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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for some advice really, is there an option that allows people to view profiles without showing on list of people to last view, I hope so otherwise I quite supried at how many people can be so rude, not getting a reply is one thing even a polite no thanks would do, but seemingly deleting a message without even looking at a profile

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Yes, people have the option of looking at profiles without showing on the list. It is one of the privacy options.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I'm looking for some advice really, is there an option that allows people to view profiles without showing on list of people to last view, I hope so otherwise I quite supried at how many people can be so rude, not getting a reply is one thing even a polite no thanks would do, but seemingly deleting a message without even looking at a profile "

Its not rude not to reply its in the FAQs that a no reply means the person/s arent interested, some people get 100s of mails and cant possibly reply to them all most people just mass delete messages because they get that many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh at least that explains a few things thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just feel from a personal point of view that if I've taken the time to write and send pic etc and read profile it would be at least feel a bit better if if mine had been read and a polite no thanks would be nice or at lest make me feel a bit better

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I just feel from a personal point of view that if I've taken the time to write and send pic etc and read profile it would be at least feel a bit better if if mine had been read and a polite no thanks would be nice or at lest make me feel a bit better "

Yeah but do you know how many guys do that? Do you reply to all the unsolicted mail you receive? And then theres the whole no thanks reply and then getting a barrage of abuse from angry guys who cant take it.. its part and parcel of fab.. just move on, theres plenty others who will reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can only speak from a personal point but people who have replied that there not interested that's fine with me at least I know where I stand x as fur the plenty that will reply il take your word for it x

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I can only speak from a personal point but people who have replied that there not interested that's fine with me at least I know where I stand x as fur the plenty that will reply il take your word for it x"

Thats just how it is, having a negative outlook on things wont get you far.. patience and perseverance is key

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only speak from a personal point but people who have replied that there not interested that's fine with me at least I know where I stand x as fur the plenty that will reply il take your word for it x

Thats just how it is, having a negative outlook on things wont get you far.. patience and perseverance is

key"

Il keep trying then thanks x

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I can only speak from a personal point but people who have replied that there not interested that's fine with me at least I know where I stand x as fur the plenty that will reply il take your word for it x

Thats just how it is, having a negative outlook on things wont get you far.. patience and perseverance is

key

Il keep trying then thanks x"

Good luck... read the numerous help posts and get yourself out to clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, delete your sent mail as soon as its sent, that way you won't know what the recipient has done with it. You'll either get a reply or you won't, its that simple. You can't stress over it then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, delete your sent mail as soon as its sent, that way you won't know what the recipient has done with it. You'll either get a reply or you won't, its that simple. You can't stress over it then. "

That's sound like a good idea thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel from a personal point of view that if I've taken the time to write and send pic etc and read profile it would be at least feel a bit better if if mine had been read and a polite no thanks would be nice or at lest make me feel a bit better

Yeah but do you know how many guys do that? Do you reply to all the unsolicted mail you receive? And then theres the whole no thanks reply and then getting a barrage of abuse from angry guys who cant take it.. its part and parcel of fab.. just move on, theres plenty others who will reply"

This. I've tried the no thanks route only to get your fat n ugly comments. This place is not for the easily offended. Gotta have a thick skin. X

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I just feel from a personal point of view that if I've taken the time to write and send pic etc and read profile it would be at least feel a bit better if if mine had been read and a polite no thanks would be nice or at lest make me feel a bit better "

unfortunately, for you, most women are not here to make you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel from a personal point of view that if I've taken the time to write and send pic etc and read profile it would be at least feel a bit better if if mine had been read and a polite no thanks would be nice or at lest make me feel a bit better

unfortunately, for you, most women are not here to make you feel better."

And how would an inbox full of no thanks messages make you feel better??!

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