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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have had the same guy contact us over and over and over again. We couldnt even tell you over the last 8 or 9 years how many accounts he's had and yes we have blocked every single account he has ever had.

Yet again we blocked and reported him. Enough was enough so this time we simply told him to Friday Off. Then we get a warning from fabs admins

We try to respond and of course there is no easy method to enter into communication with them.

How on earth is it acceptable for the same guy to continue to avoid the blocking system by simply deleting his account and starting get up yet another account under exactly the same username to contact us??

What is the point of having a blocking mechanism and a reporting mechanism if it's so easy to get round?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Is he abusing you or just contacting you? Are you sure it is the same man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No he's not abusing he just continues to defy the mechanisms in place to contact us. We have messaged him many times to say no. He simply has no decorum.

God knows what he would be like in a club. He simply doesn't understand no thanks. In fact in a club he would be removed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And yes. It is the same man without a shadow of doubt

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The only thing you can do is block. Most people can come and go on the site, because you don't like his contacting you is not really a reason for Admin to ban him.

We had a man who mailed us ever week for about 6 months, we just ignored him after answering the the first few, in fact I missed him when he stopped

How about blocking all men and mailing the ones you want to speak to?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

If not block newbies / non verified etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can fully understand that it's not a major concern for admins but clearly his behaviour is the sort which is not welcome on this site. Suspend your account. Hide, whatever, But to deliberately delete dozens and dozens of account for the purpose of contacting those that you are well aware have blocked you shows a pattern of behaviour that's not acceptable on the swinging scene. Therefore admins should consider further action.

Why should all single males be blocked because of one individuals lack of etiquette?

What's the point of a reporting process?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am just going on what you have said which is he doesn't abuse you, just mails you.

Of course if you think it needs reporting then it is worth doing so Admin can check it out

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've told a guy i met for a social a couple of years ago i don't wanna meet him again, every time he makes a new account he messages as well.

it's annoying, sometimes creepy depending on how he contacts me as well. at least we can block but that people without pics block needs sorting so nobody can get round that.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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can i just rant about guys who you tell them you're not interested in them and they seem to be stupid and not understand what that means?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can i just rant about guys who you tell them you're not interested in them and they seem to be stupid and not understand what that means? "

Feel free

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"can i just rant about guys who you tell them you're not interested in them and they seem to be stupid and not understand what that means?

Feel free"

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