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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any way I can allow women and couples to continue fabbing my photos, whilst blocking men from doing so?

It's my personal preference, I'm not homophobic. It's just bloody irritating when I see a photo has been fabbed, I get excited.. And oh wow, it's yet another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok a TV/TS has fabbed two pics for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go in your settings and block whoever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't stop them looking or fabbing unless you block each male that looks at your profile

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope.

Your only options for picture fabs are:

Allow anyone to fab your pics,

Stop everyone from fabbing your pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.

Your only options for picture fabs are:

Allow anyone to fab your pics,

Stop everyone from fabbing your pics."

That's what I feared. I know i should take it as a compliment instead of mild irritation. So apologies for my ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message. "

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? "

It sounds like your issue.

Finding a man paying your pics a compliment (not even a written or verbal compliment, just a click of a button!) 'irritating' is pretty odd if you don't have any problems with homosexuality.

You can insist otherwise, but all we have to judge on is what you're saying here.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue?

It sounds like your issue.

Finding a man paying your pics a compliment (not even a written or verbal compliment, just a click of a button!) 'irritating' is pretty odd if you don't have any problems with homosexuality.

You can insist otherwise, but all we have to judge on is what you're saying here."

Which is exactly why I went to pains to point out it wasn't a problem with homosexuality - so please lets not steer the conversation down that route.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S"

If someone fabbed my photo, I'd definitely see it as a sign I'm good to message that person.

I fab pics for same reasons you do, sometimes I just like the photo. But if any of them were interested in me, I'd be delighted. But I also use it as a tool to flirt with.

I know for a fact that many men try every tactic to get noticed. Every trick and can be very persistent. I'm a man. I've done it before when I first started all this. So don't tell me everyone just likes my picture taking or my fit bod.

My pics are crap and it's not my bod that's usually fabbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NICE COCK MATE PMSL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"NICE COCK MATE PMSL"

Point made.

Do I want to be told that on a regular basis, by people I've no attraction to?

Manners.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S"

One of the reasons I don't fab pics.

If I wanted to get in contact I know where the message button is, a fab, to me, just means I like the pic not that I want to get naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NICE COCK MATE PMSL

Point made.

Do I want to be told that on a regular basis, by people I've no attraction to?

Manners. "

So if a woman fabs you it's ok because you're attracted to every women on fab

If a couple fab you it's probably the guy of the couple or one of the many couples profiles where no women exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S

One of the reasons I don't fab pics.

If I wanted to get in contact I know where the message button is, a fab, to me, just means I like the pic not that I want to get naked."

Totally this!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S

One of the reasons I don't fab pics.

If I wanted to get in contact I know where the message button is, a fab, to me, just means I like the pic not that I want to get naked."

Exactly & why we ended up blocking all guys.

S

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

this is why i don't fab mens pics really. they think you wanna meet them then message you and i just wanna enjoy the pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally we Fab pics because we like them, unfortunately guys seem to think it's a precursor to send us the usual "Hi I noticed you fabbed..."..

For some it might be a precursor, but for many it is not, all it is an appreciation of a fit bod or of a well taken & thought out pic.

I as a male appreciate the effort made in either the bod or composition of a pic of other males and Fab on occasion. Doesn't mean I want to get close & personal.

There's a thing called messaging for that

S

One of the reasons I don't fab pics.

If I wanted to get in contact I know where the message button is, a fab, to me, just means I like the pic not that I want to get naked.

Totally this! "

What? You don't have an original thought of your own so you copy this..

And go and fab my pictures anyway.. in spite of what I've said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"NICE COCK MATE PMSL

Point made.

Do I want to be told that on a regular basis, by people I've no attraction to?

Manners.

