FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've been getting alot of messages of the same person i presume being very nasty and abusive, but it always says the user is no longer on the site. I've tried reporting and blocking but its not working. Anybody any ideas? It happened last time i was on and unfortunately it got that bad i left as i couldn't firgure out a solution. Any help is appreciated

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters Block newbies and non verifieds etc.. people abusing amd leaving constantly probably wont bother getting verified etc

By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

Good advice.

However they can still get verified by sending a photo with site and date info that confirms gender, so bear in mind that this isn't 100% foolproof but it should make it too much hassle long term.

Hope you get it sorted OP

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Is this someone who is creating multiple new profiles just to contact you and send abuse?

If so the only thing you can do is make a few changes to your profile to make it harder for them to find you.

Change your username - site supporters can do this.

Change your location slightly by using a postcode a few miles from your real location.

Change your age by a few years - you can put a note on your profile explaining your real age and the reason why it is different.

Change your photos. Make sure you are not easily recognisable and that the pictures haven't been used anywhere else.

Also use your mail filters. Block newbies, unverified members, people with no public pictures and if it continues block all men from contacting you first and do the searching and messaging yourself.

By *addyBearTopMan
over a year ago

Dover

If the abuser has not left the site or has been removed. All that you have said is useless. What if the abuser has hotlisted the abused. The abuser is still going to see the changes.

It is a major problem on all swinging sites.