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By *untastictwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Borrowash

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By *untastictwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Borrowash

Hi everyone we are new to this, and finding it hard to meet genuine women.

What are we doing wrong!

We seem to be getting all the time wasters, Liars and just women wanting to get their kicks from our pictures!

Any tips please

Thanks

Sally & Steve

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Your request for some advise is the same as a lot of Single guys raise periodically, so I'll say the same for you as I would them.

You have only been on here 3 weeks; this is not an instant fix site, so you have to give it time.

Your profile could do with some filling out; it is just a bit too brief, so maybe some more content, to provide potential playmates with some idea of exactly what you seek.

Get into the Forums and the Chat pages; you have to get yourselves noticed. Also you could possibly look at one of the clubs in your area, even as a means of socialising and increase your profile that way.

Sadly, people won't move to you instantly; you have to "sell" yourselves in order to move on!

Good Luck!

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By *oystaMan
over a year ago

Liverpool Tuebrook


"Your request for some advise is the same as a lot of Single guys raise periodically, so I'll say the same for you as I would them.

You have only been on here 3 weeks; this is not an instant fix site, so you have to give it time.

Your profile could do with some filling out; it is just a bit too brief, so maybe some more content, to provide potential playmates with some idea of exactly what you seek.

Get into the Forums and the Chat pages; you have to get yourselves noticed. Also you could possibly look at one of the clubs in your area, even as a means of socialising and increase your profile that way.

Sadly, people won't move to you instantly; you have to "sell" yourselves in order to move on!

Good Luck!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What's in it for the woman? Will it be girl on girl only then she sits and watch while you two shag?

Your profile is lazy. If you want someone to join you make an effort. As it is you seem to expect the woman to pull teeth finding out...why should she?

Sorry if I sound harsh and welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in it for the woman? Will it be girl on girl only then she sits and watch while you two shag?

Your profile is lazy. If you want someone to join you make an effort. As it is you seem to expect the woman to pull teeth finding out...why should she?

Sorry if I sound harsh and welcome."

Have to agree with much of the above. The tone and sentiment are about right, but imho, you need to flesh it out more (no pun intended!) - as the previous poster said - 'what's in it for the ladies?'...... Give it some thought...

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