So if a woman fabs you it's ok because you're attracted to every women on fab

If a couple fab you it's probably the guy of the couple or one of the many couples profiles where no women exists "

It's less mood killing than knowing a guys done it... So yes. I don't really give a toss if I'm attractive to guys.. Live and let live.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Akin to this issue though, we've always thought a block should be from everything, viewing profile, fabbing pics, public or not as well as just the messaging.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if you fab pictures of women and/or couples who aren't looking for single men?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I wonder if you fab pictures of women and/or couples who aren't looking for single men?"

Bet he does

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you fab pictures of women and/or couples who aren't looking for single men?

Bet he does

S"

surely not...it wouldn't be very respectful of their boundaries now would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like it's more than a mild irritation, but in the grand scheme of things a man fabbing your pics is pretty trivial, focus on the things you like about fab and ignore the rest.

When people fab my pics it makes me feel good, but I don't see it as any more than they like the picture it is simply that. But if they aren't fabbing pictures of your body put the one they are fabbing in friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if you fab pictures of women and/or couples who aren't looking for single men?

Bet he does

S

surely not...it wouldn't be very respectful of their boundaries now would it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NICE COCK MATE PMSL

Point made.

Do I want to be told that on a regular basis, by people I've no attraction to?

Manners.

So if a woman fabs you it's ok because you're attracted to every women on fab

If a couple fab you it's probably the guy of the couple or one of the many couples profiles where no women exists

It's less mood killing than knowing a guys done it... So yes. I don't really give a toss if I'm attractive to guys.. Live and let live. "

Why the post then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NICE COCK MATE PMSL

Point made.

Do I want to be told that on a regular basis, by people I've no attraction to?

Manners.

So if a woman fabs you it's ok because you're attracted to every women on fab

If a couple fab you it's probably the guy of the couple or one of the many couples profiles where no women exists

It's less mood killing than knowing a guys done it... So yes. I don't really give a toss if I'm attractive to guys.. Live and let live.

Why the post then "

Attention ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NICE SMALL COCK...spose its ok to floss with lmao!

Im not gay or bi..just cant resist taking the piss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love it.

I'm expected to respect everyone else's sexual preferences.

However, when I express my mild irritation at not being able to block a certain category of people - I'm the bad guy.

Couples, transgender and women are allowed opinions on the matter with no comeback.

Yet another case of single men being second class citizens of fab.

To the couple who pretty much accused me of fabbing women and couples pics who don't want men.. You know what? I don't. Before I fab, wink or message, I take time to read a profile. Unlike most on here.

I haven't posted anything hateful, homophobic or wrong. Just a question, followed by my reasoning. You don't have to like it.. But don't just assume or make shit up about me, because you've decided I'm a knob.

For the record.. You can all do one. I'm out of my own thread.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Well does it matter really..

Poor op has stropped off umpy..

And he did only ask a question. .lol

Be happy that other men think you look good..its a complaint. .same as if a women /couple fab ya..it doesn't matter who has..it matters they bothered..

Lets all chill ..and not worry..join the ..

Fab the peeps above thread..

Yr initial to yr question op...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well does it matter really..

Poor op has stropped off umpy..

And he did only ask a question. .lol

Be happy that other men think you look good..its a complaint. .same as if a women /couple fab ya..it doesn't matter who has..it matters they bothered..

Lets all chill ..and not worry..join the ..

Fab the peeps above thread..

Yr initial to yr question op... "

Why do I have to be happy about it? I don't want my pictures fabbed by men. Some may be appreciating my photos alone. But we all know the reasons the majority of people fab a photo don't we?

I'd be the first person to defend another who was being bullied, picked on or discriminated against for any reason.

Yet voice a personal opinion that's specifically my sexual preference. And I'm the one who is on the back foot.. Undertones of homophobia being directed my way, totally unjustified in my opinion.

People jumping on the bandwagon against me because the majority are misreading or misinterpreting my point.

The original issue is minor, I almost wish I hadn't brought it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of women op where you can get ogled at and chatted up by any man who feels like it, whether you encourage it or not (I'm talking real life here not just fabs).

