FabSwingers.com forum: Access to profiles

By *aul and sarah OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Why is it that members out of our age range or other discrepancies can look at our profile? I take a look at whose viewed us and want to contact them only to get a fairly offensive 'WHY'! it's not a feelgood reaction. It could say ....sorry, you are out of this persons age range! Xxxx

By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

What does it matter if they are only looking?

By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Every single person on Fab (and if you haven't set your privacy right, people not on Fab) can view your profile, unless you block that individual profile.

Maybe try reading their profile when you look at theirs, to see if you match what they are looking for, ie age range and interests, before mailing them. Saves you feeling bad when knocked back.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why is it that members out of our age range or other discrepancies can look at our profile? I take a look at whose viewed us and want to contact them only to get a fairly offensive 'WHY'! it's not a feelgood reaction. It could say ....sorry, you are out of this persons age range! Xxxx "

Are people messaging you saying "why?"?

If so go to your privacy settings and hide yourself from showing on who's looked at me.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant see someone's age range until you view their profile. if people have looked at your profile and not contacted you, its a pretty safe bet that they're not interested in you which may be why they're puzzled that you've then contacted them. There's no excuse for them being aggressive but maybe learn a lesson that will make your fab experience more rewarding...