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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A couple of times now we have been chatting to couples who suddenly vanish. All messages sent and received disappear too making us feel they never existed and we're losing our minds lol. You used to see 'user no longer on site' or something against the messages if they deleted their account ?!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"A couple of times now we have been chatting to couples who suddenly vanish. All messages sent and received disappear too making us feel they never existed and we're losing our minds lol. You used to see 'user no longer on site' or something against the messages if they deleted their account ?!"
Admin notified users some time ago that this would now be happening op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to happen when they get blocked by the site usually as a fake or such

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If the person leaves their mail's go too now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the same if they have verified you aswell it sould still say what they sed about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile."

On the flip side of this, the person who has been abused doesn't have to keep seeing the thread or messages if they haven't got round to deleting them. So less distressing for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile.

On the flip side of this, the person who has been abused doesn't have to keep seeing the thread or messages if they haven't got round to deleting them. So less distressing for them. "

Well said . Hope you are doing ok Mrs Wood .. Not spoken to you in ages xx

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By *ushtakerMan
over a year ago

Preston

One bad thing is that if you’ve had some good verifications and the posters leave you loose those too

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By *oxy BBWWoman
over a year ago

Home Counties

I’ve also noticed that some of my messages have disappeared even though the users are still on Fab As in the messages I’ve sent them and not because my mail box has been full. It’s been within a few hours/day of sending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One bad thing is that if you’ve had some good verifications and the posters leave you loose those too "

I know _ushtaker it sucks really sould still come up what they sed about you

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By *xDeclanxxMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

A lot of couples profiles are fake.

Alarm bells If the male is only available for play. You arrange a meet but the F mysteriously falls ill.

It's a way a single M can get replies on here by using a couples account.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile.

On the flip side of this, the person who has been abused doesn't have to keep seeing the thread or messages if they haven't got round to deleting them. So less distressing for them.

Well said . Hope you are doing ok Mrs Wood .. Not spoken to you in ages xx "

All good here hun, hope you're OK too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile.

On the flip side of this, the person who has been abused doesn't have to keep seeing the thread or messages if they haven't got round to deleting them. So less distressing for them.

Well said . Hope you are doing ok Mrs Wood .. Not spoken to you in ages xx

All good here hun, hope you're OK too xxx"

I'm Fabulous xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a profile now leaves all traces of their messaged leave to.

This is the most unfortunate thing Admin implemented as now unless u screen save their abusive messages admin have now given power to abusers as they can abuse and delete and you no longer have any trace or evidence.

It does mkes it better for admin as they have less issues from abusers as all evidence is gone but that sucks as they've given powered the abuser now in one simple move.

So if you get abusive messages you must screen save them and keep otherwise you'll soon find you have no evidence when the abuser deletes their profile.

On the flip side of this, the person who has been abused doesn't have to keep seeing the thread or messages if they haven't got round to deleting them. So less distressing for them. "

Yes that's possible, but you don't have to open them. You see their profile and save to report.

I've a friend right now who has had vile abuse by a fabber who has been lying and spreading vile rumours about her stalked her and then turned up at her work place making sure she saw him and gave her a thumbs up and left... letting her know he knows where she now works. She went to finally report him and he'd deleted his account and has since returned with a new account inside a day. So fab allows him to continue is work.

What's worse? Fab encouraging the ease of abuse or protecting it's good members?

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