I am genuinely perplexed though - having pics fabbed by women is ok, are you really attracted to every woman, would you consider every woman? If a woman is not appealing to you why don't you get as irritated by her unwanted attentions?

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Well does it matter really..

Poor op has stropped off umpy..

And he did only ask a question. .lol

Be happy that other men think you look good..its a complaint. .same as if a women /couple fab ya..it doesn't matter who has..it matters they bothered..

Lets all chill ..and not worry..join the ..

Fab the peeps above thread..

Yr initial to yr question op...

Why do I have to be happy about it? I don't want my pictures fabbed by men. Some may be appreciating my photos alone. But we all know the reasons the majority of people fab a photo don't we?

I'd be the first person to defend another who was being bullied, picked on or discriminated against for any reason.

Yet voice a personal opinion that's specifically my sexual preference. And I'm the one who is on the back foot.. Undertones of homophobia being directed my way, totally unjustified in my opinion.

People jumping on the bandwagon against me because the majority are misreading or misinterpreting my point.

The original issue is minor, I almost wish I hadn't brought it up.

"

U should be happy op..because. .now sit down...not everyone want to fuck u..yr not gods gift to everyone...

Some men look for ideas for there pics..to compere cock size..for a whole host of reasons...

U seem more wound up that men look and fab ..so don't show pics unless u message with one...

Really bud ..lifes to short..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well does it matter really..

Poor op has stropped off umpy..

And he did only ask a question. .lol

Be happy that other men think you look good..its a complaint. .same as if a women /couple fab ya..it doesn't matter who has..it matters they bothered..

Lets all chill ..and not worry..join the ..

Fab the peeps above thread..

Yr initial to yr question op...

Why do I have to be happy about it? I don't want my pictures fabbed by men. Some may be appreciating my photos alone. But we all know the reasons the majority of people fab a photo don't we?

I'd be the first person to defend another who was being bullied, picked on or discriminated against for any reason.

Yet voice a personal opinion that's specifically my sexual preference. And I'm the one who is on the back foot.. Undertones of homophobia being directed my way, totally unjustified in my opinion.

People jumping on the bandwagon against me because the majority are misreading or misinterpreting my point.

The original issue is minor, I almost wish I hadn't brought it up.

U should be happy op..because. .now sit down...not everyone want to fuck u..yr not gods gift to everyone...

Some men look for ideas for there pics..to compere cock size..for a whole host of reasons...

U seem more wound up that men look and fab ..so don't show pics unless u message with one...

Really bud ..lifes to short.. "

Don't tell me how I should feel, I'm as entitled to my opinion as you are.

I'm fully aware I'm not God's gift, I don't think everyone wants to fuck me.

I like to use the site the way I choose to.

It just strikes me as bizarre that I can't block it unless it's enmass with everyone else. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I did a photo shoot with a guy from fab, who has his own dungeon. His profile is quite intimidating, he told me that I had a nice cock. Never been told that before especially off a bloke. My wife thought it was well funny, I was well chuffed.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Well does it matter really..

Poor op has stropped off umpy..

And he did only ask a question. .lol

Be happy that other men think you look good..its a complaint. .same as if a women /couple fab ya..it doesn't matter who has..it matters they bothered..

Lets all chill ..and not worry..join the ..

Fab the peeps above thread..

Yr initial to yr question op...

Why do I have to be happy about it? I don't want my pictures fabbed by men. Some may be appreciating my photos alone. But we all know the reasons the majority of people fab a photo don't we?

I'd be the first person to defend another who was being bullied, picked on or discriminated against for any reason.

Yet voice a personal opinion that's specifically my sexual preference. And I'm the one who is on the back foot.. Undertones of homophobia being directed my way, totally unjustified in my opinion.

People jumping on the bandwagon against me because the majority are misreading or misinterpreting my point.

The original issue is minor, I almost wish I hadn't brought it up.

U should be happy op..because. .now sit down...not everyone want to fuck u..yr not gods gift to everyone...

