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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

I believe so, they just won't be able to reply to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waits for the next forum thread entitled

"someone just messages me and blocked me straight away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WHY would you send them a message and then block them before they read or respond ???


"If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks"

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


" WHY would you send them a message and then block them before they read or respond ???

If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks "

I was wondering this to

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!


" WHY would you send them a message and then block them before they read or respond ???

If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks "

just one of the many weird things folk get up to on here.... I think that those that approach you ... you accept their invite... then they 'blank' you are even more weird.... just 'friend' collectors I suppose.

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks"

Seems a very cowardly thing to do if you ask me, if you are going to send sombody a message at least give them the chance to respond to whatever your message contains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I send a message to someone but then block them before they have opened and read my message, can they still open it to read after they have been blocked ?

Thanks

Seems a very cowardly thing to do if you ask me, if you are going to send sombody a message at least give them the chance to respond to whatever your message contains. "

+1

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not if you have decided the conversation has ended it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be a last message to tell them to piss off and leave them alone...and you know us women like to have the last word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To send a message and block the recipient before they can reply is just BAD MANNERS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For this simple reason.

I get sick and tired of people messaging me questions and or asking for a meet or pics etc over and over and over again when it is plain to see they don't read and take on board what you said to them the last 8 or 9 times.

Example.

I cannot accommodate and I never will.

I state that in my profile while also stating I will only meet people who can accommodate AND at what times and days I CAN meet, which is weekdays and sort of school hours.

Then I get messages from people asking to meet them at my home at 8pm!!!

So I reply back saying I'm sorry but I can only meet people who CAN accommodate themselves during weekdays and school times, only to get a message back from them asking to meet behind some bushes on a wind swept pouring down night at 11pm........

So I message back again saying I can only meet people who can accommodate and at what times of the day I am able to.

I also get messages asking me for any pictures, so I look at the persons profile to see if they even come close to fitting the bill, and most of the time their profile says they cannot accommodate and live 200 miles away.

So I message back explaining while I do have pictures which are set to private, I will only send them if a meet looks at all possible to start with, but if you can't accommodate one the days and times I can meet AND \ OR live 200 miles away then I'm sorry I don't send pictures out as there isn't any point as a meet won't be possible.

A few days may go by and the same people start the same process of messaging AGAIN asking for a meet in the woods at midnight 200 miles away from home on a Saturday night.

This may go on for 8 or 9 times over some weeks and in the end I used to message back asking do they actually read what people send to them, or do they not read peoples profiles as we have gone on this merry go round a hundred times already and you don't seem to read what I say,

I say this because they need telling, they need to understand that they have to read and take on board what people say, but that then often lead to getting abusive messages back from them for some strange reason.

So, while I wanted\needed to explain to them that they need to read what people say in messages and read profiles properly, which will probably lead to them actually getting a meet, I don't want them being able to message back once they have been told enough is enough.

Sorry for the long post but I needed to explain as it isn't a **cowardly thing to do** Jenks1969 , it's the best way forward for both myself and the people who do not read before messaging.

Thankyou Rugby Does MFM & MissDeMena you got the point straight away.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't know why the person wants to block someone, so we can't really comment on it...but...the blocks are there for people to use and anyone can use them

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah ha, I posted the same time as you

You didn't have to explain anything Mrnaughty....and if you were a different gender you would have probably got told you can block who you like

It is wise to save yourself time and effort to block who you want to....and it sounds like you are.

Good luck in finding people who do take notice of your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ha, I posted the same time as you

You didn't have to explain anything Mrnaughty....and if you were a different gender you would have probably got told you can block who you like

"

That's so true, but people are quite quick to judge before they have any idea what their commenting on

So yes, all I wanted to know was that I can decide when enough is enough and have the last say

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you blocked us all now hehehe?? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pssst fancy a meet behind the bike sheds at 2330 tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" just one of the many weird things folk get up to on here.... I think that those that approach you ... you accept their invite... then they 'blank' you are even more weird.... just 'friend' collectors I suppose."

they probally wanted to see private photos, saw what they wanted decided not interested, or found what they were looking for elsewhere or gave up before you got in contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For this simple reason.

I get sick and tired of people messaging me questions and or asking for a meet or pics etc over and over and over again when it is plain to see they don't read and take on board what you said to them the last 8 or 9 times.

Example.

I cannot accommodate and I never will.

I state that in my profile while also stating I will only meet people who can accommodate AND at what times and days I CAN meet, which is weekdays and sort of school hours.

Then I get messages from people asking to meet them at my home at 8pm!!!

So I reply back saying I'm sorry but I can only meet people who CAN accommodate themselves during weekdays and school times, only to get a message back from them asking to meet behind some bushes on a wind swept pouring down night at 11pm........

So I message back again saying I can only meet people who can accommodate and at what times of the day I am able to.

I also get messages asking me for any pictures, so I look at the persons profile to see if they even come close to fitting the bill, and most of the time their profile says they cannot accommodate and live 200 miles away.

So I message back explaining while I do have pictures which are set to private, I will only send them if a meet looks at all possible to start with, but if you can't accommodate one the days and times I can meet AND \ OR live 200 miles away then I'm sorry I don't send pictures out as there isn't any point as a meet won't be possible.

A few days may go by and the same people start the same process of messaging AGAIN asking for a meet in the woods at midnight 200 miles away from home on a Saturday night.

This may go on for 8 or 9 times over some weeks and in the end I used to message back asking do they actually read what people send to them, or do they not read peoples profiles as we have gone on this merry go round a hundred times already and you don't seem to read what I say,

I say this because they need telling, they need to understand that they have to read and take on board what people say, but that then often lead to getting abusive messages back from them for some strange reason.

So, while I wanted\needed to explain to them that they need to read what people say in messages and read profiles properly, which will probably lead to them actually getting a meet, I don't want them being able to message back once they have been told enough is enough.

Sorry for the long post but I needed to explain as it isn't a **cowardly thing to do** Jenks1969 , it's the best way forward for both myself and the people who do not read before messaging.

Thankyou Rugby Does MFM & MissDeMena you got the point straight away."

well you always get stupid men messaging, just alter your message filter accordingly so higher cailbre of member can message you, either verfified/site supporter/have photos etc, these will get rid of alot of the time wasters who dont have profiles and dont read profiles

i love the logic thought of making a post on a forum to let the people who dont read profiles know what they need to hear haha, i get the feeling they dont read forums either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pssst fancy a meet behind the bike sheds at 2330 tonight "

oh go on then

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