FabSwingers.com forum: Contacted by previously blocked members.

By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are two people on this site who seem to get kicks out of harassing me. I keep blocking, but they keep starting new profiles. They have admitted they are a couple but have single profiles. I blocked the guy for abuse, but this was before I knew we could report profiles, and he has since deleted and rejoined under a different pofile. I blocked that too and he's pretty much left me alone. But his wife keeps messaging me, I block her, she starts a new profile up (not deleting the old one) and I block that one too, and so on. I have her on my block list twice now.

Is there no way of preventing this? I know some people might think its flattering but she is pretty vile, and its creeping me out, especially as I know they live in the same city as me.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I would tell them if it does not stop you are going to contact the police. Unless they are really PC and internet litterate they will easily be traced. They will have left digital fingerprints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a guy who does exactly the same!

I have him on my block list 5 times over!

2 couples profiles

2 male profiles

And even a bogus female profile he invented!

I have reported this and absolutely nothing has been done!

I hid my profile then changed my username before I came back and that kept him off my back for a little while

Good luck chick x x

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have a guy who does exactly the same!

I have him on my block list 5 times over!

2 couples profiles

2 male profiles

And even a bogus female profile he invented!

I have reported this and absolutely nothing has been done!

I hid my profile then changed my username before I came back and that kept him off my back for a little while

Good luck chick x x"

I would have thought admin might show a bit of concern about a man who is obviously stalking you. At least I could take this woman in a fight, however creepy she is.

Come on admin, if it is a banning offence to contact someone who has blocked you through the forums, surely it should be an offence when blocked people set up a new profile just to get round the block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's my problem tho, he doesn't contact me directly but the people on my friends list or who have left me verifications, and then he befriends them pretending to be the victim!

That's why i now have to hide everything on my profile, it's really weird, he's really weird!

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

"There are two people on this site who seem to get kicks out of harassing me. I keep blocking, but they keep starting new profiles. They have admitted they are a couple but have single profiles. I blocked the guy for abuse, but this was before I knew we could report profiles, and he has since deleted and rejoined under a different pofile. I blocked that too and he's pretty much left me alone. But his wife keeps messaging me, I block her, she starts a new profile up (not deleting the old one) and I block that one too, and so on. I have her on my block list twice now.

Is there no way of preventing this? I know some people might think its flattering but she is pretty vile, and its creeping me out, especially as I know they live in the same city as me."

Suggest you block newbies via your filters page.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

And each instance admin needs to be aware of, you report and block.

Admin x

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