Some men look for ideas for there pics..to compere cock size..for a whole host of reasons...

U seem more wound up that men look and fab ..so don't show pics unless u message with one...

Really bud ..lifes to short..

Don't tell me how I should feel, I'm as entitled to my opinion as you are.

I'm fully aware I'm not God's gift, I don't think everyone wants to fuck me.

I like to use the site the way I choose to.

It just strikes me as bizarre that I can't block it unless it's enmass with everyone else. End of. "

Well don't worry ..im sure every one thinks yr a dick now any way..lol

Good day chap.

Or chump

How ever ya FEELLLLLLLLLLL

Lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? "

Wow, how far in the closet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue?

Wow, how far in the closet?"

Excuse me? So I'm now bi or gay? Go educate yourself. Luckily I don't find that an insult, but your ignorance and lack of respect for a fellow person is.

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over a year ago

FCUK ALL THAT! why dont we ALL get together and mass fuck?! We can even measure n judge cocks..not in a gay way ..be a giggle!! Now hands UP whos game??!!!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Is there any way I can allow women and couples to continue fabbing my photos, whilst blocking men from doing so?

It's my personal preference, I'm not homophobic. It's just bloody irritating when I see a photo has been fabbed, I get excited.. And oh wow, it's yet another guy. "

I don't even look at who has fabbed me on my single profile or on this couple one. The OH does. Is looking at who has fabbed a male thing?

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

And this is why I never ask a question in the forums

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"And this is why I never ask a question in the forums "

I think you should because it really doesn't matter what people say. Its not the be all and end all ...

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre


"For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males?"

I thought that was just a funny way of saying lighten up...and I fabbed her photos right back into the bargain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males?

I thought that was just a funny way of saying lighten up...and I fabbed her photos right back into the bargain "

Tried to PM you after your thread exploded..

Just to say, chin up.. Don't worry about the flak.

You did pose a fair question, I think it was the thread title that made people think it was something else.

People get their knickers in a twist over the silliest things.

You can start a thread with the minutest issue with something and before you know it.. People start blocking you, harassing you and accusing you of all sorts.

End of the day, they're just making life easier for you on FAB. Always helps when people filter themselves out for you.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? "
You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre


"For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males?

I thought that was just a funny way of saying lighten up...and I fabbed her photos right back into the bargain

Tried to PM you after your thread exploded..

Just to say, chin up.. Don't worry about the flak.

You did pose a fair question, I think it was the thread title that made people think it was something else.

People get their knickers in a twist over the silliest things.

You can start a thread with the minutest issue with something and before you know it.. People start blocking you, harassing you and accusing you of all sorts.

End of the day, they're just making life easier for you on FAB. Always helps when people filter themselves out for you. "

Haha it's not a problem at all and I'm not worried by anything said on here to be fair...it made for a lively discussion if nothing else

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over a year ago


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means. "

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do".

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do". "
I think you have to expect it though not many swingers with conservative views. This is like an ideal platform for them to shove it in your face ( no pun intended)

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do". I think you have to expect it though not many swingers with conservative views. This is like an ideal platform for them to shove it in your face ( no pun intended) "

You should try the politics forum

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do". I think you have to expect it though not many swingers with conservative views. This is like an ideal platform for them to shove it in your face ( no pun intended)

You should try the politics forum"
And get ganged up on by a bunch of liberals no doubt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do". I think you have to expect it though not many swingers with conservative views. This is like an ideal platform for them to shove it in your face ( no pun intended)

You should try the politics forum And get ganged up on by a bunch of liberals no doubt "

I did... My Tony Blair post has already been hijacked by people discussing other British Prime Ministers, not the one I wanted to moan about lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"What harm is a man doing by fabbing your pics?

He's merely showing appreciation for something he likes.its not like he's messaging you and you have to use your precious time reading said message.

