FabSwingers.com forum: messaging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I (Paula) went on my friends list and saw Wendy online, whom I had been waiting to chat to. Tried to send her a message and got a 'pop' up warning message saying that she has not read my/our last message and u take a dim view of people harassing others.

I do understand that being a single female she will get tons of mail as I have been on here as a single myself, but how am I meant to chat to my "friend" if you wont allow it........I have never experienced this b4 and also if the lady is not interested then I fully understand but why would she want to be friends.

Sorry but maybe its me being a little thick here, please explain!!!!

Thanx

Paula (Thingy)

By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"I (Paula) went on my friends list and saw Wendy online, whom I had been waiting to chat to. Tried to send her a message and got a 'pop' up warning message saying that she has not read my/our last message and u take a dim view of people harassing others.

Sorry but maybe its me being a little thick here, please explain!!!!

Thanx

Paula (Thingy)

We do allow it, the warning just makes you aware that you have mailed her previously and she has never mailed you back.

Admin x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok cool....it was just a ......oh whats this then...........i just wanted to catch her whilst she was actually online .............as she might of done what i had quite a few times in the past when I was inundated with messages and overlooked a few!!!!!!!!

I ended up putting an update on just to say I wasnt ignorant I just couldnt get through all the messages.