FabSwingers.com forum: Reporting profiles that say they can accomm when they can't

By *omerlady OP Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

I wondered where it stands with this situation.

I had a recent chain of messages with a couple on here and for once, it was some intelligent conversation. We got to the point of arranging a social and possibly fun back at theirs and then I am told that they live separately and neither can accommodate. But there is a lovely secluded place we can all go for some car fun.

Obviously I know about blocking, but is this reportable? I rarely engage with anyone unless they can accommodate and I have spent time writing quite a number of messages. Others may disagree but in my eyes, this is a pair of timewasters.

They do now state they can't accommodate so at least I got through to them in that respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So... what if they can accommodate and their profile says so... but the time you want to meet.. they have a relative staying?

Are they expected to change it daily?

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By *omerlady OP Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

"So... what if they can accommodate and their profile says so... but the time you want to meet.. they have a relative staying?

Are they expected to change it daily?"

Nope, that's not what I am saying and my apologies if that wasn't clear.

They are unable to accommodate at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share a travellodge

Only a score each xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... what if they can accommodate and their profile says so... but the time you want to meet.. they have a relative staying?

Are they expected to change it daily?

Nope, that's not what I am saying and my apologies if that wasn't clear.

They are unable to accommodate at all. "

We can definitely accommodate

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So... what if they can accommodate and their profile says so... but the time you want to meet.. they have a relative staying?

Are they expected to change it daily?

Nope, that's not what I am saying and my apologies if that wasn't clear.

They are unable to accommodate at all. "

Well I suppose it just goes down with the rest of the lies people tell on profiles.

But be careful with home meets.. you never know who people are

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I can't see how saying they can accom on their profile but can't or don't want to have you round their home is breaking site rules.

Accom can also mean they are willing to go to a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see how saying they can accom on their profile but can't or don't want to have you round their home is breaking site rules.

Accom can also mean they are willing to go to a hotel."

Never thought of that... yea maybe they would accom but some people worry them lol

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

"I wondered where it stands with this situation.

They do now state they can't accommodate so at least I got through to them in that respect. "

OP. I get where you're coming from - stating they can accommodate making you believe it's at their home. They should have been clear during messaging about their perception of accommodation.

Travelodges a score each! Blimey where do you go? All around me they're £100 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do a travel lodge

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I have had a similar situation with people saying on their profile they don't smoke, and they have obviously been smokers.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

They may well be able to accommodate .... but that doesnt mean they can ALL of the time .....also they are within their rights to accommodate only people whom they feel comfortable with ..... and can on the day change their mind ....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No there isn't a report option for that

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By *ick RapidMan
over a year ago

coventry

People who report remind me of police, why be a grass ? It's not big and it's not clever and it's cowardly

Deal with it yourself by finding someone else or not speaking to them.

Reporting them sounds like you haven't got nothing better to do accept tell off people who upset you

Lol

Please don't report me

Actually I don't even care I just hate people who snitch remind me of rats lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a similar situation with people saying on their profile they don't smoke, and they have obviously been smokers.

I relate to that - now I only meet people who state they won't meet smokers

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By *awpleasureMan
6 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"So... what if they can accommodate and their profile says so... but the time you want to meet.. they have a relative staying?

Are they expected to change it daily?"

Exactly this. I can accommodate sometimes but it's becoming less due to my son being here more. I find it easier just to go with cannot rather than can.

Just seen a profile where it says if you can't accomm and message you will be blocked. That's fair enough but imagine if there were filters in place to stop those who cant accomm from messaging. Many people would lie as to whether they can accomm.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

My profile text does indicate you must accommodate but of course the profiles that read that are few and far between.

I agree that being able to accommodate can change but I’m sure there are profiles tha cannot but indicate they do, so block them and move on.

This site is full of liars, cheating husbands, and disrespectful men. Of course not all but a whole heap of merde.

Choose your course and don’t deviate. Your profile, your rules.

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By *awpleasureMan
6 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"My profile text does indicate you must accommodate but of course the profiles that read that are few and far between.

I agree that being able to accommodate can change but I’m sure there are profiles tha cannot but indicate they do, so block them and move on.

This site is full of liars, cheating husbands, and disrespectful men. Of course not all but a whole heap of merde.

Choose your course and don’t deviate. Your profile, your rules.

Merde is a word I've never come across before. I shall start using it, thanks Trixie

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Unfortunately people on here will lie to make themselves look more appealing and get meets.

I think its wrong to say you can accom when you can't, I wonder if they were married to other people. You get quite a few married buddies on here.

Years ago I was chatting to a bloke, I was happy to accom once I knew someone. He said he accommodated and we were gonna have a social.

He said if we hit it off,we can go to yours. I said I thought he accommodated, he came up with several excuses as to why not.

It was obvious he couldn't accom, but had written he could.

I didn't meet him, it's a small lie but annoying, so I get where the op is coming from.

It sounds like that couple never accom, so they shouldn't have told her they could. Especially if she tells people that she can't accom and only meets those who can.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The man I was chatting to, made no mention of accommodating in a hotel or anywhere else. He just expected me to invite him to mine.

If someone can only accom in a car or hotel, I'd expect to see that on their profile.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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6 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"My profile text does indicate you must accommodate but of course the profiles that read that are few and far between.

I agree that being able to accommodate can change but I’m sure there are profiles tha cannot but indicate they do, so block them and move on.

This site is full of liars, cheating husbands, and disrespectful men. Of course not all but a whole heap of merde.

Choose your course and don’t deviate. Your profile, your rules.

Merde is a word I've never come across before. I shall start using it, thanks Trixie"

Merde - French for shit

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By *awpleasureMan
6 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"My profile text does indicate you must accommodate but of course the profiles that read that are few and far between.

I agree that being able to accommodate can change but I’m sure there are profiles tha cannot but indicate they do, so block them and move on.

This site is full of liars, cheating husbands, and disrespectful men. Of course not all but a whole heap of merde.

Choose your course and don’t deviate. Your profile, your rules.

Merde is a word I've never come across before. I shall start using it, thanks Trixie

Merde - French for shit"

At least it's an actual word. My son who is 18 keeps using the word 'mid'

Everything to him is mid. I've worked it out as average.

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