Honestly? Personally, I feel as though it's not respectful of my boundaries. I have bi, gay and transgender friends who I've known or still am close with.

But when I log into Fab I'm usually, though not always, feeling horny. I find being an object of sexual lust by a gender I am unattracted to.. A bit of a turn off. At the very least it's a little irritating to find out the wrong person for me, is attracted in some way.

There is another Fab, purposely for male on male fun, my profile is straight and I have to view a sea of cock everytime I use the forum.

But the forum is public and I expect it. By fabbing a picture you are sending a message, whether I want to receive it or not, by blocking all fabs, I lose the flirt and message sending of people I am interested in.

It doesn't bother me that much, like I say, it's a mild irritant.

For example.. The TV/TS from London (sorry I'm lost in thought and cannot remember your name). Why did you fab my pic? Are you genuinely interested in those photos? Possibly me? Are you looking to provoke a reaction? Are you testing me? Are you seeing whether I consider transgender the same way I view males? There is a hidden message in every fabbed photo.. It's usually sexually motivated, but not always.

End of the day, fab offers a free, add free, amazing service. I gave no right to complain, I'm not bothered enough to complain if I paid for service. But why give me an option to block individuals and groups in all contact.. Bar this?

You're welcome to judge how you like, you don't know me and probably assume incorrectly. I am a decent person who takes each individual how I find them, whatever colour, nationality, age, gender, sexuality or their level of physical or mental ability/disability.

Anyone else irritated or istit just my issue? You Sir are a homophobic bigot no I'm joking. I agree I don't want men or tv/ts to even be allowed to look at my profile I have blocked them but don't have public photos but it would irritate me. Unfortunately the so called 'liberals' are very illiberal these days and want to ban, censor and label everyone who just doesn't agree with them. They should look up what liberal actually means.

Well, it's refreshing to see another male admit the same feelings.

I may be wrong, but on the two large threads where it was brought up. I think you're the only male with big enough cojones to admit it. Respect.

Politically I'm a tree hugging, lofty, socialist pig dog. As I'm often described by the right.

But you're bang on with what you say, some people are so far left, so liberal, or so determined to give that impression - That they've gone full circle.

"Let's destroy all of those people who don't feel the same as we do". I think you have to expect it though not many swingers with conservative views. This is like an ideal platform for them to shove it in your face ( no pun intended)

You should try the politics forum And get ganged up on by a bunch of liberals no doubt

I did... My Tony Blair post has already been hijacked by people discussing other British Prime Ministers, not the one I wanted to moan about lol"

No liberals gang up on anyone there and very few dare to venture there anymore sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bemused as to why someone gabbing a pic would excite you.

It doesn't mean they're interested in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabbing! Ffs. Stupid iPhone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bemused as to why someone gabbing a pic would excite you.

It doesn't mean they're interested in you. "

If that's directed at me... Sorry if it isn't.

Then.. I fab pictures of women I find attractive. I fab the picture and send a wink later. If it's reciprocated I'll send a message. It's my online flirting.

I know everyone isn't the same as me.. A lot of you seem, or claim to be conisseurs of porn or photography.. Each to their own I guess.

But I know a lot of people, men especially, fab for the same reasons I do.

So when I see my picture has been fabbed 18 times as I've been driving round a new area. I'm disappointed that a) It's all men fabbing pictures of my cock. And b) A portion of them are letting me know they're attracted to me or using my photo as wank fodder. I find that sexually off putting and irritating.

But that's not my point, it never was in ANY of the posts I've brought it up in.

My point is.. How come Fab gives me the option to block messages and winks from men, but fabbed photos are everyone or nobody? It's bizarre.

No doubt that point will continue to be ignored, whilst everyone focuses on the fact I don't want to be fabbed by guys.

I enjoy the fabbing photo element. I don't want to block women and couples from being able to do it. So I'm stuck having to block all the guys who do, because a lot of them do it repeatedly and don't let up,so I block them all each time it happens.

