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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Arenaged a meet, the guy came over then he persuaded me to invite another person off fab to join us. 2nd guy arrived (he was very nice btw) and proceeded to play with me. The first guy kept saying He’ll get involved when the other guy arrives. Even when the 2nd guy arrived and spend a few hours playing with me the first guy did nothing. He watched porn, touched himself but didn’t even watch or try to get involved.

Anyway, a point came when we needed supplies from the shop (alcolhol and mixers) and he offered to do the shop run. We offered him £20 he insisted on £30 so the 2nd guy handed over £30 and then I was asked for another £5.

My point is this. I invited him into my house and he stole off myself and the 2nd guy who I invited. My responsibility is to make right this wrong by covering the £30 which is what I suggested. But still leaves us both with a sower taste in our mouths.

We wanted to get laid and instead we got robbed.

My question is what would anyone else do in this situation and is there a way to report the profile of the thief and would it be possible to name/shame them on this site or other sites?

Advice please appreciated and thanks in advance.

Kitty (and 2nd guy).

Worst part is, he’s normal and we got on so well chemistry was intense. But he doesn’t want to meet again because oft his situation. It’s hard to find a decent lay these days so when one comes along for it to disappear like this is very dissapojnting. Just because of a few bad ages. Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So he buggered off with your 35 quid?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to the police .....

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Did the first guy play any part in picking the second guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/12/18 09:27:32]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did the first guy play any part in picking the second guy?

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no he just suggested inviting someone who had money to cover drinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he buggered off with your 35 quid?!? "

Yes.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Go to the police

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