FabSwingers.com forum: Unwanted verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a straight guy, yet have no issues with bi or gay guys. However, a bi guy spotted me on cam once and verified me. Now, my verifications show '1 Man' listed and i keep getting asked if i am straight, why do i have a veri from a guy?

Its impossible to quantify how many (could be none, could be 20) women or couples have decided not to message or wink me because they might think my profile is deceptive in some way.

Is there any way to remove this unwanted verification?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

My account

Manage verifications

You decide which ones you want displayed on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know that, but it still shows in my verification summary. I tried blocking him to no avail and now he has even left the site, and it STILL shows in the summary!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Hide yr verification summary, or ask admin if they could remove it maybe

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

If I remember correctly you have to accept it for it to show. Otherwise just delete.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I would imagine lots of users may have verifications that appear 'out of character' but it is a cam veri..

These simply mean your genuine,it doesnt mean your fucking each other..

Do you really want to meet someone who thinks you may have had a same sex liaison and therefore wont meet??

This is a site for adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would imagine lots of users may have verifications that appear 'out of character' but it is a cam veri..

These simply mean your genuine,it doesnt mean your fucking each other..

Do you really want to meet someone who thinks you may have had a same sex liaison and therefore wont meet??

This is a site for adults!"
Unfortunately though any doubt means youre out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I remember correctly you have to accept it for it to show. Otherwise just delete."
You can't accept or reject verifications. You can display or not display them.

OP, why don't you explain on your profile that this verification is from camming on chatroom? If you display it will also show it's cam verification rather than meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I remember correctly you have to accept it for it to show. Otherwise just delete.You can't accept or reject verifications. You can display or not display them.

OP, why don't you explain on your profile that this verification is from camming on chatroom? If you display it will also show it's cam verification rather than meet."
yes but how many women read profiles?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Nobody takes any notice of cam veris for single guys anyway. They don't prove anything.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’d just display it, that way anyone can see that it was just cam. Having the veri won’t put anyone off, I’m sure. But if you’re weird or cagey about it it might.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I thought you had to accept a verification for it to appear otherwise anybody could just verify who they liked

Also if he's left the site then the veri would disappear

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I thought you had to accept a verification for it to appear otherwise anybody could just verify who they liked

Also if he's left the site then the veri would disappear

You can choose whether to display them or not, and yes if a sender leaves the site the veri will disappear

But it'll still stay showing on the summary.

OP... Just put a note about it on your profile.

I've seen a few that state, they have veris from men, met at group socials, clubs etc

It doesn't seem a big deal really

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Your summary says 1 man by meet and 1 by cam..does that mean you have met a man by meet and one verified you by cam?

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By *ady PaulaWoman
over a year ago

bradford

As it's a cam veri. Show it then people will see its cam. Hiding it would start me thinking it was a meet

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just don't show your verification summary. B x

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

He has suddenly gone quiet haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a straight guy, yet have no issues with bi or gay guys. However, a bi guy spotted me on cam once and verified me. Now, my verifications show '1 Man' listed and i keep getting asked if i am straight, why do i have a veri from a guy?

Its impossible to quantify how many (could be none, could be 20) women or couples have decided not to message or wink me because they might think my profile is deceptive in some way.

Is there any way to remove this unwanted verification?"

Include it in your bio as in write something like this... ``I`m 100% straight & yes I may be verified by 1 man. I did ask for this verification. He randomly verified me when he saw me in the cam rooms on here. ``

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It shouldn't be a problem if you are bi OP

Plenty of profiles specifically looking for that

Good luck

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"If I remember correctly you have to accept it for it to show. Otherwise just delete.You can't accept or reject verifications. You can display or not display them.

OP, why don't you explain on your profile that this verification is from camming on chatroom? If you display it will also show it's cam verification rather than meet.yes but how many women read profiles?

I think you will find a lot of us wemon read profiles ....

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