You can argue the fact, if you want to concentrate on that issue alone, and ignore my main point. That receiving a fab from anyone you are not attracted to, could be annoying and off putting. I'd agree with you.

But there aren't fat filters or race filters or other more specific blocks. But there is an age and sex block, so why doesn't it apply to fabs?

I'm a little tired of explaining it now, I'm my own worst enemy, because I enjoy fighting my corner, I'll admit it's a fault at times.

Sorry if I've offended anyone, it wasn't intended to be offensive.

But if you can't handle the fact a straight male doesn't want to know if he's attractive to gay and bisexual men. Or feel I'm pathetic or homophobic for feeling that way. Is it my problem? Or yours?

It doesn't bother me enough to remove my pictures or block everyone from fabbing me.. So I guess therein lies the answer. It's a mild irritant that's been blown way out of proportion by people who can't accept me for who I am, or don't like me based on that fact alone.

Funny that. Isn't that an attitude gay and bisexual people have been battling for centuries? An attitude that transgender people are still battling

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ...."

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does. "

Maybe because as many others have explained it actually doesn't mean that, then you have to take that on board. Respecting their boundaries and all that

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does. "

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

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all my filters on that should say.

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

Maybe because as many others have explained it actually doesn't mean that, then you have to take that on board. Respecting their boundaries and all that "

Really? Why would someone fab my cock pic if they didn't like my cock? If I had a whopping 12" I'd be more inclined to agree with you. But it's just your average cock. The picture quality isn't great either.

So don't just say stuff. Yes you may fab a cock you like the look of and had no intention of climbing aboard. If you fabbed mine, I wouldn't assume you wanted me. Id be chuffed, but it's not a green light by any means. I'm not stupid.

Why am I expected to just like it or lump it? Just because others do? So I'm not going to take on board what people like yourself say, because you're wrong in this particular situation.

I have one picture that is regularly fabbed by women and Trans women. It is well taken and is of reasonable quality. Then I have the male cock fabs on an awful picture.

They either want it or like it, it's as simple as that really. If you look at my profile maybe you'll understand. Give me a good reason why a guy would fab my average, poorly taken cock pic and you may sway my view a little.

Oh there is another reason I forgot.. Many many men, I'd say around fifty, have fabbed it since this post went up.

So I guess you could add "Pathetic losers who delight in upsetting people" or "Vindictive arse holes" As a reason to fab it from now on.

Some attractive couples have too, but I dare not respond in kind at this moment, because I've been stung by nasty couples like that before. The male half happens to be bi, which doesn't bother me at all if they are happy playing straight as well. Only to get a vile message in return or an attempt to publicly expose me on the thread.

There are some cruel, nasty and vile people on here, as there is in any other walk of life.

Trouble is, this site is about being intimate with others and to be so you have to deal with being in a vulnerable position quite often.

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet. "

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? "

Just ignore them .... as a fab doesn't mean they are getting around your filters ....

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over a year ago

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? "

they can't message though, so you have stopped them.

if you're using pics to meet then you're using the site tools wrong basically, although i can get why you'd do that it doesn't make sense to when their are other ways people you want to meet can contact you.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? "
Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them. "

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi"
You just reinforced my point

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them?

Just ignore them .... as a fab doesn't mean they are getting around your filters ...."

I can't help but feel thats what's being attempted though. You're right, I should ignore it. But I see so many ignorant and rude guys ruining every aspect of this lifestyle. From clubs to dogging and on the web. It's wrong and they need it pointing out to them occasionally otherwise it's just acceptable behaviour.

I love Fab, I'll happily make myself a few enemies trying to make it a better place for all of us.

On the whole I do ignore it, but I let it bubble over occasionally and vent off a little steam.

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi"

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want.

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them. "

I think many guys are so desperate to have sex, they'll have sex with anything. They have no idea how to talk to people so get nowhere on fab and resort to having sex with other equally desperate guys. Resorting to sick tactics like making fake profiles so they can at least get a little attention.

