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By *evonshireboy OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I've been chatting with someone for a while, but tonight all my messages to and from them have disappeared without trace.

What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the person your talking to still there?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I've been chatting with someone for a while, but tonight all my messages to and from them have disappeared without trace.

What happened?"

They have deleted and blocked you if the person is not visible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with someone for a while, but tonight all my messages to and from them have disappeared without trace.

What happened?"

They have left the site or their profile been suspended.

Mrs

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By *orethancurvesWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They have left the site.

it's a new thing the owners have decided to do which is not good.

it happened to me, a friend decided to leave, they sent a message saying so but obviously it gets deleted so I didn't see it.

Thankfully we had other means of contact but this isn't always the case. I think a review of the way it's done should be put in place, maybe messages stay for a week or 2 so if they have messaged people saying they are leaving it gives the recipient chance to know that.

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By *evonshireboy OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon

That might be the case.

We were arranging a meet, had sorted the day and were just sorting the time and place.

She said that someone else was getting a bit stroppy in her messages, so maybe she'd had enough and deleted.

What concerns me is that she she might have messaged me alternative contact details without realising I wouldn't get them.

It will look like I'm ghosting her, which is a not nice.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We were arranging a meet, had sorted the day and were just sorting the time and place.

She said that someone else was getting a bit stroppy in her messages, so maybe she'd had enough and deleted."

That might be the case OP. Or... he could have decided to quit because he knew he couldn't carry of a meet as a woman.

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By *evonshireboy OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon

That is always a possibility

Bit of a waste of his time though

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