same way you would a C.V.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve updated my profile more. Keep the advice coming it’s really helpful"

Great to have face pictures but not that many that are pretty much the same mix it up with some body pictures and that ever divisive cock shot. If your stuck for photography Pick your best physical and make that the area of focus.

Your profile read rather dull and basic heavily lacking in personality.

If your stuck try describing yourself and what kind of experience you are after/have to offer or something you particularly fond of

Example most men go for either claiming to be the best ever or their love of giving oral. I suggest really thinking about it.

Think of your profile as the first stages of seduction.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filling to your profile.

Think school beginning.. Yep that's sorted.. Middle.... Nowt of subdtance

Think what you like how would you make the person feel best qualities what you enjoy.. Etc.. You read it.. Would you meet you?

End of day work in progress. 1 person will read n like 1 person won't.

Confidence in yourself will shine thru..

Don't read mine it's an arsey rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my profile, but I can never think of anything to add, my interests are so varied.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Don't read mine it's an arsey rant. "

Well that intrigued me so I had to read it and I’d like to give you a round of applause. And I’m not being sarcastic either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't read mine it's an arsey rant.

Well that intrigued me so I had to read it and I’d like to give you a round of applause. And I’m not being sarcastic either!"

Same it sums up the crap women have to deal with perfectly

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Don't read mine it's an arsey rant.

Well that intrigued me so I had to read it and I’d like to give you a round of applause. And I’m not being sarcastic either!

Same it sums up the crap women have to deal with perfectly

I mean mine’s pretty ranty so I appreciate when others’ are as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't read mine it's an arsey rant.

Well that intrigued me so I had to read it and I’d like to give you a round of applause. And I’m not being sarcastic either!

Same it sums up the crap women have to deal with perfectly

I mean mine’s pretty ranty so I appreciate when others’ are as well."

Thank you ladies x appreciated.

Very honest of what majority of us receive.

Those who read thru it get it. Those who complain... Blocked.

Lol.. Sweet evenings to you all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you guys the last few messages really helped and and once again updated my profile to include your guys suggestions aside from photos will do them soon though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate my profile, but I can never think of anything to add, my interests are so varied."

I like your jacket and shirt shot, maybe try to change the first body shot, look a bit awkward. Apart from that looks ok in my very humble opinion obv.

Only othet thing, do you need to mention youre respectable? Shouldnt we all be? Anyway nice x Jim and Jemma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate my profile, but I can never think of anything to add, my interests are so varied.

I like your jacket and shirt shot, maybe try to change the first body shot, look a bit awkward. Apart from that looks ok in my very humble opinion obv.

Only othet thing, do you need to mention youre respectable? Shouldnt we all be? Anyway nice x Jim and Jemma x "

Thank you, it was a specific photo for something, so probably was very awkward.

I like your profile too

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