Which is totally different from the bi couples who want the added excitement. Gay men I imagine tend to stick to Fabguys. I'm not lumping all bisexual men into that catergory, not even the majority. Just the ones who fab me when it's pretty clear the attention isn't wanted.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want. "

They are easy to spot though, the straight guys ....

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want.

They are easy to spot though, the straight guys ...."

I think I could fool you if I wanted to lmfao.. I don't think it's something you can tell to be brutally honest. I only say that because.. I didn't have a clue any of my gay friends were gay for quite some time, till they told me, or it came out in conversation. I've also incorrectly assumed many camp guys were gay or bi, when they weren't.

So I don't believe in gaydar.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want.

They are easy to spot though, the straight guys ....

I think I could fool you if I wanted to lmfao.. I don't think it's something you can tell to be brutally honest. I only say that because.. I didn't have a clue any of my gay friends were gay for quite some time, till they told me, or it came out in conversation. I've also incorrectly assumed many camp guys were gay or bi, when they weren't.

So I don't believe in gaydar. "

Straight guys are easy to spot, it just takes suggesting something involving another man and they are gone. They like the woman to be the centre of attention .... in any situation, which does actually suit a lot of woman. A lot of straight guys fool themselves by saying they are top only .....

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

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"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want.

They are easy to spot though, the straight guys ....

I think I could fool you if I wanted to lmfao.. I don't think it's something you can tell to be brutally honest. I only say that because.. I didn't have a clue any of my gay friends were gay for quite some time, till they told me, or it came out in conversation. I've also incorrectly assumed many camp guys were gay or bi, when they weren't.

So I don't believe in gaydar.

Straight guys are easy to spot, it just takes suggesting something involving another man and they are gone. They like the woman to be the centre of attention .... in any situation, which does actually suit a lot of woman. A lot of straight guys fool themselves by saying they are top only ..... "
What you are suggesting by fooling themselves being top only? Please elaborate, surely Straight men will always be top and just do the fucking.

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over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

i did read all your above reply and sort of get what you're saying.

the message inbox and the winks, and the filters that surround that, are basically what people use if they are interested in talking to and/or meeting people. it's why there are filters for those also.

the pics things can also be a tool for meeting but basically only for those who cannot message or wink to meet instead. so are outside of the interested persons filter.

this is why i feel most people being fabbed do not use pic fabs as meet options. but the option is there to get around message filters (presuming the fabbed person looks at who fabs their pics).

i don't think you're idea is pointless but i don't really support it as there is the option to tun off pics and i think too many men are desperate for meets and take every single bloody thing on here that someone does as they want to meet them.

i hardly fab pics unless i have all my filters off and feel confident i won't get a load of men messaging me asking to meet.

You hit the nail on the head. I get a very strong impression men are fabbing my cock, to get around my filters.

Which begs the question.. My original point.. Why can't I stop them? Also because straight seems to have lost it's meaning on here. They chance it thinking you might turn. A lot of gay guys want to turn straight men who wouldn't be straight if they met them anyway so it's kind of silly really. That's why they are on sites like this some of them.

I only meet bi men, and get loads of messages from 'straight' men, so who's to say who is straight or bi

Again you're right. Perhaps that's an area that needs looking at too. As I know many people don't or specifically do want to meet bi men. If that's their preference, it's not fair that people lie through their teeth and resort to every underhand tactic to get what they want.

They are easy to spot though, the straight guys ....

I think I could fool you if I wanted to lmfao.. I don't think it's something you can tell to be brutally honest. I only say that because.. I didn't have a clue any of my gay friends were gay for quite some time, till they told me, or it came out in conversation. I've also incorrectly assumed many camp guys were gay or bi, when they weren't.

So I don't believe in gaydar.

Straight guys are easy to spot, it just takes suggesting something involving another man and they are gone. They like the woman to be the centre of attention .... in any situation, which does actually suit a lot of woman. A lot of straight guys fool themselves by saying they are top only ..... "

Ah OK fair enough, you can't argue with that lol.

But how does the top thing trip them up. I thought some men liked it that way, some like it the other and some like both?

LOL you've piqued my curiosity I love all the intricacies of fab and all the kinks, even one's I'm not interested in.

Eg.. I find it fascinating foot fetish is predominantly a male thing and down to the miswiring of brain in most cases. Something I personally don't like, but interested in all the same. Same goes for squirting, the science I looked up says it's pretty much wee and other fluid, but I find the topic fascinating, even though I'd freak right out if a woman squirted when I was going down on her. Like I said, I'm basing that assumption on the websites I looked at. So not lookingrfor an argument on eithertsubject with anyone. Just using both as examples.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

They think they can still be straight if they get a bj from a man or are top ....

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

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"They think they can still be straight if they get a bj from a man or are top ...."
oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does. "

This is why most men don't get fabbed by very many females.

We get messaged the minute we do from guys who are sometimes incensed that, because we appreciated he has a decent picture rather than yet another angle of his cock, we're not gagging for the aforementioned

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I dont think fabbing a photo means someone fancies you or wants to meet ....

Well I've just explained for the billionth time.. For me and many others it does.

This is why most men don't get fabbed by very many females.

We get messaged the minute we do from guys who are sometimes incensed that, because we appreciated he has a decent picture rather than yet another angle of his cock, we're not gagging for the aforementioned "

Exactly that

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have guys as well as other people fabbing our photos even though we are looking for a lady. It doesn't bother us as it shows you that someone likes A) the way you look B) the actual photo or C) the creativity of the photo. No problem with that from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is boring now. He clearly seeks attention. I have had TVs gays Imbreds the lot liking mine. I think its a good confidence boost. Dont mean they wana bang your hoop! Ok now then rant over...lets all hook up and get it!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"This is boring now. He clearly seeks attention. I have had TVs gays Imbreds the lot liking mine. I think its a good confidence boost. Dont mean they wana bang your hoop! Ok now then rant over...lets all hook up and get it! "

What is it with you and this 'all hook up' business???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is boring now. He clearly seeks attention. I have had TVs gays Imbreds the lot liking mine. I think its a good confidence boost. Dont mean they wana bang your hoop! Ok now then rant over...lets all hook up and get it! "

I'm not seeking any more attention than you are. Only defending my view. OK it doesn't annoy you, well done, thanks for that. If it's boring you, why comment? Or you just trying to put me down? If so, well done for proving my point for me.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Is there any way I can allow women and couples to continue fabbing my photos, whilst blocking men from doing so?

It's my personal preference, I'm not homophobic. It's just bloody irritating when I see a photo has been fabbed, I get excited.. And oh wow, it's yet another guy. "
people fab a pic they appreciate or admire does not mean they fancy you!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Is there any way I can allow women and couples to continue fabbing my photos, whilst blocking men from doing so?

It's my personal preference, I'm not homophobic. It's just bloody irritating when I see a photo has been fabbed, I get excited.. And oh wow, it's yet another guy. people fab a pic they appreciate or admire does not mean they fancy you!"

We have been there with this one, because the Op and many others think it is the green light to meet, then it must be so, despite many other people saying it isnt

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Is there any way I can allow women and couples to continue fabbing my photos, whilst blocking men from doing so?

It's my personal preference, I'm not homophobic. It's just bloody irritating when I see a photo has been fabbed, I get excited.. And oh wow, it's yet another guy. "
you can turn this option off via your privacy page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha Thrillseekingmissile

Maybe you should be grateful men fab your photo ?? and ask yourself why women aren't fabbing it ??

It's a swingers site it already has a lot of restrictions and rules.

Personal I rarely fab a guy the with " Not looking for single guys" on there profile.

Don't want to waste my time.

If you are only getting men then block everyone cos you won't be missing anything

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